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3 minutes ago, Amrita said:

Why should anyone be secretive ? Understanding leka chiller godavalu Chestene husband or wife Anyone will be secretive . In my example above they aren’t secretive and women are also working including my grand mother . They are super transparent.  One should understand people get married into families . Husband parents and wife parents are also part of package . Vallu lekapote manam lemu . Samskaralu problem . At the same time istunnaru ani vadukokudadu kuda . 

Chillara godavalu ayina cheppali. Eventually they will understand or compromise. Else aa godavalu avuthune untayi

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3 minutes ago, Rushabhi said:

Chillara godavalu ayina cheppali. Eventually they will understand or compromise. Else aa godavalu avuthune untayi

I never told they should be secretive in any of the posts . Some ppl are secretive ani Miru ante may be they are because their spouse makes chiller godavalu annanu. Wife and husband should be transparent and also at the same time should know their lines and know where to not cross lines when it comes to respective parents .  

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3 minutes ago, Amrita said:

I never told they should be secretive in any of the posts . Some ppl are secretive ani Miru ante may be they are because their spouse makes chiller godavalu annanu. Wife and husband should be transparent and also at the same time should know their lines and know where to not cross lines when it comes to respective parents .  

Ideal cases lo yes but not all are ideal human beings kadha. Alane ayithe varaniki Oka marriage topic padadhu

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2 minutes ago, Rushabhi said:

Ideal cases lo yes but not all are ideal human beings kadha. Alane ayithe varaniki Oka marriage topic padadhu

When they want to be secretive and get into issues then that’s their call and they have to face consequences. How we lead our life is our choice . Somethings may not be in our hands but being empathetic, having some morals , respecting elders are in our hands .  Kopam vaste spouse ni tittu kottu parents joliki povadam is worst in my opinion . 

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4 minutes ago, Amrita said:

I never told they should be secretive in any of the posts . Some ppl are secretive ani Miru ante may be they are because their spouse makes chiller godavalu annanu. Wife and husband should be transparent and also at the same time should know their lines and know where to not cross lines when it comes to respective parents .  

Transparent anni avasaram ledu. First of all, in this modern scenario where both wife and husband are providers (works), both should acknowledge both are equal and respect each other. Aa respect iste most ammayilaki godavapadalsina avasaram vundadu...  Boys kinda vunna post lo vunna previlaged mentality tagginchukunte problems solve avuthayi...

Ee motham posts lo ammayi real version teliyakunda ammayini tappu paduthunnaru, just because she did something. Ee male ego tagginchunte everything will be solved.

1 hour ago, Rabbo said:

wife parents ki call cheyyi, serious ga warning ivvu,  your daughter behaviour not good because of your pempankam, edo okati tittu take out your frustration , avsaramu aithe buthulu tittu basically have a bad relationship with them

wife will  ask you to be nice to there parents,  i hope u know what to tell to your wife after that.....

 

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15 minutes ago, proudtobeandhrite said:

Any matured adult would try to address/solve the problem. 

Ante parents are not matured ani antaava ani na meeda padodhu. Yes, sometimes (they are lot of them which you may disagree) elder acts immaturely too.

 

Parents age meedha depend ayi untundi. As you age they cannot take conflict. They get distressed. Maa parents vachinappudu antha baane undi last lo ila Oka chillara godava pettukundam. Clearly they were distressed. Papam anipinchindi velli bujjaginchukunna. At the same time maa parents mundu husband ki sorrycheppa. Adhe Oka 10 years back ayithe entha godava ayina easy ga handle ga cheyyagaligevaru. I see no wrong in parents leaving

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