kurchune job e ga..goppemundi...how many faced this from spouses

[kathanayaka]

Just now, AleAle said:

working women QA BA ani why generalizing ??

abbah...majority le...ippudu women population with skills pie chart veyyala enti....

[riashli]

3 minutes ago, AFDB_Director said:

I think it's all about understanding between partners. we both work and both share household chores. naku opika lekapote, she will take care of everything, I will do the same thing. nuvve cook cheyali, nuvve diapers change cheyyali, nene groceries tevali ani rules em levu. all chores are shared and evariki opika unte vallaki. 

some people said QA BA lanti easy peasy jobs kante architect lanti jobs kashtam ani. old client deggara oka QA resource unde, she knows in and out functional knowledge, aamene sathayinche vallu andharu, even so called architects. she used to be super busy and super helpful all the time. no job is easy or no job is difficult!!!

TS cheppina case lo, if house wife/home maker is appreciated with the things she do at home, she will also do the same. these are simple things. we need to appreciate others for what they do honestly, this will create a friendly environment both at professional and personal level. 

male ego hurt ayye matalu cheppoddu.. wife ni control lo pettadam important

[Ram60]

10 minutes ago, riashli said:

Endi meeru control lo pettedi? Ekkuva Cheste aa vankayi kura ki kuda dikku undadu

ekkuva cheste vidaakule ane rojullo kuda.. ekkuva cheste aa vankai kura kuda dikku undadu antunnav sudu.. nuvvu keka amma.. 

[AleAle]

17 minutes ago, kathanayaka said:

vella reasoning entate...nuvvu 8 hours job nenu 8 hours job or house hold tasks...piccha M lu apples to apples compare cheyyaru..

an ML Engineer is not same as manual QA though both are sitting in front of computer 8 hours..

neither 8 hours Physical work is not same as 8 hours mental work....

see cant generalize looks like ur wife is like that , andari wives ala undaru 

relationship success avvali ante first one ila matalu toh harass cheykudadu 

[kasi]

14 minutes ago, riashli said:

Inti Pani lo mental stress undadu antav anthena?? 

see nee lanti vala thi problem idhea 

nenu IT gurinchi chepthea, nuvu home making gurinchi endhuku comparing 

Home making is equally challenging as any other job 

one shouldn't make fun of what others are doing 

[AleAle]

1 minute ago, kathanayaka said:

abbah...majority le...ippudu women population with skills pie chart veyyala enti....

cant generalize majority kuda doubte 

 

[riashli]

1 minute ago, kasi said:

see nee lanti vala thi problem idhea 

nenu IT gurinchi chepthea, nuvu home making gurinchi endhuku comparing 

Home making is equally challenging as any other job 

one shouldn't make fun of what others are doing 

Ts made no, chesedi vankayi kura kada Ani

[AleAle]

1 minute ago, kasi said:

see nee lanti vala thi problem idhea 

nenu IT gurinchi chepthea, nuvu home making gurinchi endhuku comparing 

Home making is equally challenging as any other job 

one shouldn't make fun of what others are doing 

what about women working in IT as so called developers, architects and looking at children, home making chestu  vallani em antaru 

ipdu seperate category vachindi women working+home making  adi challenging multi tasking thing and still managing and happy 

[AleAle]

9 minutes ago, AFDB_Director said:

I think it's all about understanding between partners. we both work and both share household chores. naku opika lekapote, she will take care of everything, I will do the same thing. nuvve cook cheyali, nuvve diapers change cheyyali, nene groceries tevali ani rules em levu. all chores are shared and evariki opika unte vallaki. 

some people said QA BA lanti easy peasy jobs kante architect lanti jobs kashtam ani. old client deggara oka QA resource unde, she knows in and out functional knowledge, aamene sathayinche vallu andharu, even so called architects. she used to be super busy and super helpful all the time. no job is easy or no job is difficult!!!

TS cheppina case lo, if house wife/home maker is appreciated with the things she do at home, she will also do the same. these are simple things. we need to appreciate others for what they do honestly, this will create a friendly environment both at professional and personal level. 

+100

[AFDB_Director]

6 minutes ago, riashli said:

male ego hurt ayye matalu cheppoddu.. wife ni control lo pettadam important

lol, Three relationships where you shouldn't have EGO clashes is with parents, kids and spouses. but again, it depends on their character, situations and environment they grew up. 

[kasi]

4 minutes ago, AleAle said:

what about women working in IT as so called developers, architects and looking at children, home making chestu  vallani em antaru 

ipdu seperate category vachindi women working+home making  adi challenging multi tasking thing and still managing and happy 

neeku asalu brain unda.....ikkada discussion enti, ne point enti???

[kakatiya]

17 minutes ago, riashli said:

Anduke koncham intlo Pani chestu calories burn cheyali, Appudu heart attack lu ravu

Weekends vasthe ..intlo pani ..Anni cheyalsindhi uncles eh kada ani agraharam lo.talk.

Like vaccumming.. etc etc 

[kasi]

9 minutes ago, riashli said:

male ego hurt ayye matalu cheppoddu.. wife ni control lo pettadam important

inka male ego enti?? intlo vala mundhea orey antuntea.....

nee age entha??? mid 40s aa

[riashli]

11 minutes ago, Ram60 said:

ekkuva cheste vidaakule ane rojullo kuda.. ekkuva cheste aa vankai kura kuda dikku undadu antunnav sudu.. nuvvu keka amma.. 

Aa dp enti funny ga undi 😀

[riashli]

3 minutes ago, kakatiya said:

Weekends vasthe ..intlo pani ..Anni cheyalsindhi uncles eh kada ani agraharam lo.talk.

Like vaccumming.. etc etc 

Eppudu Pani Appudu Cheste weekend andaru relax avvochu ga

1 minute ago, kasi said:

inka male ego enti?? intlo vala mundhea orey antuntea.....

nee age entha??? mid 40s aa

Ey oorlo