Howz kids life without father?

[Athadu007]

If any one grew up like that faced any issues without father? 

I am just thinking of my kids asking this.

Update:To put it straight what are the struggle kids are going to face without father? Money I can buy some insurance so hope it covers major money issues like studies and stay.

[gaalipatam]

4 minutes ago, Athadu007 said:

If any one grew up like that faced any issues without father? 

I am just thinking of my kids asking this.

Most of the cases Kids without father turn out to be bastards, criminals basically anti social elements. If mother is strong enough then there is no danger they can survive and become responsible citizens.

[Spartan]

neek life insurance unda..?

[Athadu007]

19 minutes ago, Spartan said:

neek life insurance unda..?

I see what you are saying Ledu tesukontuna.

[Athadu007]

23 minutes ago, gaalipatam said:

Most of the cases Kids without father turn out to be bastards, criminals basically anti social elements. If mother is strong enough then there is no danger they can survive and become responsible citizens.

Thats ok what they become , i am concerned will they get like love effection caring or what they want if father is not there but some insurance money is there.

[gaalipatam]

16 minutes ago, Athadu007 said:

Thats ok what they become , i am concerned will they get like love effection caring or what they want if father is not there but some insurance money is there.

No one can replace the father. Father is the shield who always protects kids in all circumstances. Father is their hero who is very strong and sweet at the same time. I used to wait for my father to return from office and check his bag everyday to see what he has for me. oka vela girl child unte chala kashtam. Ammai perugutunte prati okadu kannu vestadu eppudu longadeesukovalani plus Ammai kuda chedu tirugudu tirugochu due do absence father and restrictions.

[Sachin200]

29 minutes ago, Athadu007 said:

I see what you are saying Ledu tesukontuna.

Life insurance ki certain time untadhi . Eyala teeskuni repu cheskunte ivadu except real accident / health related ayitey . 

Edhanna reasons identify chestaru and medicine field intha develop ayaka not easy to bluff them 

[lovable]

1 hour ago, Athadu007 said:

If any one grew up like that faced any issues without father? 

I am just thinking of my kids asking this.

Update:To put it straight what are the struggle kids are going to face without father? Money I can buy some insurance so hope it covers major money issues like studies and stay.

Niku emyna India lo properties unte ammesi appu teerchu.. mi wife Ni convince chey.. India velli malli new job and life start chey.. 

anthe kani mi pillalni endhuku kastapedthav...

[No_body_friends]

44 minutes ago, Athadu007 said:

I see what you are saying Ledu tesukontuna.

Suicide ki life insurance pay cheyyaru

[lovemystate]

are you planning to divorce ?

[DummyVariable]

Basically the worst thing you can do for society and your kids is to be a single mother; by largely every metric possible the child comes off worse - salary, crime rate, ability to hold down a job, education level, poverty etc.

70% of runaways, 70% of juvenile delinquents, and 70% of Child murderers, come from single mother homes. Richard E. Redding, “It’s Really About Sex”, Duke Univ. Journal of Gender Law and Policy, Jan.1, 2008

63% of all youth suicides, 70% of all teen pregnancies, 71% of all adolescent chemical/substance abusers, 80% of all prison inmates, and 90% of all homeless and runaway children, came from single mother homes. Bob Ray Sanders, “Hey Y’all, Let’s Fill The Hall (Of Fame), Ft. Worth Star Telegram, Oct.28,2007 Mona Charen, “More Good News Than Bad?”, Washington Times, Mar.16, 2001 (citing Bill Bennett, “The Index of Leading Cultural Indicators: American society at the end of the 20th Century., New York, Broadway Books, 1994)

Children brought up in single mother homes are: 5 times more likely to commit suicide, 9 times more likely to drop out of high school, 10 times more likely to abuse chemical substances, 14 times more likely to commit rape, 20 times more likely to end up in prison, 32 times more likely to run away from home. Chuck Eddy, “The Daddy Shady Show”, Village Voice, Dec. 31, 2002

etc. etc. etc.

You'll find plenty of news articles by Jezebel and the like (who want to push the "you go girl" narrative as heavily as they can because that's basically their only market) trying to say that this isn't the case; but once you dive into some good ol sociology statistics and studies you find out that there really is a huge correlation.

Now, obviously being a single mother itself is not causing this to happen; but the side effects of being a single mother such as children missing out on strong masculine role models, reduced total income, perhaps the effect on their relationships from seeing a dysfunctional relationship as their "default status" and whatever other issues you can think of are the causative factors

[DummyVariable]

Just now, DummyVariable said:

Basically the worst thing you can do for society and your kids is to be a single mother; by largely every metric possible the child comes off worse - salary, crime rate, ability to hold down a job, education level, poverty etc.

70% of runaways, 70% of juvenile delinquents, and 70% of Child murderers, come from single mother homes. Richard E. Redding, “It’s Really About Sex”, Duke Univ. Journal of Gender Law and Policy, Jan.1, 2008

63% of all youth suicides, 70% of all teen pregnancies, 71% of all adolescent chemical/substance abusers, 80% of all prison inmates, and 90% of all homeless and runaway children, came from single mother homes. Bob Ray Sanders, “Hey Y’all, Let’s Fill The Hall (Of Fame), Ft. Worth Star Telegram, Oct.28,2007 Mona Charen, “More Good News Than Bad?”, Washington Times, Mar.16, 2001 (citing Bill Bennett, “The Index of Leading Cultural Indicators: American society at the end of the 20th Century., New York, Broadway Books, 1994)

Children brought up in single mother homes are: 5 times more likely to commit suicide, 9 times more likely to drop out of high school, 10 times more likely to abuse chemical substances, 14 times more likely to commit rape, 20 times more likely to end up in prison, 32 times more likely to run away from home. Chuck Eddy, “The Daddy Shady Show”, Village Voice, Dec. 31, 2002

etc. etc. etc.

You'll find plenty of news articles by Jezebel and the like (who want to push the "you go girl" narrative as heavily as they can because that's basically their only market) trying to say that this isn't the case; but once you dive into some good ol sociology statistics and studies you find out that there really is a huge correlation.

Now, obviously being a single mother itself is not causing this to happen; but the side effects of being a single mother such as children missing out on strong masculine role models, reduced total income, perhaps the effect on their relationships from seeing a dysfunctional relationship as their "default status" and whatever other issues you can think of are the causative factors

Got this from the internet.

[lovemystate]

2 minutes ago, DummyVariable said:

Basically the worst thing you can do for society and your kids is to be a single mother; by largely every metric possible the child comes off worse - salary, crime rate, ability to hold down a job, education level, poverty etc.

70% of runaways, 70% of juvenile delinquents, and 70% of Child murderers, come from single mother homes. Richard E. Redding, “It’s Really About Sex”, Duke Univ. Journal of Gender Law and Policy, Jan.1, 2008

63% of all youth suicides, 70% of all teen pregnancies, 71% of all adolescent chemical/substance abusers, 80% of all prison inmates, and 90% of all homeless and runaway children, came from single mother homes. Bob Ray Sanders, “Hey Y’all, Let’s Fill The Hall (Of Fame), Ft. Worth Star Telegram, Oct.28,2007 Mona Charen, “More Good News Than Bad?”, Washington Times, Mar.16, 2001 (citing Bill Bennett, “The Index of Leading Cultural Indicators: American society at the end of the 20th Century., New York, Broadway Books, 1994)

Children brought up in single mother homes are: 5 times more likely to commit suicide, 9 times more likely to drop out of high school, 10 times more likely to abuse chemical substances, 14 times more likely to commit rape, 20 times more likely to end up in prison, 32 times more likely to run away from home. Chuck Eddy, “The Daddy Shady Show”, Village Voice, Dec. 31, 2002

etc. etc. etc.

You'll find plenty of news articles by Jezebel and the like (who want to push the "you go girl" narrative as heavily as they can because that's basically their only market) trying to say that this isn't the case; but once you dive into some good ol sociology statistics and studies you find out that there really is a huge correlation.

Now, obviously being a single mother itself is not causing this to happen; but the side effects of being a single mother such as children missing out on strong masculine role models, reduced total income, perhaps the effect on their relationships from seeing a dysfunctional relationship as their "default status" and whatever other issues you can think of are the causative factors

if you are middle class or higher middle class then it doesnst matter that much. In america almost 25% of white kids are also from single mother most of them do just fine. Its still more to do with poverty than anything intrisinically wrong with single mother.

[cosmopolitan]

 chinapudu thintaniki leka.. patha papers ichi oka potlam rice thisukosthunde ma daddy.. entha kastam vachina he did his best maku and maku chaduvu chepinchadu.. appula valu enni thitina he stood strong and slow ga we got out of that mess. it took atleast 15 years for us.. eroju andharam  happy.. ikada db lo una valu kuda most of them alanti situations undi untayi..now my father is a hero to me.. sachipoyi ma ayya life lo odipoyi sachipoyadu ani chepinchukuntavo.. hero anipinchukuntavo .. ni istam..

[nag_mama]

2 hours ago, Athadu007 said:

If any one grew up like that faced any issues without father? 

I am just thinking of my kids asking this.

Update:To put it straight what are the struggle kids are going to face without father? Money I can buy some insurance so hope it covers major money issues like studies and stay.

niku ooodaarpu kavalaaa nayanaa, ippudu DB memebers andaru vachhi nuvvu chavoddu ani brathimiladali antav