Howz kids life without father?

[Sachin200]

3 minutes ago, MagaMaharaju said:

Kids most likely turn out to be cowards and pessimistic 

They would want to give up for every petty problem 

again it’s all individual choice. When certain unwanted things happen in life, people can turn out to be strong and compassionate 

or cruel and negative.

 

Chivariki destiny antav 

[MagaMaharaju]

Just now, Sachin200 said:

Chivariki destiny antav 

Many factors untay. I believe in genes too

[Sachin200]

Just now, MagaMaharaju said:

Many factors untay. I believe in genes too

🙄

[MagaMaharaju]

Just now, Sachin200 said:

🙄

Ninna son of satyamurthy lo chepparu

goppollaki goppa biddal pudtharu ani

[Sachin200]

1 minute ago, MagaMaharaju said:

Ninna son of satyamurthy lo chepparu

goppollaki goppa biddal pudtharu ani

Nee la antava amiti?🤔

 

[Katti_Ramdas]

Bokka raa ne bokka

[Athadu007]

నేను చేసేది తపో రైట్ ఓ తెలీదు కానీ బట్ నేను వున్నా డబ్బు లేదని న పిల్లలు బాధపడటం కాయం, స్పెషల్లీ అమ్మాయికి పెళ్లి చేయాలంటే ఎన్ని ఇయర్స్ అయినా డబ్బు లేకపోతాయ్ కష్టం, ఆలా అని ఎవడికి పడితే వాడికి ఇచ్చే చేయలేము, 

పాపం ఆ కాస్మోపాలిటన్ గారు రాసిన వర్డ్స్ , జరిగిన ఇన్సిడెంట్స్ చూస్తే మాత్రం కనిళ్ళు ఆగలేదు నిజంగా. 

@నాగ్_మామ గారు ఐ డోంట్ నీద యొరు సింపతీ ఓర ఏనీ వన్ సింపతీ ఐ అం గోయింగ్ టో డో వాట్ ఐ నీద టో డో. ఐ అం లూకింగ్ అటు కాన్సెక్యూన్సెస్ అంతే.

ఠంక్ యు @దర్న్ ఆర్చర్, ఐ వాంట్ టో ఫైట్ బట్ ఐ అం వీక్ టో ఫైట్ ఫర్ లాంగ్ ఎనఫ్. 

@simple123 I am  35 , ఇంకో 25  ఇయర్స్ I can work,  బట్ ఇన్ usa  ఐ డోంట్ థింక్ I can able to work more than 5 years. 

5 years lo nenu sampdincehdhi Max 20k * 5  = 100k, if things goes as per plan, but not 100% sure.  so next india lo maximum 5 lakhs savings i.e. 8K . 

ante 8k * 20 = 160k.  If I am insured for  200k or 300k then my family gets the full amount. 

But father leni pillalu kastalu valla weak mind chaduvuthunte chala badha anipisthundhi, anni problem vuntaya specially amayilaki ani, 

 

 

[Thokkalee]

5 hours ago, Athadu007 said:

If any one grew up like that faced any issues without father? 

I am just thinking of my kids asking this.

Update:To put it straight what are the struggle kids are going to face without father? Money I can buy some insurance so hope it covers major money issues like studies and stay.

If you are putting these threads just to gain sympathy, shame on you.. 

If you are really thinking of doing anything extreme, you really need to talk to someone close to you.. All it takes is gaining some confidence about your life.. suicidal thoughts are very common in people suffering with depression..

Remember that no problem in this world is big enough to end your life.. look around and see how many people are suffering with their own issues and still mustering the courage to lead their lives every day.. 

PM me if you want to talk.. 

[Thokkalee]

25 minutes ago, Athadu007 said:

నేను చేసేది తపో రైట్ ఓ తెలీదు కానీ బట్ నేను వున్నా డబ్బు లేదని న పిల్లలు బాధపడటం కాయం, స్పెషల్లీ అమ్మాయికి పెళ్లి చేయాలంటే ఎన్ని ఇయర్స్ అయినా డబ్బు లేకపోతాయ్ కష్టం, ఆలా అని ఎవడికి పడితే వాడికి ఇచ్చే చేయలేము, 

పాపం ఆ కాస్మోపాలిటన్ గారు రాసిన వర్డ్స్ , జరిగిన ఇన్సిడెంట్స్ చూస్తే మాత్రం కనిళ్ళు ఆగలేదు నిజంగా. 

@నాగ్_మామ గారు ఐ డోంట్ నీద యొరు సింపతీ ఓర ఏనీ వన్ సింపతీ ఐ అం గోయింగ్ టో డో వాట్ ఐ నీద టో డో. ఐ అం లూకింగ్ అటు కాన్సెక్యూన్సెస్ అంతే.

ఠంక్ యు @దర్న్ ఆర్చర్, ఐ వాంట్ టో ఫైట్ బట్ ఐ అం వీక్ టో ఫైట్ ఫర్ లాంగ్ ఎనఫ్. 

@simple123 I am  35 , ఇంకో 25  ఇయర్స్ I can work,  బట్ ఇన్ usa  ఐ డోంట్ థింక్ I can able to work more than 5 years. 

5 years lo nenu sampdincehdhi Max 20k * 5  = 100k, if things goes as per plan, but not 100% sure.  so next india lo maximum 5 lakhs savings i.e. 8K . 

ante 8k * 20 = 160k.  If I am insured for  200k or 300k then my family gets the full amount. 

But father leni pillalu kastalu valla weak mind chaduvuthunte chala badha anipisthundhi, anni problem vuntaya specially amayilaki ani, 

 

 

Where do you live?

[Athadu007]

5 minutes ago, Thokkalee said:

If you are putting these threads just to gain sympathy, shame on you.. 

If you are really thinking of doing anything extreme, you really need to talk to someone close to you.. All it takes is gaining some confidence about your life.. suicidal thoughts are very common in people suffering with depression..

Remember that no problem in this world is big enough to end your life.. look around and see how many people are suffering with their own issues and still mustering the courage to lead their lives every day.. 

PM me if you want to talk.. 

are bhai what will do I with sympathy from unknown Ids in this virtual world. 

I have 15 years of tech experience and I am sure I am doing right thing to correct my mistakes. 

Lets say you need to finish 100 miles in your entire life and you finished 50 miles in 50 years and you asked to start again from zero.  thats not fair. 

Thanks for the offer if needed may be I touch base you, but I am happy I am getting a courage to take a decision. but just looking at consequences I am little worrie though.

[Amrita]

3 hours ago, cosmopolitan said:

 chinapudu thintaniki leka.. patha papers ichi oka potlam rice thisukosthunde ma daddy.. entha kastam vachina he did his best maku and maku chaduvu chepinchadu.. appula valu enni thitina he stood strong and slow ga we got out of that mess. it took atleast 15 years for us.. eroju andharam  happy.. ikada db lo una valu kuda most of them alanti situations undi untayi..now my father is a hero to me.. sachipoyi ma ayya life lo odipoyi sachipoyadu ani chepinchukuntavo.. hero anipinchukuntavo .. ni istam..

Very inspiring post. You have a great father.  Hugs to uncle. 

Intha kashtalu maku levu kani my dad always gave us the best. He is my hero too. 

[Thokkalee]

Just now, Athadu007 said:

are bhai what will do I with sympathy from unknown Ids in this virtual world. 

I have 15 years of tech experience and I am sure I am doing right thing to correct my mistakes. 

Lets say you need to finish 100 miles in your entire life and you finished 50 miles in 50 years and you asked to start again from zero.  thats not fair. 

Thanks for the offer if needed may be I touch base you, but I am happy I am getting a courage to take a decision. but just looking at consequences I am little worrie though.

Ok.. please don’t take me wrong.. I have seen some threads long back where some people posted these threads for fun (at least that is what most of them felt)

Ne problems emito naku telidu.. but i get a feeling that you are thinking far too ahead.. it works wonders if everything is going good.. but it is a downward spiral that will pull you down faster when things are not good.. Take one day or week at a time.. who knows what gold mine you will run into in the future.. 

I know a friend who earned $150K as joining bonus from a start up in Bay Area.. on top of $250K salary.. he was earning $130K before that.. all he did was take leetcode subscription and practiced it for an year.. 

[Amrita]

5 hours ago, Athadu007 said:

If any one grew up like that faced any issues without father? 

I am just thinking of my kids asking this.

Update:To put it straight what are the struggle kids are going to face without father? Money I can buy some insurance so hope it covers major money issues like studies and stay.

Nikosam e thread man. Anukokunda vesa but niku relevant emo.

 

 

[Sachin200]

Antha settle ayyi ( marriage , house , kids ) 33 years ki cancer vachi ammayi  chanipoyindhi . 45 years vachina still settle avani vallu unaru . Settle avadam lekapovadam anedhi relative  and depends on what kind of situations you encounter . 

For ur case

Situation handle cheyalenu ante  mee parents unaru and wife parents unaru . Discuss with them or else discuss with cousins. Vallu leru ante discuss with friends . friends option leru ante, make ur wife to work if she can on h4. Contracting ayitey two jobs cheye. Religious ayitey pray to God and see the results ( nenu believe chesta God ni) 

Entha planning unna, enthachaduvukuna , Baga earn chesina enni vunna problems vastey antey ( paina example Anni settle ayyi cancer vachindhi )

Inko example:  Baga rich family  abbayi and very talented,  rich family girl ki ichi chesaru marriage . Bihar tour ki veltey tractor accident ayi chanipoyadu abbayi ? What is meaning of settlement in this case .

End of  the day accept it and fight. 50 years ki settle avutav rather 35 years . Past lo u did  some actions ( stock lo invest cheyadam.or something )  and results you should face ga .

 

[kevinUsa]

5 hours ago, Athadu007 said:

I see what you are saying Ledu tesukontuna.

life insurance unte if do a suicide  

your beneficiaries will not get money remember that