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4 minutes ago, NeneRajuNeneManthri said:

I have seen people who sent their kids to India and they came back with being good and socially active. Some friends who didn't send to India and kept in day care ended up not being able to speak.

 

So the moral is it doesn't matter if they go to India or not, it depends on kid and how they learn from surroundings

day care ki poyyi matalu raledaaa ....lol . Infact its opposite way around they will be very talkative and socializing and better than kids sent to india when compared to knowing things.

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10 minutes ago, Kootami said:

day care ki poyyi matalu raledaaa ....lol . Infact its opposite way around they will be very talkative and socializing and better than kids sent to india when compared to knowing things.

Day care per month entha Babai??

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Controversial tofic.. my observation nothing wrong in bringing parents/ inlaws or sending kids as long as everyone is on the same page willing to do what it takes.. my only concern is that parents or inlaws not being treated the right way.. not taking them out, please don’t say taking them to Walmart and parks is considered going out., no proper insurances taken as it costs close to 3000$...there are other stuff  to consider like their health etc

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3 hours ago, Kootami said:

day care ki poyyi matalu raledaaa ....lol . Infact its opposite way around they will be very talkative and socializing and better than kids sent to india when compared to knowing things.

Yep. It varies from person to person. Now a days in pandemic people are thinking it's safe to take risk once and send to India than keeping here and having challenges balancing work and kids.

Both husband and wife working valla ochina kastalu. Tellollaithe udyogalu manestaru intlo undi choostharu as they don't have option. Manollemo work chesthe money ostayi Ani kondaru. Status potundani kondaru. Many reasons tho work chestaru and kids choodaleka parents ni pilustaru or India pampistaru.

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3 hours ago, Tellugodu said:

Day care per month entha Babai??

Depends on area. Some are cheap and some costly. Manchi area lo manchidi aithe anywhere from 1500

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42 minutes ago, NeneRajuNeneManthri said:

Yep. It varies from person to person. Now a days in pandemic people are thinking it's safe to take risk once and send to India than keeping here and having challenges balancing work and kids.

Both husband and wife working valla ochina kastalu. Tellollaithe udyogalu manestaru intlo undi choostharu as they don't have option. Manollemo work chesthe money ostayi Ani kondaru. Status potundani kondaru. Many reasons tho work chestaru and kids choodaleka parents ni pilustaru or India pampistaru.

seriously @3$%

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5 hours ago, NeneRajuNeneManthri said:

I have seen people who sent their kids to India and they came back with being good and socially active. Some friends who didn't send to India and kept in day care ended up not being able to speak.

So the moral is it doesn't matter if they go to India or not, it depends on kid and how they learn from surroundings

Ending up not being able to speak (or walk) is a medical condition with the kid - not an issue with daycare centers in the US. The kid may have had even more severe problems if he was in India. Kids who go to daycare are well behaved and more social.

People usually don’t get sick in the US as much as they do in India frequently. I never fell sick in many decades of living in US (not even fever, cough, colds that I used to have every year back in India).

It is better not to have kids if you cannot take care of them - just don’t send them to India to live in a polluted, contaminated environment and develop thick accent that would have issues later on when they return to US

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Ikada lk saley gandlu chala vunaru. they lock their parents at home for taking care of kids papam aaaa parents chinna chinnaa families nundi vastaru.

Pellallu office.  chese lawdaa testing jobs ki parlor, hair color , conditioner, battallu shopping, office meetings ani chepi.

mogudu busy with offshore and onshore. 

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1 hour ago, Kootami said:

seriously @3$%

choosina okati rendu cases batti statements ichinappudu thread lo, nenu choosina neighbors batti statement ivvodda.. lafangi.

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1 hour ago, Bhumchik said:

Ending up not being able to speak (or walk) is a medical condition with the kid - not an issue with daycare centers in the US. The kid may have had even more severe problems if he was in India. Kids who go to daycare are well behaved and more social.

People usually don’t get sick in the US as much as they do in India frequently. I never fell sick in many decades of living in US (not even fever, cough, colds that I used to have every year back in India).

It is better not to have kids if you cannot take care of them - just don’t send them to India to live in a polluted, contaminated environment and develop thick accent that would have issues later on when they return to US

lol .. dialogues andaru cheptharu.. 

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6 hours ago, Tellugodu said:

What kind of problems he created to his parents?? Elaborate more. 

@Tellugodu   ennani Cheatham ba..i will try few..road meeda addamga parigedatadu..frequent complaints from scho not following teacher instructions and not making eye contact and hitting other kids in school and biting other kids....worst vulgar telugu matladam..English follow avvakapovadam..india lo em chendalam nerchukoni vachado adanta eeda pradarshana....i saw tears in that kid mom eyes so many times..out of frustration..even once school arranged apple pick up in fall ..his mom have to be there with that every single minute/second.. she went away one sec..he threw whole lunch box on the ground..ila okkati ani em chepta. ...narakam in prathi nimishum aa parents ki..daniki thodu all friends and neighbors..baga tikka kudirindi vedavalaki annattu looks and talks ..in circastic way...

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