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[kevinUsa]

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An arranged marriage story but to a known person.

Since the early stage of marrige we had small misunderstandings(family problems not personal) as we both were working in dffrnt country .. those small misunderstandings started to grow in size day by day.. when the arguements fights started growing he said he don have any love on me as he is so mentally tired with it and he said to his family that he wanted divorce with me as he don like to live with me i am not adjusting with him and i am torturing him and so and so with extra masala.. later i quit my job and rejected good job offers and moved in with him.. slowly things started changing and we were happy but i started to notice that he is being so secretive with his phone.. he never keep his phone down. He often change password.. whenever i go near him while using phone he dim the brightness.. i have been noticing this for 1 and a half year now i even asked him about that but he used to say he is texting to his collegue/ friend.. sometimes he blush looking at his phone and even i kid him asking what s the reason for ur blushing.. he used to say friends kidding me in group so.. i was moreover a friend to him than wife..though i was possesive i never showed him.. i doubt also but later regret believing that he wont do such thing.. so yes this has been continuing and one day he was texting someone with low brightness i grabbed his phone suddenly and could see only the name (unfortunately nick name was only saved for the contact) he was tensed and grabbed back again from me.. i asked him wat is so secretive that he don want to share with me.. he said he has some privacy which he don like anyone to interfere.. from thn on i felt something fishy s going around.. i started to notice evrthing.. he never speaks in his phone whenever he is home if get call also he wont pick it..but whenever he is out and i call him it will b always in waiting or busy.. i even asked him directly if he has any other affair so that we will sit and sort out..he get mad on me whenever i ask him..he used to say that i am not broad minded don take thing easily thats why im doubting.. 
One fine day i decided i will snoop in his phone .. i took his phone when he was sleeping.. i put his fingerprint opened it .. and it was really heart wrenching  when i saw his lovely chessy messages and pics with a girl.. Yes, i read through most of their messages were got to know they were in a relationsip for more than 2 years( we are married for 2 years and 3 months now). i asked him next day, beginning he din accept later when i showed him proof he accepted.. He felt guilty.. i talked with him cried for almost 4 hours that day and even asked him if he want to continue that relationship with that girl he said no as he was already in a situation to cut off with that girl but couldn't.. i was also broken, whom i belived and trusted so much has done all these which i never dreamed off even.. its been an month since problem started i din talk much with him..i feel totally disconnected from him.. and now i have no idea if he is still continuing as i am really mentally tired that i cant still spy on him anymore.. those messages which i read are killing me inside.. P.S : that girl kno that he is married and there were convo wer my husband saying her he will get divorce soon from me.. got to know they meet alternative days and weeknds also.. whenever my husband go out he used to say he is going to meet friends and he come home late night also..i trusted him so i never stopped him from going.. but i was betrayed.. i din share all this with our family.. i know an volcanic eruption will happen and neither my friends know.. i don want to degrade him among thm.. I am really depressed and confused how to move on 😔😔 
With a heavy heart thought to share this anonymously.
#RealLifeConfession 

A piece of known advice:
Transparency is very essential in an relationship . Checking each other phone doesnt mean distrust or being insecure at the situation , It is really ok to check each other phone in order to maintain relationship healthier.. "

[bostonBOSS]

endi ra nee badha

[DannyArcher]

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[Ram59]

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[kevinUsa]

1 minute ago, DannyArcher said:

Uncle e stories ekada nunchi testukunav ? 

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[kevinUsa]

2 minutes ago, bostonBOSS said:

endi ra nee badha

Nice story no bro 

[DannyArcher]

3 minutes ago, kevinUsa said:

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[kevinUsa]

44 minutes ago, DannyArcher said:

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