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Is it possible to be alone and happy?


odhu_le_macha

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27 minutes ago, bostonbro said:

wrong

for introverts...high thinkers....can be happy alone.

Only problem is the country you live in....society must accept your ideology....

Not in india for middle class people.....always worry about society opinion

Agree with this 100000000 timess😒😒 

It is always society, we live and die for society and never for ourselves!! Society never comes and helps when we need help.. 

We can totally be happy, the day we start thinking about our happiness and what makes us happy rather than other opinions!! Sadly few people never get that maturity to think beyond the invisible rules set by the so called ‘’Indian society’’ 😕😕😕 

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Ability to live alone is one of the greatest qualities a man can acquire. Congratulations. People can't live alone because they don't love themselves enough. Anyone who tells u otherwise is just lying 

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1 minute ago, Ellen said:

Ability to live alone is one of the greatest qualities a man can acquire. Congratulations. People can't love alone because they don't love themselves enough. Anyone who tells u otherwise is just lying 

any story behind this?? Y u got opinion - Ppl dont they love themselves

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17 minutes ago, kidney said:

Everyone need partners/ Guardians - Be it Parents, Brothers, Sisters, Wife..

Okkadivi vuntae - pichodu ayuthavu .. But valla andaru god given given gift,  Except wife - Single ga vundadam better rather being in divorced stage..

P.S: My say is stay single or chose ur wife cleverly -  IIf Once married, try to understand wife, as u try to understand ur siblings...

Parents, Brothers, Sisters prema chalu e jeevithaniki ankuntunna..

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2 minutes ago, odhu_le_macha said:

Parents, Brothers, Sisters prema chalu e jeevithaniki ankuntunna..

Emotional attachments lekunda alone ga happy ga undochu ani na opinion.. once oka bond form ayyaka a bond ki dooram velli alone ga undali antey konchem kastam although some people can get rid of those feelings easily while others cannot take it... so it really depends on ur mental state and how well u handle ur emotions :) at the end of the day unnadhi oka life and time waste cheskokunda on emotions and feelings, do what is best for u and try to get the best out of ur situation anthey .. 

 

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6 minutes ago, kidney said:

any story behind this?? Y u got opinion - Ppl dont they love themselves

Living alone may feel like a soul crushing trap when the person doesn’t know what to do with themselves. Suddenly, he/she is left with personal thoughts that surface without intention. These are usually the same unwanted thoughts that originally drove them to other people in order to help them escape themselves. If you love yourself enough, you need not escape yourself. Once a person learns to enjoy their own company, more often than not, they will prefer that to being with other people

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11 minutes ago, BeautyQueen said:

Agree with this 100000000 timess😒😒 

It is always society, we live and die for society and never for ourselves!! Society never comes and helps when we need help.. 

We can totally be happy, the day we start thinking about our happiness and what makes us happy rather than other opinions!! Sadly few people never get that maturity to think beyond the invisible rules set by the so called ‘’Indian society’’ 😕😕😕 

F**. society ...evadu emanna pattinchukovaddu

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2 minutes ago, BeautyQueen said:

Emotional attachments lekunda alone ga happy ga undochu ani na opinion.. once oka bond form ayyaka a bond ki dooram velli alone ga undali antey konchem kastam although some people can get rid of those feelings easily while others cannot take it... so it really depends on ur mental state and how well u handle ur emotions :) at the end of the day unnadhi oka life and time waste cheskokunda on emotions and feelings, do what is best for u and try to get the best out of ur situation anthey .. 

 

emotional bonding with wife oka year untademo...tharvatha bore kodthadi ani na feeling

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Just now, odhu_le_macha said:

F**. society ...evadu emanna pattinchukovaddu

Manam pattinchukom bro but manatho unnavallu patinchukoni mana meedha a rules press chesthey :( we cannot say no and at the same time argue ... (ex: parents want their daughter/son to get married at a certain time no matter what becoz of society pressure)

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Just now, BeautyQueen said:

Manam pattinchukom bro but manatho unnavallu patinchukoni mana meedha a rules press chesthey :( we cannot say no and at the same time argue ... (ex: parents want their daughter/son to get married at a certain time no matter what becoz of society pressure)

u r right.. mana friends, colleagues kuda antha mature ga unadali kada...manollaki pakkodi life antene interest ekkuva 

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