Cheated by parents

[Tellugodu]

1 minute ago, Rushabhi said:

Ok let’s put it this way. Chinnappudu Nenu oak ridge school ki potha Naaku 10 lakhs per year school fee kattu ante kattevaara parents? Ledha Nuvvu engineering lo unnappudu Nenu college ki potaniki car kavali or ledha Nenu foreign trip or adhi vadileseyyi Nenu edanna exotic places ki friends tho trips ki povali dabbulu iyyi ante ichevara? Pellayyi pillalu putti jobs chesukuntonte nee dabbu reeyakunda Naaku illu kattukotaniki investment pettu ante isthara? Basic ga necessities and minimum comforts and mana progress ki kavalsina amount pedatharu. Gonthemma korikalu korithe moosukoni undamani antaru.

Nuvu entha pamputhav mee parents ki akkae?? 

[JohnSnow]

1 hour ago, Rushabhi said:

Ok let’s put it this way. Chinnappudu Nenu oak ridge school ki potha Naaku 10 lakhs per year school fee kattu ante kattevaara parents? Ledha Nuvvu engineering lo unnappudu Nenu college ki potaniki car kavali or ledha Nenu foreign trip or adhi vadileseyyi Nenu edanna exotic places ki friends tho trips ki povali dabbulu iyyi ante ichevara? Pellayyi pillalu putti jobs chesukuntonte nee dabbu reeyakunda Naaku illu kattukotaniki investment pettu ante isthara? Basic ga necessities and minimum comforts and mana progress ki kavalsina amount pedatharu. Gonthemma korikalu korithe moosukoni undamani antaru.

Yes i see lot of my relatives who go for oakridge school despite their financial status.. And i have also seen my friends whose dads buy them their fav bikes and cars even though they are jobless now. Parents love comes natural and they just didnt provide basic necessities. 

[Scada]

[Spartan]

  me dabbu me control lo pettukokapovadam is dumbnesss..

US ki vacharu..Financial Independence endo telvakunda mosapoyam ante etla vayya..

ani @psycopk  eppudo cheppadu @k2s  ki

[Rushabhi]

10 minutes ago, Tellugodu said:

Nuvu entha pamputhav mee parents ki akkae?? 

Parents adigithe pampatame. Entha ani lekka emi ledhu. Vallu eppudo kaani adagaru. 

[jabbala_subbbaraju]

Dude I have a single suggestion... in view of your health... 

 

--> Give them a deadline to sort things.. if they don't.....   stop communication, you don't need such poisonous people in your life... stop worrying about what people would say... start building your life again(money/happiness with your kids and spouse).... 

I know its easy to say tough to do... but I am saying this from personal experience.. after screwing up my earnings twice.... 

today I am back to where I wanted to be in my life.... it just takes some patience and time... and believe me... even you know... earning money is the easiest part... having good health... good time with your kids/spouse is important....

Once you stop giving importance to what is lost... what your parents/siblings are talking about you... what your relatives/friends might say about you... you will see a huge burden lift off from your shoulders.....

 

 

[nokia123]

16 hours ago, maramanishi99 said:

I have seen these kind of things before... 

parents and relatives think every desi in America is filthy rich with extra cash in pockets.. Brother-in-law’s take it for granted, and use sister to make regular second income (sometimes primary income) 

 

parents are like — ‘chadivinchi America pampamu ga, aa mathram cheyyada ‘ 

 

my 2 cents ... tell them clearly that recession started in USA ... (ask them to watch tv9 tomorrow ) and you are not making that kind of money now ...

also Tell, you want fair share in properties 

Can’t agree more on this one 

parents kooda psychological fix ayipotharu..veedu America nunchi raadu, inka manalni choosukunedhi ammaye ani.inka all time ammayi ni venakesukoni vastharu and vallake favor chesyyali ani choostharu..nuvvu America lo unnavu rich ayipoyavu..veellu poor ppl ani antaru..i kkada yemo visalu joblu eppudu pothayo thelvaka edusthunte ..

brother in law will be a major culprit in these cases.but thanu background lo undi nadipisthadu story mottham

[k2s]

5 hours ago, Spartan said:

what is this @k2s 

maa dabbu unnalla kastalu meeku emi telusu 

[Kalam_Youtheman]

1 hour ago, JohnSnow said:

Yes i see lot of my relatives who go for oakridge school despite their financial status.. And i have also seen my friends whose dads buy them their fav bikes and cars even though they are jobless now. Parents love comes natural and they just didnt provide basic necessities. 

its all depends on bonding...  eee generation kids ki bonding undaaali  esp USA lo .. anthe kaaani ikkkada production start chesi india warehouse ki pampisthaaruu 5 yts varakuu.. 

 

 

[Tellugodu]

1 hour ago, JohnSnow said:

Yes i see lot of my relatives who go for oakridge school despite their financial status.. And i have also seen my friends whose dads buy them their fav bikes and cars even though they are jobless now. Parents love comes natural and they just didnt provide basic necessities. 

Fee entha uncle oakridge school lo ?? 1-2 lacs per annum??  2 thousand rupees fee for entire 10th class for me in 2005-06 academic year.

[Tellugodu]

1 hour ago, Rushabhi said:

Parents adigithe pampatame. Entha ani lekka emi ledhu. Vallu eppudo kaani adagaru. 

Oh good, Mari husband ame ananda if you are sending money to your parents after marriage?? I think it’s better to have joint account with salary direct depositing in same account, would eliminate lots of financial issues .

[Kalam_Youtheman]

2 hours ago, JohnSnow said:

I dont think its fair to blame the parents based on just money.. After all they feed you with their money for 20 plus years.

bro I agree but its not applicable to all... 

[JohnSnow]

6 minutes ago, Tellugodu said:

Fee entha uncle oakridge school lo ?? 1-2 lacs per annum??  2 thousand rupees fee for entire 10th class for me in 2005-06 academic year.

2005 lo apartment 20 lakhs ee , ippudu ippinchu naaku ade price ki

[idibezwada]

typical dabunolla kastalu

[chat_24]

17 hours ago, budgetpadbhanabam said:

Thanks for all your suggestions. I will think about it and end of the day he is cheating his own son. I want to end all relations with them. I was always thinking i am doing mistake and i should bear what ever they do. But after reading your suggestion atleast i feel i am not doing anythnig wrong. I am also thinking about fling a cheating case since i have all remittences. If he is trying to prove that it is his hard earned money he should show proof of income. Inka chala chesru bhayya last 5 yrs after marriage naku chukkalu choopincharu. i cant put everything here.

bayya..i can feel you....cheating case lu avvani enduku neeku unna peace kooda pothundi..sorry to say..but vallani ala vadilesey...nee pani nuvvu choosuko ...apna time aayega for sure...