Why being single and 30+ is torture for a woman?

[HalfDesiGirl]

Just now, Thokkalee said:

Keep an open mind.. and explore all avenues.. dating, traditional matrimony, friends/relatives... 

most people don’t make a good impression when you first meet.. it takes quite a few meetings to get to know each other.. 

I’m keeping an open mind. Yes, I take my time and I’m exploring all available options.

[sboyr2r]

Intaki nee id @HalfDesiGirl enduku pettukunnav dB lo dkc bayata vere ana. 

[sboyr2r]

1 hour ago, HalfDesiGirl said:

I chose to focus on career when I was young and I’m pretty much where I wanted to be career wise. I was in two relationships when I was young and I was very happy.

 

The first guy was amazing. He was tender at heart and treated me very well. Though he was not intellectually stimulating as much I wished but I was ok with that. He earned much less than what I earned but it was never an issue for me. But moving to a new location for job killed our relationship although we tried our best.

The second guy was even more amazing. He was smart, funny and very intelligent. It was like I found my soulmate. I thought  he was the one. Everything was great until I caught him cheating on me. I tried to let it go but it was hard to trust him anymore. And I caught him a second time, and it was over.

Here I am, at age 32, successful in career but dearly missing a companion. The fact is that no matter how much strain these relationships put on me, I was very happy when I was in a relationship. My cousins complain about their husbands not helping much in their household chores but on some level I feel they are still happy.

I’m fairly beautiful and successful. But why is it so hard for a woman to find a decent partner in her 30’s? Why does society make it hard for people in their 30’s especially women?

May be men are not so attracted to women who are successful than them emo ?? 
 

beautiful annav kabatti aukaat ke bahar ani they might not trying. 

[HalfDesiGirl]

1 minute ago, sboyr2r said:

Intaki nee id @HalfDesiGirl enduku pettukunnav dB lo dkc bayata vere ana. 

I don’t know what you mean by dkc. Our family moved here when I was young.

[sboyr2r]

Just now, HalfDesiGirl said:

I don’t know what you mean by dkc. Our family moved here when I was young.

ABCD haa. 
chala tough ee 

ASL pls ani antunna mana dB unmarried youth. 

[HalfDesiGirl]

2 minutes ago, sboyr2r said:

May be men are not so attracted to women who are successful than them emo ?? 
 

beautiful annav kabatti aukaat ke bahar ani they might not trying. 

Hmm I don’t know, I don’t think so.

i didnt understand your second sentence but I’m guessing “out of their league”?

[HalfDesiGirl]

1 minute ago, sboyr2r said:

ABCD haa. 
chala tough ee 

ASL pls ani antunna mana dB unmarried youth. 

Not completely. I was a teenager when we moved here. Hence half desi.

age and sex already mentioned. Location: secret 

[sboyr2r]

1 minute ago, HalfDesiGirl said:

Hmm I don’t know, I don’t think so.

i didnt understand your second sentence but I’m guessing “out of their league”?

Yes out of their league ani try cheyatledu emo. 
 

ilanti ABCD papal, family life lo lagging behind ani Indusladies lo post chestu vuntar ani @Spartan appatlo vesevadu indusind thread estory 1 estory 2 ani. 

[sboyr2r]

2 minutes ago, HalfDesiGirl said:

Not completely. I was a teenager when we moved here. Hence half desi.

age and sex already mentioned. Location: secret 

Abbo same availability zone aithe try chesukuntam ani antunna solutions architects 

[HalfDesiGirl]

2 minutes ago, sboyr2r said:

Yes out of their league ani try cheyatledu emo. 
 

ilanti ABCD papal, family life lo lagging behind ani Indusladies lo post chestu vuntar ani @Spartan appatlo vesevadu indusind thread estory 1 estory 2 ani. 

Hmm I don’t know. I’m genrallly friendly with people.

I’m not an ABCD. I was born and raised in India.

[HalfDesiGirl]

2 minutes ago, sboyr2r said:

Abbo same availability zone aithe try chesukuntam ani antunna solutions architects 

Haha North America 

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