Is it unreasonable/unrealistic to expect bride with no past(excluding crushes, short/not-so-serious relationship with no intimacy) in arranged marriage. I am born and bred in Andhra.

[kevinUsa]

1 hour ago, someguy said:

Meedi orthodox family background kabatti andaru alane undakapovachchu, at the same time, modern/rich/upper class family nunchi vachcharu, chala cases chusaru, kabatti ammaylandaru (regardless of whether they are modern/rich/upper class) alane untaru anadam kuda wrong ani naa opinion (unless, you genuinely think that is the case).  

nenu orthodox family ee aitay SC ki vellakudad

[kevinUsa]

1 hour ago, someguy said:

nd yes, to some extent it is lack of oppurtunity, but only until teenage/post teenage. that too, only because I was more focused on studies, career, earning money, making ends meet and didn't have much time or interest for any of this. but yes, had an oppurtunity landed,

ante internet centre lo desipapa

pinkworld chudaleda 

inter 10th lo 

[kevinUsa]

34 minutes ago, kothavani said:

Also in this current stress world where marriages are after 30 , life epdu potado ivqdiki teliyadam ledu chinna chinna anandalu lekapthe kastam 

100000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000% correct

[someguy]

16 minutes ago, kothavani said:

So what u can do?? Past unte emi chestac?? 

em chestam, vere match or like minded people kosam chustam. naa point - ippudu andaru(or almost all) alane unnaru ante, then it becomes unrealistic to expect so, so vere dari ledu, attitude change chesukovali(if possible) or time pattina, similar attitude unna valla kosam vethakali, which still could be a problem given that I am 29 now.

[nenesuperni]

entha mandi ela unaro chepadam kastha kashtam. most of the poeple now a days past untadi ( maybe first base varaku or no touchings ayna kuda ). mundhu ledu antaru , tarvatha undi ani thelusthadi , dhaniki prepare avu, how to go on ani. 

nuv nri ah

[LadiesTailor]

16 minutes ago, someguy said:

inko separate question (already main post lo adiga)

ikkada max NRIs aa?

Ee time lo NRIs vuntaru active ga... 

[LadiesTailor]

1 minute ago, someguy said:

em chestam, vere match or like minded people kosam chustam. naa point - ippudu andaru(or almost all) alane unnaru ante, then it becomes unrealistic to expect so, so vere dari ledu, attitude change chesukovali(if possible) or time pattina, similar attitude unna valla kosam vethakali, which still could be a problem given that I am 29 now.

Bro, pelliki mundu emi levu ani cheppi nee background check lo kooda emi rakunda... pelli ayyaka ame not virgin ani teliste em chestav ? 
not scaring you just want to know your opinion 

[someguy]

9 minutes ago, kevinUsa said:

ante internet centre lo desipapa

pinkworld chudaleda 

inter 10th lo 

appatidaka enduku, ippudaina chustunna!
but, whats the relevance of this? porn veru, actual ga cheyyadam veru (be it emotional or physical)

[Heroin]

Arey evadra nuvvu intha pedda eassy rasav

[Jombo0108]

Cc @Scada

[someguy]

14 minutes ago, LadiesTailor said:

Bro, pelliki mundu emi levu ani cheppi nee background check lo kooda emi rakunda... pelli ayyaka ame not virgin ani teliste em chestav ? 
not scaring you just want to know your opinion 

good point!, thought about this.
okavela past unte adi reveal cheyyakapovachchu ane possibility ni consider chesa. its possible. but, it depends.

I will state my case in fair manner, judgements em lekunda, polite ga ne I'll bring this up. My biggest point would be - naaku ila insecurity/retroactive jealousy undi, this might create problems ani. aa ammay manchidi ayithe artham chesukuni reject chestudi(I'll assure her to reject me on some other basis, or i'll do that myself without revealing this as reason), ala kaadu ante, she might most probably be treating me as a backup option i.e emaithe nakenti, naaku pelli kavali ane attitude, if so, then I have bigger problem :). Love marriage idi apply kakapovachchu because she genuinely wanted to be with you and not treating you as a bakara.

and, naaku telisindi enti ante, adagadame better ani. emi adagakapothe, vediki pattimpu ledu, so dont have to reveal ani vallu alochinchochu. adigithe at least you stand a chance. 

and nenem anumanam pakshi nayithe kaadu, during meets lo entho kontha telustudi kada avatala vallu ela untaro ani, once you get the trust then thats it, no point in keeping those doubts alive.

[DJBravo]

WOW PLEASE TAG MODS

This post post looks like objectifying women in every possible way. this post should be deleted immediately or else somebody please report immediately.

[DummyVariable]

You will find someone. Don’t worry. May not be pretty though.

[someguy]

5 minutes ago, DJBravo said:

WOW PLEASE TAG MODS

This post post looks like objectifying women in every possible way. this post should be deleted immediately or else somebody please report immediately.

objectifying how?

i gave my reason - its due to my insecurity or retroactive jealousy ani, I didnt say anything like "naaku fresh kavali, or second hand vaddu ani", nor did I judge people who had a past.

"objectifying", "virginity", these are cheap play cards used by pseudo liberals, don't use them liberally.

[BostonBullodu]

1 minute ago, DummyVariable said:

You will find someone. Don’t worry. May not be pretty though.

what should we do to find a pretty one...