Are you feeling guilty

[Daaarling]

Are you feeling guilty for leaving your parents on their own in India? I wish I was there with them during this pandemic. Really feeling bad that I left my parents and came here to enjoy freedom forgetting all that they have done to raise me. I am confused and not sure what future holds for me

[BeautyQueen]

You can use the special flights vandhe bharat and go to India and stay there for parents . 

[dasari4kntr]

19 minutes ago, Daaarling said:

Are you feeling guilty for leaving your parents on their own in India? I wish I was there with them during this pandemic. Really feeling bad that I left my parents and came here to enjoy freedom forgetting all that they have done to raise me. I am confused and not sure what future holds for me

just asking...will you leave immediately if the flights are available?

[kathanayaka]

25 minutes ago, Daaarling said:

Are you feeling guilty for leaving your parents on their own in India? I wish I was there with them during this pandemic. Really feeling bad that I left my parents and came here to enjoy freedom forgetting all that they have done to raise me. I am confused and not sure what future holds for me

If you want to go. you will go . reasons apart. It gives you happiness when you think " I am thinking of parents". 

Bottom line is You dont want to go. You are afraid you dont get good money and freedom in India which is utter BS. Many just get used and become lazy to US and COMFY in life

I know ppl leaving US jobs and building startups in India.

If you are skilled nothing can stop you going back to India

[Peddayana]

24 minutes ago, Daaarling said:

Are you feeling guilty for leaving your parents on their own in India? I wish I was there with them during this pandemic. Really feeling bad that I left my parents and came here to enjoy freedom forgetting all that they have done to raise me. I am confused and not sure what future holds for me

 are your parents with their parents? In most cases our parents will not be with their parents unless they are the only son etc

this is cycle of life , hard fact is that your kids will also leave you and stay in some other city or place when they begin college 

do face time daily with your parents and be there for them virtually , its ok to worry about them but guilt is pointless 

raising kids is the responsibility of parents because they had you , it is okay to be thankful but you do not owe them anything  (also do not expect anything from your kids too) , I know this post goes contrary to what is fed to us since childhood that you owe your parents everything

 

[vachesa]

33 minutes ago, Daaarling said:

Are you feeling guilty for leaving your parents on their own in India? I wish I was there with them during this pandemic. Really feeling bad that I left my parents and came here to enjoy freedom forgetting all that they have done to raise me. I am confused and not sure what future holds for me

pandemic or not antha guilty ga vunte velli povachu kada or are your parents stopping you from going to India thinking about their circle

I know mine are, nenu vachesta akkademaina chesukovachu ee thokolo jobs kashtam ante, chal neeku emaina pichi ah, noru moosukoni vundu akkada, andaru ikkada ninchi velthunte and H1b problems lo unayi ani edustunte nuvu enti vasta antavu em avasaram ledu akkade vundu, ikada asalu meeru vundaleru, mee kids adjust avaleru inkedo edo antunaaru, nenu emani chepali mari...nenu epudaina dare chesi veli podam anukunte edo H1b reject ayindi le ani edo abbadam chepi veldam ani decide ayanu

I know nenu ikkada vunte vaalaki em laabam and they may have best intentions but akkada circle enti mee vaadu vachesada H1b poindemo maa vaalu settle ayiporu andi epudo ani antaaru ani valla bayam emo

[Daaarling]

32 minutes ago, BeautyQueen said:

You can use the special flights vandhe bharat and go to India and stay there for parents . 

I wont go now becoz it is very risky and my parents wont allow

 

[Daaarling]

18 minutes ago, kathanayaka said:

If you want to go. you will go . reasons apart. It gives you happiness when you think " I am thinking of parents". 

Bottom line is You dont want to go. You are afraid you dont get good money and freedom in India which is utter BS. Many just get used and become lazy to US and COMFY in life

I know ppl leaving US jobs and building startups in India.

If you are skilled nothing can stop you going back to India

I am skilled but not talented enough to go for a startup. Yes money does matter to me as I have few mortgages to payoff

[Daaarling]

5 minutes ago, vachesa said:

pandemic or not antha guilty ga vunte velli povachu kada or are your parents stopping you from going to India thinking about their circle

I know mine are, nenu vachesta akkademaina chesukovachu ee thokolo jobs kashtam ante, chal neeku emaina pichi ah, noru moosukoni vundu akkada, andaru ikkada ninchi velthunte and H1b problems lo unayi ani edustunte nuvu enti vasta antavu em avasaram ledu akkade vundu, ikada asalu meeru vundaleru, mee kids adjust avaleru inkedo edo antunaaru, nenu emani chepali mari...nenu epudaina dare chesi veli podam anukunte edo H1b reject ayindi le ani edo abbadam chepi veldam ani decide ayanu

I know nenu ikkada vunte vaalaki em laabam and they may have best intentions but akkada circle enti mee vaadu vachesada H1b poindemo maa vaalu settle ayiporu andi epudo ani antaaru ani valla bayam emo

your situation is different

[Daaarling]

17 minutes ago, Peddayana said:

 are your parents with their parents? In most cases our parents will not be with their parents unless they are the only son etc

this is cycle of life , hard fact is that your kids will also leave you and stay in some other city or place when they begin college 

do face time daily with your parents and be there for them virtually , its ok to worry about them but guilt is pointless 

raising kids is the responsibility of parents because they had you , it is okay to be thankful but you do not owe them anything  (also do not expect anything from your kids too) , I know this post goes contrary to what is fed to us since childhood that you owe your parents everything

 

It is true but our parents case was different they were still living close by

[BeautyQueen]

8 minutes ago, Daaarling said:

I wont go now becoz it is very risky and my parents wont allow

 

Okay what abt later? 

[odhu_le_macha]

57 minutes ago, BeautyQueen said:

You can use the special flights vandhe bharat and go to India and stay there for parents . 

[Vaampire]

Nope. My parents are in good state and they can take care of themselves in this current situation. 

 

[reality]

2 hours ago, Daaarling said:

Are you feeling guilty for leaving your parents on their own in India? I wish I was there with them during this pandemic. Really feeling bad that I left my parents and came here to enjoy freedom forgetting all that they have done to raise me. I am confused and not sure what future holds for me

Then go

[chintumintu1]

3 hours ago, BeautyQueen said:

You can use the special flights vandhe bharat and go to India and stay there for parents .