Go back to India vs stay in USA

[InSearch]

manamandaram deeni gurichi alochinchintaam..

nenu tirigi India veldaamane alochanalone yeppudooo unna.. kaani India lo settle avvalante chala challenges unnayani ee madhyane grahinchaaa

Oka pakka parents pedda vallu avutunnaru ane baadha inko pakkana India lo manaku kavalsina salary vastundo raado ani inko badha

Innallooo "yenta chettuki antha gaali"; India salary tho batakagalanu anukunna but India lo manakosam kante saamaajam kosam yekkuva batakalsi vachelaaa undi..

Parents kooda manam yem cheppina vinatledu, yedaina vaddu, mee health ki manchidi kaadu ante.. nee bonda antunnaru

Babai pillalu, daayadulatho compare chesukovatam, vallanu choosi sometimes kullukovatam, manam inka takkuva standards lo batukutunte badha padatam .. etc choosthe bayamestundi. Ivanni alochinchi vallu, nuvvu baga sampadinchu US lo antunnaru, kaani manasulo kalisi undaalani yenta unna supress chesukuntunnaru..

Yedo naa badha cheppukunaa. Mee thoughts kooda share cheyyandi.

 

[Catalpha]

India ki enduku veldamani anukuntunnav? 

[JohnSnow]

If you are below 35, earn well and take care of yourself and experience the world.. 

Once you earn enough, go back to parents after 35 and do some business.. 

Note: past 30, you are adult and you are bread winner of your family, so you have to make choice for yourself too not just for your parents.. 

[sri_india]

10 minutes ago, Catalpha said:

India ki enduku veldamani anukuntunnav? 

@Arey_enti_ra_idi

[krystax_admin]

E issues most of the NRI middle class families lo common ne kada baa. Parents ki kooda age tho patu vachina chastam valla kooda konni issues vastayi..

First manaku clarity undadu whether to stay abroad or go back ani, later most of the cases lo spouse wants to stay back here ani. Parents (especially town/village back ground) emo ikkadiki raru, vachina they stay very short period of time, feels like staying in jail after some trips are over. Grand kids tho intimacy ni enjoy cheyyaleru like in our generation.

poni manam lets go back ani vellina, akkada manam happy ga untamo ledo ani teliyaka frustrate avutu ikkada lead chestuntam. .. undalo vellalo  clarity leka ikkada kooda things ni sarigga plan cheyyalem,

ivanni overthinking cheste we feel low, better to take a decision and we have to tell ourselves that we can embrace it and  try to accomplish it. Again there won’t be best solution for these kind of issues, don't lose yourself in the process of trying to make everyone happy ba.

[Catalpha]

20 minutes ago, sri_india said:

@Arey_enti_ra_idi

It's a valid question no

[Michaelbarbosa]

how much can we expect for a DBA with 6-7yrs of Exp.

[sri_india]

Just now, Catalpha said:

It's a valid question no

this is common crisis in desis  , almost 80% edo oka time lo think chestharu first generation immigrants , quora lo mana vallu ee topic ni chilchi chendadaru , you can find all kind of reasons why people want to go back / or stay here 

[SatishSallu]

ellav nuvvu.. ikkade untav 

[Sarvapindi]

Foreign bathukulu ginthey......ika anthey

[Sarvapindi]

3 minutes ago, SatishSallu said:

ellav nuvvu.. ikkade untav 

ade andari baadha...ekkadunna

[Kurrodu1]

46 minutes ago, InSearch said:

manamandaram deeni gurichi alochinchintaam..

nenu tirigi India veldaamane alochanalone yeppudooo unna.. kaani India lo settle avvalante chala challenges unnayani ee madhyane grahinchaaa

Oka pakka parents pedda vallu avutunnaru ane baadha inko pakkana India lo manaku kavalsina salary vastundo raado ani inko badha

Innallooo "yenta chettuki antha gaali"; India salary tho batakagalanu anukunna but India lo manakosam kante saamaajam kosam yekkuva batakalsi vachelaaa undi..

Parents kooda manam yem cheppina vinatledu, yedaina vaddu, mee health ki manchidi kaadu ante.. nee bonda antunnaru

Babai pillalu, daayadulatho compare chesukovatam, vallanu choosi sometimes kullukovatam, manam inka takkuva standards lo batukutunte badha padatam .. etc choosthe bayamestundi. Ivanni alochinchi vallu, nuvvu baga sampadinchu US lo antunnaru, kaani manasulo kalisi undaalani yenta unna supress chesukuntunnaru..

Yedo naa badha cheppukunaa. Mee thoughts kooda share cheyyandi.

 

Compare cheskovatam anedi ekkadaina untundi if you do not control it. 

India lo ee standard lifestyle expect chestunnavo telisthe you can plan for move.

[dasara_bullodu1]

53 minutes ago, InSearch said:

manamandaram deeni gurichi alochinchintaam..

nenu tirigi India veldaamane alochanalone yeppudooo unna.. kaani India lo settle avvalante chala challenges unnayani ee madhyane grahinchaaa

Oka pakka parents pedda vallu avutunnaru ane baadha inko pakkana India lo manaku kavalsina salary vastundo raado ani inko badha

Innallooo "yenta chettuki antha gaali"; India salary tho batakagalanu anukunna but India lo manakosam kante saamaajam kosam yekkuva batakalsi vachelaaa undi..

Parents kooda manam yem cheppina vinatledu, yedaina vaddu, mee health ki manchidi kaadu ante.. nee bonda antunnaru

Babai pillalu, daayadulatho compare chesukovatam, vallanu choosi sometimes kullukovatam, manam inka takkuva standards lo batukutunte badha padatam .. etc choosthe bayamestundi. Ivanni alochinchi vallu, nuvvu baga sampadinchu US lo antunnaru, kaani manasulo kalisi undaalani yenta unna supress chesukuntunnaru..

Yedo naa badha cheppukunaa. Mee thoughts kooda share cheyyandi.

 

samajam lekunda entha dooram paripotav

[Catalpha]

5 minutes ago, sri_india said:

this is common crisis in desis  , almost 80% edo oka time lo think chestharu first generation immigrants , quora lo mana vallu ee topic ni chilchi chendadaru , you can find all kind of reasons why people want to go back / or stay here 

Those reasons will tell you if you should go back or not, I don't understand why they need back and forth discussions

[SatishSallu]

Just now, Sarvapindi said:

ade andari baadha...ekkadunna

ellalani lekapothene ye reason tho aagipodama ani reasons ethukutam