Want to know your opinion

[TrollBait]

1 minute ago, kr123 said:

All your replies are sane only nooo

no. they are just in keeping with the spirit of this thread - to poke fun at the concept of having kids, at not having kids, and all and sundry.

and by calling TS mentally unstable, you are diverging from the spirit of this thread.

 

[TrollBait]

12 minutes ago, kr123 said:

All your replies are sane only nooo

Pilli is yet to master the art of keeping a conversation going, on and on and on. Pilli wants conclusions. very bad attitude

[Catalpha]

28 minutes ago, TrollBait said:

Pilli is yet to master the art of keeping a conversation going, on and on and on. Pilli wants conclusions. very bad attitude

Well, the difference is you somehow got freedom from the slavery of working and I am a slave of work, so I can't keep it going on and on..

[Pitta]

On 5/20/2020 at 10:07 PM, SinNombr3 said:

No need.. even u don’t need life partner.. decided not to marry

[Pitta]

On 5/20/2020 at 10:07 PM, SinNombr3 said:

No need.. even u don’t need life partner.. decided not to marry

[ShruteSastry]

Oh my Mattagadasa, intha pedda thread. No conclusion.

[chotu]

After reading entire thread felt like sharing my thoughts and opinions, good post

@Catalpha  you have reasons for not having kids and seeking reasons for having kids,  but sounds like you did made a choice/leaning towards not having kids,

Having Kids - like everyone said you'll make memories, emotions, happiness, sadness, missing out, completes being a human all this could be a very much true, but you will know only when you experience it. if you decide to have kids, yes you are making a choice which requires 100% commitment and responsibility which you cannot and shouldn't escape, because I feel like you own them, the emotional bonding is strong which doesn't match to any other emotions you experience, be it with things or any other people in your life and society always exists to remind your responsibility. 

Not having kids - you will have a choice of what to commit to and what to be responsible for whatever you choose to do with life plans you got , you will still make memories good/bad experience all sort of emotions. I feel one will have more control to their life.

In both cases Its just choice making and facing the consequences, tomorrow doesn't exist in real its just a thought/idea, you either like/dislike it, but don't live it today, if you do you're giving your thought a emotion which just multiplies.

[Scada]

On 5/20/2020 at 9:08 PM, Catalpha said:

Getting married will increase your income/assets. Having kids will reduce it. 

 ok