Thu bathuku

[Ellen]

7 minutes ago, DummyVariable said:

It is hard to have long term bonds with people even though most people are predisposed to liking someone from the opposite gender. It is also true that Marriage puts unnecessary pressure on individuals and restricts people to live in a certain way. Maybe we, as Indians, have been conditioned to live in this way and most of us cannot comprehend living a single life forever. Is being in a relationship and not marrying someone the answer to this conundrum? 🤔 

Atlem le. Being single is not the only solution. Yes, Indians are conditioned to a certain flow. Adi tappichi bathike dhairyam evarki ledu. Cuz parents guilt bombs, ninnu kaninde nuv inkokallani cheskoni inkokallani kanadanki ani chittalu chaduvtaru. Tapppadu annapudu, unless u r pretty sure about the woman, dont get into that . Once u got in, danni etlannnnnna tweak chesi nadipiyala. mari bharinchadam kastam aipote relation enduku? undede oka life, adi kuda peace dobbesaka antha edustu undadam enduku? before u know BP lu Sugar lu vachestai. Apudu evarni ani em labham? Kani kastam. Long term bonds chaaaaaaaaala kastam. mehhhhhhhhh. 

[DummyVariable]

14 minutes ago, Ellen said:

Atlem le. Being single is not the only solution. Yes, Indians are conditioned to a certain flow. Adi tappichi bathike dhairyam evarki ledu. Cuz parents guilt bombs, ninnu kaninde nuv inkokallani cheskoni inkokallani kanadanki ani chittalu chaduvtaru. Tapppadu annapudu, unless u r pretty sure about the woman, dont get into that . Once u got in, danni etlannnnnna tweak chesi nadipiyala. mari bharinchadam kastam aipote relation enduku? undede oka life, adi kuda peace dobbesaka antha edustu undadam enduku? before u know BP lu Sugar lu vachestai. Apudu evarni ani em labham? Kani kastam. Long term bonds chaaaaaaaaala kastam. mehhhhhhhhh. 

This is the problem though. People not only fight with their partners, but also with their parents, brothers, acquaintances and friends. We have a critical inner voice that keeps judging other people’s actions all the time. The rules are very different for ourselves and others- including your wife/husband. When you say tweak, are we changing ourselves or are we changing others and their surroundings? 🤔 

[Beardman]

10 minutes ago, DummyVariable said:

This is the problem though. People not only fight with their partners, but also with their parents, brothers, acquaintances and friends. We have a critical inner voice that keeps judging other people’s actions all the time. The rules are very different for ourselves and others- including your wife/husband. When you say tweak, are we changing ourselves or are we changing others and their surroundings? 🤔 

are we changing ourselves or are we changing others and their surroundings?

both
både

[Petesi_Pora]

36 minutes ago, Jombo0108 said:

Inthaki nuvvu married ah kaka??

 

[Sarvapindi]

6 hours ago, MagaMaharaju said:

Return ticket book chese relatives unnaru ante nammable ga ledhu 

Goodpoint

[Ellen]

30 minutes ago, DummyVariable said:

This is the problem though. People not only fight with their partners, but also with their parents, brothers, acquaintances and friends. We have a critical inner voice that keeps judging other people’s actions all the time. The rules are very different for ourselves and others- including your wife/husband. When you say tweak, are we changing ourselves or are we changing others and their surroundings? 🤔 

I understand what you are saying. Tweak ante no one needs to change drastically. Just some adjustments, from both wife and husband ONLY. Parents and surroundings door ki baath le. 50+ ayyaka evaru maararu. Coming to wife and husband, both have their own short comings, okadu lose ainapudu inkokadu muskoni, observer laga undi calm ga vinte (Imagine watching a FLOP, PRETENTIOUS movie in theatre), aah lose partner orri orri last ki calm aipotaru. Idi anthe. Edo oka point lo manishi ki rational behaviour baytaki vachestadi. Apudu konchem logical discussions, mature ga petkunte better. Changes ante ive, okadu irrational ga unapudu inkokadu calm ga mind ni switch off chesesi, aah flow ni ala poniste better.

Majority mandi ammailaki entha sepu pampering kavali, insecurity ekva. adedo ichesi, smart ga win-win situation create cheyadam chala easy. konni teda batches ni bharinchadam kastam le. alanti vallani life loki invite cheyakapoinde better. Again, ivanni applies, only in a relation u really want to work, u go to this kind of efforts. Marriages are work. They are never easy. 

Ledu intha sodhi avasarama anipiste, ee pette effort edo career lo petteste happy ga untadi, edo open ga relations petkuntu bathikeyachu. One fine day evaro oka soul mate tagultundi. That so called need for company kuda teeripotundi. 

[Beardman]

1 minute ago, Ellen said:

I understand what you are saying. Tweak ante no one needs to change drastically. Just some adjustments, from both wife and husband ONLY. Parents and surroundings door ki baath le. 50+ ayyaka evaru maararu. Coming to wife and husband, both have their own short comings, okadu lose ainapudu inkokadu muskoni, observer laga undi calm ga vinte (Imagine watching a FLOP, PRETENTIOUS movie in theatre), aah lose partner orri orri last ki calm aipotaru. Idi anthe. Edo oka point lo manishi ki rational behaviour baytaki vachestadi. Apudu konchem logical discussions, mature ga petkunte better. Changes ante ive, okadu irrational ga unapudu inkokadu calm ga mind ni switch off chesesi, aah flow ni ala poniste better.

Majority mandi ammailaki entha sepu pampering kavali, insecurity ekva. adedo ichesi, smart ga win-win situation create cheyadam chala easy. konni teda batches ni bharinchadam kastam le. alanti vallani life loki invite cheyakapoinde better. Again, ivanni applies, only in a relation u really want to work, u go to this kind of efforts. Marriages are work. They are never easy. 

Ledu intha sodhi avasarama anipiste, ee pette effort edo career lo petteste happy ga untadi, edo open ga relations petkuntu bathikeyachu. One find day evaro oka soul mate tagultundi. That so called need for company kuda teeripotundi. 

gode råd

good advice

[Ellen]

8 minutes ago, Beardman said:

gode råd

good advice

takk

[Idassamed]

1 hour ago, DummyVariable said:

It is hard to have long term bonds with people even though most people are predisposed to liking someone from the opposite gender. It is also true that Marriage puts unnecessary pressure on individuals and restricts people to live in a certain way. Maybe we, as Indians, have been conditioned to live in this way and most of us cannot comprehend living a single life forever. Is being in a relationship and not marrying someone the answer to this conundrum? 🤔 

Marriage kills innovation annadu oka innovator and inventor 

[Chinna84]

1 hour ago, Beardman said:

are we changing ourselves or are we changing others and their surroundings?

both
både

Nee flow lo nuvvu vundu Raja ... I luv u Raja !!

[Chinna84]

17 minutes ago, Idassamed said:

Marriage kills innovation annadu oka innovator and inventor 

+100

bitter truth..

[Beardman]

Just now, Chinna84 said:

Nee flow lo nuvvu vundu Raja ... I luv u Raja !!

Nuvvu moshe society flow lo undu......paradise ki ticket adhi.

[Idassamed]

Just now, Beardman said:

Nuvvu moshe society flow lo undu......paradise ki ticket adhi.

Who is Moshe bro?

[Chinna84]

1 minute ago, Beardman said:

Nuvvu moshe society flow lo undu......paradise ki ticket adhi.

Raja, nenu positive ga ney post yesina Raaja.. 

btwn who is Moshe ??

[Idassamed]

3 minutes ago, Beardman said:

Nuvvu moshe society flow lo undu......paradise ki ticket adhi.

Mosses?