Serious Question

[ShruteSastry]

i think based on your answers, you like to be dominant in a relationship (in a good way), but sometimes when you dont have all the control, you feel like you are not stable. 

Thnking in Bets (https://amzn.to/32ND4Kh) book chaduvu,  read that if you can. Perspective lo change kanispintundi pakka.

[Sucker]

@Amrita akka

1.ee post yevari gurinchi ?

2. Yedo depression annav ? neeka ? if yes Y akka ? 

3. Are you okay now ?

 

 

[Amrita]

1 hour ago, ShruteSastry said:

i think based on your answers, you like to be dominant in a relationship (in a good way), but sometimes when you dont have all the control, you feel like you are not stable. 

Thnking in Bets (https://amzn.to/32ND4Kh) book chaduvu,  read that if you can. Perspective lo change kanispintundi pakka.

Thanks For suggestion . Yes ,  I will Read the book .  I don’t like to be submissive in relationship but I am not dominant in relationship .  I don’t believe in domination . It ruins relationship. I like to be equal and tagutta kuda because It’s male dominated world . Also , relationship lo power struggle also not good . 

[Amrita]

10 minutes ago, Sucker said:

@Amrita akka

1.ee post yevari gurinchi ?

2. Yedo depression annav ? neeka ? if yes Y akka ? 

3. Are you okay now ?

 

 

Na gurinchey . Depression kadu ley KSU super stressed . I am not okay 

[Sucker]

5 minutes ago, Amrita said:

Na gurinchey . Depression kadu ley KSU super stressed . I am not okay 

 

[karthik25]

Not sure what the issue is...

Mana Indian society lo biggest problem is unnecessary interference of others. Ikkada US lo 33 yrs lady...marriage kaledu...strict live-in/bf kuda never... but valla parents/soceity nundi no one asks her... India lo ala kadu..abbayi ki 25 ragane modaledtaru... 

Even jobs also... mee vadu em chestunnadu? ma vadu idi.. ma papa adi... Above that dignity of labor.

The day we stop living for others... sagam problems taggutayi

[karthik25]

30 minutes ago, Amrita said:

I am a very optimistic person . I was in depression with break up then . 5 years okey manishikosam cried not even seeing men interested in me . Emotional fool ni I didn’t know about counseling then didn’t change much in emotional front  

does he even deserve it?

[LazyRohit]

endi 13 pages a final conclusion enti

[Amrita]

21 minutes ago, karthik25 said:

does he even deserve it?

Nope . I am ahead of my age . Masters ayina I was 19 . I didn’t know how to handle . I didn’t knew love ante there is a chance that it can’t end in marriage ani .  I didn’t know people lie ani kuda . I was naive . We both weren’t in same countries and parents Valla caste issues Valla we ended in break up . I cried insanely . Ma Amma mogudu chachina ila edavaru ani tittedi kuda . I didn’t knew at age of 21 how to handle a break up . I never thought we would break up .  I didn’t listen to my parents but 19 years  ( I was 18 actually ) ki MS ki rakudadu and kids ni girls / women’s colleges lo penchakudadu. I got raised not exposing to real world .  Ippadiki I fight with my bf over saying sorrry thank you  usage of words etc . Appadikanna better ante . Raised too sensitively . Protected raising is  dangerous. 
 

We broke up more than a decade ago . Sometimes he come in my dreams and still I wake up that day with so much happiness . Deep down he is still in my thoughts . I really loved him like he is my life . 

[karthik25]

3 minutes ago, Amrita said:

Nope . I am ahead of my age . Masters ayina I was 19 . I didn’t know how to handle . I didn’t knew love ante there is a chance that it can’t end in marriage ani .  I didn’t know people lie ani kuda . I was naive . We both weren’t in same countries and parents Valla caste issues Valla we ended in break up . I cried insanely . Ma Amma mogudu chachina ila edavaru ani tittedi kuda . I didn’t knew at age of 21 how to handle a break up . I never thought we would break up .  I didn’t listen to my parents but 19 years ki MS ki rakudadu and kids ni girls / women’s colleges lo penchakudadu. I got raised not exposing to real world .  Ippadiki I fight with my bf over saying sorrry thank you  usage of words etc . Appadikanna better ante . Raised too sensitively . Protected raising is  dangerous. 

sorryabout that.

long distance relationships in general work avvadu ga... unless married.

[Amrita]

15 minutes ago, karthik25 said:

sorryabout that.

long distance relationships in general work avvadu ga... unless married.

Yeah  Didn’t have maturity. He tried to come to nearest place to where I study in neighboring country . We tired what we could  . Recession, collections , parents pressure , and reluctance, immaturity ,  ah age lo patience lekapovadam, not financially independent  anni reasons. I am now also in long distance relationship . I think I am stupid .  I want to move to his place or I want him to move to my place . Danike kottukovadam 

[Help_please]

Roju Konchem sepu workout gitla chesthe clarity vasthadi

mana deggara psychiatrist help ante adolaa choostharu kani Mee paristhithi nijam ga ne serious anipisthe please don’t hesitate. Naa dosth itlane ontarithanam tho 3 yrs undi sudden ga psycho la tayarayyadu. Antha varaku vellakunda undalante seek help as soon as possible 

[Amrita]

5 minutes ago, Help_please said:

Roju Konchem sepu workout gitla chesthe clarity vasthadi

mana deggara psychiatrist help ante adolaa choostharu kani Mee paristhithi nijam ga ne serious anipisthe please don’t hesitate. Naa dosth itlane ontarithanam tho 3 yrs undi sudden ga psycho la tayarayyadu. Antha varaku vellakunda undalante seek help as soon as possible 

Agreed . I have taken counseling in past when I lost a loved one . I am not hesitant to take psychiatric help . Texted my Mamayya already . He said he can talk tonight . But I don’t like to share all my problems  

[Chinna84]

58 minutes ago, LazyRohit said:

endi 13 pages a final conclusion enti

Thaggedhi ledhu antunna @Amrita

[Amrita]

19 minutes ago, Chinna84 said:

Thaggedhi ledhu antunna @Amrita