Abusive relationships

[Scada]

16 minutes ago, TensionNahiLeneka said:

following like @Scada

long time no see ankul 

[proudtobeandhrite]

1 hour ago, DaVinci said:

do the person abusing his/her partner realize the trauma they are causing to their partners? Chaala generalized question ayi undochu

Chaala relationships lo one partner is more giving than the other..instead of feeling lucky, daani weakness la teesukoni partner ni abuse/harrass chesthu vaalaki narakam chupinche vaalu society lo chaala mandey unnaru. For one reason or another, inka relationship nundi tappichukoleka barinchevaalu kuda entha mando unnaru.. barinchelaka extreme measures teesukune ammayakulu unnaru.. 

I really wish there are more avenues to come out and discuss - to heal oneself - these things; and whoever is going through such abuse and exploitation find more organic methods to deal with/come out of such relationships. 

 

 

The abuser wouldn't realize it. Abuser spectrum lo vunna most people will change when their actions are confronted. Rest of them can be categorized as mentally ill anyway.

As far as indian men are considered, they are fed with notion that they are superior. This kind of mindset makes them believe them whatever they do is right (They don't realize they are abusing). Empathy and Compassion are the traits that counter abusing mentality.   May be having a pet growing up would improve peoples emapthy/compassion levels.

[TensionNahiLeneka]

5 minutes ago, Scada said:

long time no see ankul 

busy ayina , and anni #MODALERTS and attention seeking posts. inka DB ki konchem regular ga raalenu. 

[proudtobeandhrite]

14 minutes ago, DannyArcher said:

Mostly ammayilu chestaru emotional blackmail etc., 

G meda tannu abuse chesta .

Which says that men are emotionally weak.

Men tantrums are child like. They blackmail women saying they would divorce, wouldnt support etc etc to satisy their ego (no logic).