priyanka lanti incidents

[pottipotato]

6 hours ago, DummyVariable said:

The best weapon is to not be a target? Other than that I am not sure if tazers are available in India yet. 

yeah, genius. one has no way to stop these attacks, but magically one can take measures to 'not be a target'. hmmm??

let me guess. listen to father, brother, husband is your solution, right? let them control every aspect of women's life, I guess.

[gaalipatam]

5 minutes ago, pottipotato said:

yeah, genius. one has no way to stop these attacks, but magically one can take measures to 'not be a target'. hmmm??

let me guess. listen to father, brother, husband is your solution, right? let them control every aspect of women's life, I guess.

Ya it is better to be safe

[pottipotato]

Just now, gaalipatam said:

Ya it is better to be safe

no. its not.its better to have a bigger circle of trust including plenty of colleagues, friends.

to build it, women must have agency and not be controlled by family. 

[Amy99]

29 minutes ago, pottipotato said:

manushullo rakshasulu untaru but i trust the police to catch the wrong people and execute them, so that people calm down.

so stop watching news on this.

 

36 minutes ago, pottipotato said:

ekkuva aalochinchaku. These things happen rarely, and you cannot plan in advance for these. even a guy cannot handle if a group attacks him. lyt teesko.

yeah, you can carry pepper spray, and pocket knife and learn how to use them, but its not going to help anyone if attacked by more than 2 people. don't lose sleep overthinking about this.

media hadavdi lyt teesko. carry on with life.aa ammayi ki bad luck. antha kantey cheppataanik em ledhu. There are much more serious problems you'll encounter everyday. especially in social settings. 

the only thing anyone can do is first work on themselves, work towards being comfortable in life. then after you are comfortable, use the knowledge and experience you gained to help others a little bit - if you can. helping other people is not easy. so its alright if you can't.

live humble and smple life. you can still be a target, but that's life. you can't plan your life in anticipation of something bad that could happen.

similarly you can't make laws based on such incidents too. giving guns to girls, killing the perpetrators etc, putting cameras in every corner of the world etc are just ideas that insecure minds come up with.

be confident, and brave, that nothing is gonna happen.  life is nothing if you lose that trust with people. don't watch media reports on this.

Ilaantivi rare oh kaadho cheppalemu, endukante avi bayatiki raavu unless the victim is attacked. 

Naaku ilanti incident ayyindhi okasari. 

I was once chased by a middle aged asshole in a remote area.. I ran to a nearby poultry farm.  Akkada women unde kabatti i was saved. 

Adhi thalchukunte ippatiki bhayam vesthundhi. 

[pottipotato]

10 minutes ago, Amy99 said:

 

Ilaantivi rare oh kaadho cheppalemu, endukante avi bayatiki raavu unless the victim is attacked. 

Naaku ilanti incident ayyindhi okasari. 

I was once chased by a middle aged asshole in a remote area.. I ran to a nearby poultry farm.  Akkada women unde kabatti i was saved. 

Adhi thalchukunte ippatiki bhayam vesthundhi. 

make a lot of friends, and sure carry pepper spray.

anthaku minchi manam emi cheyyalem.

[AleAle]

3 hours ago, pottipotato said:

make a lot of friends, and sure carry pepper spray.

anthaku minchi manam emi cheyyalem.

Lol idi everytime work out avvadu

pratisari group lo tirgadam avvadu

[pottipotato]

17 minutes ago, AleAle said:

Lol idi everytime work out avvadu

pratisari group lo tirgadam avvadu

mari em cheddam, gun iddaama? 

aalochinchu. after all dowry law ni oka 7-8% misuse chestheney, ammayilu upperhand in marriage ani edusthunnaru men. if you ask most men will say 90% dowry law is being misused ani.

gun icchhavantey, kontha mandi women control lo undaleru. men regular ga pedda hero build up kosam/comedy kosam pass chesey daridrapu comments ki kooda kaalusthey emavthadi aalochinchu.

ippudu women ki gun ivvali ani egirey lafoot yedhavalu ee db lo laanti vaallu, they will start crying and asking for death sentence of women who own guns.

you have no idea how men react.  you can't win the game of one upmanship with men(when the threat becomes physical, and it will). the best thing for a woman to do is to lay low, avoid assholes, or get enough friends and live in her own world.

ee db lo majority ki ninnu chesindhi harassment ani kooda artham cheskuney decency ledhu. almost andaru men anthey. 

men are assholes.Its better to choose your men carefully. anthaku minchi emi cheyyaleru.

[Anta Assamey]

Mana jagratta lo manam vundatam tappa em cheyalem ... Unfortunately that is the only current solution ... 

[Rendu]

15 hours ago, meandhrakurradu said:

malli jaragakunda undali or atleast jaragakunda undataniki try cheyyali ante what is your suggestion ? 

and what are you going to do ?

nenu aite evaranna ammai ala road meda unnattu kanapadite atleast bandi aapi aduguta, what happened, are you ok ani and will stay there till she is good

or worst case lo cops ki call chesta

I'm for her.... At least she could have left the scooter and approached toll gate officials... 

Ah alochana vacchivundakapovacchu.....

Ind or us or anywhere ....if it happens to you choose well lit areas or busy places... Where people can watch you....

Also.teach/educAte if And but situations to your kids/family/friends/coworkers

[meandhrakurradu]

if you see any girl in an uncomfortable situation, pls ask her if she is ok and needs help.

hero ochadu adi idi ani comments cheste, explain this incident and make her understand. or worst case even if she is still making comments, atleast she is safe and mana side nunchi manam try chesam ane feeling untadi

if you are afraid to help, just call police without even asking the girl, they will take care

[pottipotato]

1 minute ago, meandhrakurradu said:

if you see any girl in an uncomfortable situation, pls ask her if she is ok and needs help.

hero ochadu adi idi ani comments cheste, explain this incident and make her understand. or worst case even if she is still making comments, atleast she is safe and mana side nunchi manam try chesam ane feeling untadi

if you are afraid to help, just call police without even asking the girl, they will take care

edhedho chepthunnav.

define uncomfortable situation.

 

[Amy99]

39 minutes ago, pottipotato said:

mari em cheddam, gun iddaama? 

aalochinchu. after all dowry law ni oka 7-8% misuse chestheney, ammayilu upperhand in marriage ani edusthunnaru men. if you ask most men will say 90% dowry law is being misused ani.

gun icchhavantey, kontha mandi women control lo undaleru. men regular ga pedda hero build up kosam/comedy kosam pass chesey daridrapu comments ki kooda kaalusthey emavthadi aalochinchu.

ippudu women ki gun ivvali ani egirey lafoot yedhavalu ee db lo laanti vaallu, they will start crying and asking for death sentence of women who own guns.

you have no idea how men react.  you can't win the game of one upmanship with men(when the threat becomes physical, and it will). the best thing for a woman to do is to lay low, avoid assholes, or get enough friends and live in her own world.

ee db lo majority ki ninnu chesindhi harassment ani kooda artham cheskuney decency ledhu. almost andaru men anthey. 

men are assholes.Its better to choose your men carefully. anthaku minchi emi cheyyaleru.

Correct chappav, em cheyyalem em cheyaleru. 

Ayyo papam anadam thappa em cheyyalem. 

Mana kharma ani Anukovadam thappa. 

E daridram inthe maaradhu.

[Quickgun_murugan]

15 hours ago, Love_Guru said:

Ala adigina tappe mana society lo ... Ammai kadapagane help cheyyataniki vachadu hero ani antaru ... Some cases ..ammailey ..choodu ammai kanapadagane sollu karchukunta vachadu help chesta ani ..ani kooda anukovachu ....

So akkada situation entha severe ooo... Scene jarige taruvatha kaani teledu ...papam adi telisthe aa ammai tana bandi ni vadilesi intiki poyedi ... 

So best thing enti ante ..girls ventane telisunavallaki call chesi rammanai cheppatam ..or else aa toll gate gallaki bandi ni choistha undandi ani cheppi ... Poyi tana father ni teeskochi or mrng vacji repair cheinchukotam lantivi cheste bratikedi .... 

Rape cheyyatam magatanam aney vallu kooda unnaru ga @gaalipatam aka @DBgirl lanti pervert mindset ..educated lo ne unte ...lorry vallu aa pani cheyyatam lo pedda vintha ga em anipiyatledy naaku ... 

India lo bandi okadiki chudamani vadalatam kuda nammaleru... so that girl should have reached out to local police or some reliable friend .. her sister and other family members prioritized their other things than that girl that night coz they never anticipated the worst 

[meandhrakurradu]

8 minutes ago, pottipotato said:

edhedho chepthunnav.

define uncomfortable situation.

 

like in this incident, road meda okate undatam

use your gut and try your best ani asking instead of just passing comments online

[Amy99]

9 minutes ago, meandhrakurradu said:

if you see any girl in an uncomfortable situation, pls ask her if she is ok and needs help.

hero ochadu adi idi ani comments cheste, explain this incident and make her understand. or worst case even if she is still making comments, atleast she is safe and mana side nunchi manam try chesam ane feeling untadi

if you are afraid to help, just call police without even asking the girl, they will take care

Ila adigina yedhavalani nammadam vallane e gruesome incident ayyindhi. 

Next evaraina manchi kosam adigina kuda evaru nammaru.