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Request To all people who are bringing their old parents to USA during this pandemic


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1 hour ago, snoww said:

Em matladuthunnav man. Em rules. Last week already vacharu. Pake septhe naakem vasthadi.

Slipper shot ichav ga aadiki 

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2 hours ago, snoww said:

Ikkade safe, they don't have to go out for market outside, no visitors will come home ani argue sesthe em sestham. 

asal flight ekkinchaaru antene ardham cheskuvaaali entha safe  safe ani alochinchaaro ani....malli topic vachinappudu adugu... safe safe annav asal flight ela ekkinchaav eee situation lo ani...

 

inthaaki inlaws ni theppinchaadaa or parents ?    new born 

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30 minutes ago, Kalam_Youtheman said:

asal flight ekkinchaaru antene ardham cheskuvaaali entha safe  safe ani alochinchaaro ani....malli topic vachinappudu adugu... safe safe annav asal flight ela ekkinchaav eee situation lo ani...

 

 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
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inthaaki inlaws ni theppinchaadaa or parents ?    new born 

Parents. In laws corona munde vellipoyaru ikkada nundi. 

Working couple. So mostly baby sitting duties kosam ee idi. 

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58 minutes ago, snoww said:

Parents. In laws corona munde vellipoyaru ikkada nundi. 

Working couple. So mostly baby sitting duties kosam ee idi. 

WFH option ledhaa neeeku or mee wife ki 

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1 minute ago, Kalam_Youtheman said:

WFH option ledhaa neeeku or mee wife ki 

Corona time lo andaru working from home ee kada. Two toddler kids. Both their jobs are busy jobs with all day meetings. Day care ki corona time lo kids ni pampali ani ledu vallaki. So getting hard to attend meetings and work. Anduke parents ni brought. 

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For those parents who leave their kids in India, what exactly will they tell the kid in the future when they grow up and later ask the parents the reason for leaving them in India?

Does the parents even realize that there can be psychological impact on the kids if they are kept far away?

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3 minutes ago, Jilchika said:

For those parents who leave their kids in India, what exactly will they tell the kid in the future when they grow up and later ask the parents the reason for leaving them in India?

Does the parents even realize that there can be psychological impact on the kids if they are kept far away?

paisa hay paramaathma antunnaruu mana DB worst parents who sent kids to INDIA 

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12 minutes ago, snoww said:

Corona time lo andaru working from home ee kada. Two toddler kids. Both their jobs are busy jobs with all day meetings. Day care ki corona time lo kids ni pampali ani ledu vallaki. So getting hard to attend meetings and work. Anduke parents ni brought. 

so attha mama laaaki torture pedthunnaruu anamaata... hmmm

 

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13 hours ago, vishwavihar said:

pichana kodkulki chakri cheyali malla valla pillali kooda na

em ne G nuvvu wash cheskoleva...

e age lo kooda vallameda ne padala....

em podchi piktunnaru anthaganam... dikkumalina desam lo 

INDIA vachi savandi loveda lodi

Trump thatha ki cheppi aa lathkor gallani Ella 10gu kaka 

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6 hours ago, NeneRajuNeneManthri said:

lol .. dialogues andaru cheptharu.. 

Isn’t that what you are doing?

you are talking as though kids who grew up in India are far better than kids raised in US who ended up with mental problems just because they grew up in US and attended daycare centers in US.

speech issues are medical conditions that need therapy and have nothing to do with attending daycare centers. If anything, they will only improve physical and verbal communication and learn a LOT by attending daycare. Medical conditions don’t go away by just growing up in India - if anything, they will become worse whereas they get better in US. Even sick visitors from India to US said their health issues got better - even without using medication

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56 minutes ago, Jilchika said:

For those parents who leave their kids in India, what exactly will they tell the kid in the future when they grow up and later ask the parents the reason for leaving them in India?

Does the parents even realize that there can be psychological impact on the kids if they are kept far away?

I am not replying to ur actual question but I don’t think the kid even remembers.. kids 1-2 unnappudu India ship cheste 5 kalla they are back.. y would a kid even remember any of this.. even if they figure out this happened I don’t think it’s going to be a big deal.. offcourse parents will miss their child’s formative years and the child definitely doesn’t deserve that..may be grandparents pempakam different undocchu but long term impact is very less.. 

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57 minutes ago, Jilchika said:

For those parents who leave their kids in India, what exactly will they tell the kid in the future when they grow up and later ask the parents the reason for leaving them in India?

Does the parents even realize that there can be psychological impact on the kids if they are kept far away?

Idhi konchem over 

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6 hours ago, ForEverJava said:

@Tellugodu   ennani Cheatham ba..i will try few..road meeda addamga parigedatadu..frequent complaints from scho not following teacher instructions and not making eye contact and hitting other kids in school and biting other kids....worst vulgar telugu matladam..English follow avvakapovadam..india lo em chendalam nerchukoni vachado adanta eeda pradarshana....i saw tears in that kid mom eyes so many times..out of frustration..even once school arranged apple pick up in fall ..his mom have to be there with that every single minute/second.. she went away one sec..he threw whole lunch box on the ground..ila okkati ani em chepta. ...narakam in prathi nimishum aa parents ki..daniki thodu all friends and neighbors..baga tikka kudirindi vedavalaki annattu looks and talks ..in circastic way...

Kids who have not started to speak yet communicate physically when they are toddlers (hitting, biting because they don’t know how) and when they grow up and start talking, their communication turns into verbal. Kids who attend daycare learn a LOT, communicate better and don’t hit or bite others.

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5 hours ago, Bhumchik said:

Isn’t that what you are doing?

you are talking as though kids who grew up in India are far better than kids raised in US who ended up with mental problems just because they grew up in US and attended daycare centers in US.

speech issues are medical conditions that need therapy and have nothing to do with attending daycare centers. If anything, they will only improve physical and verbal communication and learn a LOT by attending daycare. Medical conditions don’t go away by just growing up in India - if anything, they will become worse whereas they get better in US. Even sick visitors from India to US said their health issues got better - even without using medication

I didn't say sending to India is better. Everyone has their own experiences so we shouldn't criticize them ani example. There isn't a rule saying sending to India is better or bad. We cant judge other people's views. Nee experiences or situations batti nee views untay. Whatever you want to believe or think is right, do it. I'm not interested in changing those.

As I said I have seen some friends who sent their kids to India and found them to be better. Ala Ani manam vallani chetha kani valla kinda choodakoodadu Ani . I personally I'm ok either sending or not sending. Not a big deal as long as grand parents ask for it. End of my discussion

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