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[Picheshwar]

8 minutes ago, BeautyQueen said:

 

[Jaffa3]

39 minutes ago, sree_reddy said:

send lapaki ra

ekkani ethulu levu

choodani lothulu lev

koosalu kadhili povali anthe

matter nill ainapudu promotion full ga cheskovali

ani RGV makkuda cheppadu levo 

[SharkTank]

1 minute ago, Jaffa3 said:

matter nill ainapudu promotion full ga cheskovali

ani RGV makkuda cheppadu levo 

[bostonbro]

1 hour ago, sree_reddy said:

same doubt

ee madya pelli cancel or divorce lo 

guy is gay anatam latest trend la undhi

 

divorce iche appudu lapaki ni pakkana pettukoni ravali emo press meet ki

Strip club lo video allow chesthe

teesi chupinchalemo  girl's families ki

 

[bostonbro]

 

What exactly does demisexual mean?

Demisexuality is a sexual orientation where people only experience sexual attraction to folks that they have close emotional connections with.

In other words, demisexual people only experience sexual attraction after an emotional bond has formed.

 

What kind of bond are you talking about — love?

This emotional bond isn’t necessarily love or romance.

For some demisexual people, it may be friendship — including platonic friendship.

They might not necessarily love the person — whether romantically or platonically — at all.

 

 

 

Wait, why does that need a label?

Our orientation describes who we’re attracted to. Demisexual people experience attraction to a select group of people.

You might wonder, “But don’t many of us wait to feel an emotional connection to someone before having sex with them?”

Yes, many people do choose to only have sex with people they have a bond with — whether it’s marriage, a committed romantic relationship, or a happy and trusting friendship.

The difference is that demisexuality isn’t about having sex. It’s about the ability to feel sexual attraction to specific people.

You can be sexually attracted to someone without having sex with them, and you can have sex with someone without actually feeling attracted to them.

Demisexual people aren’t simply people who decide to date someone for a long time before having sex with them. It isn’t about deciding to have sex, but rather feeling sexually attracted to someone.

That said, some demisexual people might choose to wait a while before having sex with a romantic partner — but this is independent of their sexual orientation.

 

 

 

Does an emotional bond guarantee that sexual attraction will develop?

Nope!

Heterosexual men are sexually attracted to women, but they’re not necessarily attracted to every woman they meet.

Similarly, demisexuality doesn’t mean that a demisexual person is attracted to everyone they have a deep emotional bond with.

 

 

Does this orientation fit under the asexual umbrella?

This question is cause for a lot of debate in the asexual, graysexual, and demisexual communities.

An asexual person experiences little to no sexual attraction. “Sexual attraction” is about finding someone sexually appealing and wanting to have sex with them.

The opposite of asexual is sexual, also referred to as allosexual.

Graysexuality is often considered the “midpoint” between asexuality and allosexuality — graysexual people rarely experience sexual attraction, or they experience it with low intensity.

Some people argue that demisexuality doesn’t fit under the asexual umbrella because it only refers to the circumstances under which you feel sexual attraction. It doesn’t necessarily comment on how often or how intensely you experience sexual attraction.

Somebody who tends to feel intense sexual attraction toward nearly all of their closest friends and partners — but not toward acquaintances or strangers — might feel that they are demisexual but not asexual at all.

Someone who is only sexually attracted to one or two close friends or partners, but not often and not intensely, might identify strongly with graysexuality or asexuality.

On the other hand, people argue that demisexuality falls under the asexual banner. This is because demisexuality does describe a situation where you only experience sexual attraction in limited circumstances.

At the end of the day, it doesn’t particularly matter what anyone else thinks about where this orientation falls on the asexual-allosexual spectrum.

You’re allowed to identify however you’d like, and you’re welcome to choose multiple labels to describe your sexual and romantic orientation.

 

 

 

Can you apply a gender orientation to this?

Most sexual orientation labels — such as homosexual, bisexual, or pansexual — refer to the gender/s of the people we’re attracted to.

Demisexual is different because it refers to the nature of our relationship to the people we’re attracted to. It’s OK to want to use a description that refers to gender orientation too.

So yes, you can be demisexual and also homosexual, bisexual, pansexual, heterosexual, and so on — whatever best describes your individual orientation.

 

What does being demisexual look like in practice?

Being demisexual looks different to different people.

If you’re demisexual, you might relate to the following feelings or scenarios:

• I seldom feel sexually attracted to people I see on the street, strangers, or acquaintances.
• I have felt sexually attracted to someone I was close to (such as a friend or romantic partner).
• My emotional connection with someone affects whether I feel sexually attracted to them.
• I’m not aroused or interested in the thought of having sex with someone I don’t know well, even if they’re aesthetically beautiful or have a pleasant personality.

That said, all demisexuals are different, and you might be demisexual even if you don’t relate to the above.

 

 

 

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How is this different from being graysexual?

Demisexual people only experience sexual attraction after a close emotional bond has formed. This is different to seldom experiencing sexual attraction.

Demisexual people might experience sexual attraction often and intensely, but only with people they’re close to.

Similarly, graysexual people might find that when they do experience sexual attraction, it isn’t necessarily with people they have a close emotional bond with.

 

Is it possible to be both at the same time or fluctuate between the two?

Yes. You can simultaneously identify as demisexual and graysexual or demisexual and asexual. It’s also totally OK to fluctuate between orientations.

 

What about elsewhere on the spectrum? Can you move between periods of sexuality and asexuality?

Yes. As mentioned before, demisexual people might identify as asexual, graysexual, or allosexual.

Sexuality and orientation are fluid. You might find your capacity for sexual attraction shifts over time. For example, you might go from being allosexual to being graysexual to being asexual.

Interestingly, the 2015 Asexual Census found that over 80 percent of its respondents identified as another orientation before they identified as asexual, which demonstrates how fluid sexuality can be.

Remember: This doesn’t mean that they weren’t necessarily whatever identity they identified with before, and it doesn’t mean they’re not asexual now.

Fluid orientations aren’t any less valid than non-fluid ones.

 

Can demisexuals experience other forms of attraction?  

Yes! Demisexual people can experience other forms of attraction. This may include:

• Romantic attraction: desiring a romantic relationship with someone
• Aesthetic attraction: being attracted to someone based on how they look
• Sensual or physical attraction: wanting to touch, hold, or cuddle someone
• Platonic attraction: wanting to be friends with someone
• Emotional attraction: wanting an emotional connection with someone

 

What does being demisexual mean for partnered relationships?

Demisexual people might or might not desire romantic relationships and partnerships.

In relationships, demisexual people might or might not choose to have sex. To some demisexual people, sex might not be important in relationships. To others, it’s important.

Some demisexual people might feel that their bond with their partner isn’t necessarily close enough for them to feel sexually attracted to their partner.

Some might choose to wait until they feel close enough to their partner, and some might opt out altogether.

Some might have sex with their partner without feeling sexually attracted to their partner. Every demisexual person is different.

 

 

Is it OK to not want a relationship at all?

Yes. Many people — including demisexual people — don’t want relationships and that’s totally OK.

Remember that having an emotional bond with someone isn’t the same as having or wanting a romantic relationship with them.

So, a demisexual person might have an emotional bond with someone and feel sexually attracted to them, but not necessarily want a romantic relationship with that person.

 

What about sex?

Being demisexual isn’t about your capacity for sexual enjoyment, only sexual attraction.

There’s also a difference between sexual attraction and sexual behavior. You can be sexually attracted to someone without having sex with them, and you can have sex with someone you’re not sexually attracted to.

There are many reasons why people have sex, including:

• to become pregnant
• to feel intimacy
• for emotional bonding
• for pleasure and fun
• for experimentation

So, demisexual people — like any other group of people — might have sex with people who they’re not sexually attracted to.

As for people who are asexual and graysexual, they’re all unique, and they can have different feelings about sex. The words used to describe these feelings include:

• sex-repulsed, meaning they dislike sex and don’t want to have it
• sex-indifferent, meaning they feel lukewarm about sex
• sex-favorable, meaning they desire and enjoy sex

 

Where does masturbation fit into this?

Asexual and graysexual people might masturbate.

This includes demisexual people who may also identify as asexual or graysexual. And yes, it can feel enjoyable for them.

Again, every person is unique, and what one demisexual person enjoys might not be what another person enjoys.

 

How do you know where you fit under the asexual umbrella — if at all?

There’s no test to determine whether you are asexual, graysexual, or demisexual.

You may find it helpful to ask yourself questions like:

• Who do I experience sexual attraction to?
• How do I feel about these people?
• How often do I experience sexual attraction?
• How intense is this sexual attraction?
• Is sexual attraction an important factor in choosing who I date?
• Do I ever feel sexually attracted to strangers or acquaintances?

Of course, there are no right or wrong answers. Every demisexual person would answer differently based on their own feelings and experiences.

However, asking yourself these questions can help you understand and process your feelings about sexual attraction.

 

Where can you learn more about being demisexual?

You can learn more about demisexuality online or at local in-person meetups. If you have a local LGBTQA+ community, you might be able to connect with other demisexual people there.

You can also learn more from:

• Asexual Visibility and Education Network wiki site, where you can search the definitions of different words relating to sexuality and orientation.
• Demisexuality Resource Center
• forums like AVEN forum and Demisexuality subreddit
• Facebook groups and other online forums for demisexual people

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Sian Ferguson is a freelance writer and editor based in Cape Town, South Africa. Her writing covers issues relating to social justice, cannabis, and health. You can reach out to her on Twitter.

 

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[Tellugodu]

3 hours ago, Sreeven said:

Ledu ba..premature ejection avvochu stress valla but not gay..adi usual ga by birth vastundi antaru

Premature ejaculation is common when you are newly married, your timing will be increased based on “practice “ani shopping specialist aka DB Samaram @Sucker briefed know.

[kadapakathalu]

5 hours ago, sree_reddy said:

india lo many gays

uncles used to touch my thodals in hyd many times

once I slapped one and called him out

avunu ba.. city buses lo chala ekkuva idi.. ade pani ga bus loki ekke vallu koddi mandi gay vuncles..10gei mani cheppe vanni if they tried to put their hands on me.

[johnydanylee]

బాధితురాలు తెలిపిన వివరాల ప్రకారం.. గుంటూరు ఏటీ అగ్రహారానికి చెందిన యువతికి ఆర్టీసీ కాలనీకి చెందిన ఎన్‌ఆర్‌ఐతో మార్చి 18న పెద్దలు వివాహం జరిపించారు. వరుడు అమెరికాలో సాఫ్ట్‌వేర్‌ ఇంజినీర్‌. దీంతో వధువు తల్లిదండ్రులు ఉన్న పొలాలు అమ్మి రూ.50 లక్షల నగదు, 55 సవర్ల బంగారం కట్నంగా ఇచ్చారు. రూ.15 లక్షలతో పెళ్లిచేశారు. తొలి రాత్రి అతను ఆరోగ్యం బాగోలేదని బయటకు వెళ్లిపోయాడు. తర్వాత కూడా దగ్గరకు రానివ్వకపోవడంతో అనుమానం వచ్చిన భార్య అతణ్ని నిలదీసింది. తనకు ఆడవాళ్లంటే ఇష్టం లేదని, అమెరికాలో ఒక బాయ్‌ఫ్రెండ్‌ ఉన్నాడని భర్త చెప్పాడు. అతని కోసమే పెళ్లి చేసుకున్నానని.. అమెరికా తీసుకువెళ్లిన తర్వాత తన బాయ్‌ఫ్రెండ్‌కు అప్పజెబుతానని, అతనితో సంసారం చేయాలని చెప్పాడు. తానూ అతనితోనే సుఖపడతాననడంతో ఆమె నిర్ఘాంతపోయి.. తననెందుకు మోసం చేశావని నిలదీసింది. కట్నం కోసం పెళ్లి చేసుకోమంటూ అమ్మానాన్నలు బలవంతం చేయడంతో తప్పలేదని చెప్పాడు. దీంతో ఆమె విషయాన్ని అత్తమామలు, ఆడపడుచుల దృష్టికి తీసుకెళ్లింది. ‘వాడు నీతో సంసారం చెయ్యడు.. కావాలంటే నువ్వూ ఒక బాయ్‌ఫ్రెండ్‌ను వెతుక్కో’ అన్నారని బాధితురాలు వాపోయింది. ఇంతలో తన భర్త అమెరికా వెళ్లిపోయాడని, ఫోన్‌ చేస్తుంటే తీయడం లేదని తెలిపింది. తమ కొడుకుతో మాట్లాడాలంటే పుట్టింటికి వెళ్లి మరో రూ.10 లక్షలు తీసుకురా వాలంటూ అత్తింటివాళ్లు గెంటేశారని ఆవేదన చెందింది. ఈ విషయం తల్లిదండ్రులకు తెలిసి కుంగిపోతున్నారని వాపోయింది. తనకు చావే శరణ్యమని. న్యాయం చేయాలని పోలీసులను వేడుకుంది. విచారించి న్యాయం జరిగేలా చూస్తామని అర్బన్‌ ఎస్పీ హామీ ఇచ్చారు.

[Jombo0108]

18 minutes ago, johnydanylee said:

బాధితురాలు తెలిపిన వివరాల ప్రకారం.. గుంటూరు ఏటీ అగ్రహారానికి చెందిన యువతికి ఆర్టీసీ కాలనీకి చెందిన ఎన్‌ఆర్‌ఐతో మార్చి 18న పెద్దలు వివాహం జరిపించారు. వరుడు అమెరికాలో సాఫ్ట్‌వేర్‌ ఇంజినీర్‌. దీంతో వధువు తల్లిదండ్రులు ఉన్న పొలాలు అమ్మి రూ.50 లక్షల నగదు, 55 సవర్ల బంగారం కట్నంగా ఇచ్చారు. రూ.15 లక్షలతో పెళ్లిచేశారు. తొలి రాత్రి అతను ఆరోగ్యం బాగోలేదని బయటకు వెళ్లిపోయాడు. తర్వాత కూడా దగ్గరకు రానివ్వకపోవడంతో అనుమానం వచ్చిన భార్య అతణ్ని నిలదీసింది. తనకు ఆడవాళ్లంటే ఇష్టం లేదని, అమెరికాలో ఒక బాయ్‌ఫ్రెండ్‌ ఉన్నాడని భర్త చెప్పాడు. అతని కోసమే పెళ్లి చేసుకున్నానని.. అమెరికా తీసుకువెళ్లిన తర్వాత తన బాయ్‌ఫ్రెండ్‌కు అప్పజెబుతానని, అతనితో సంసారం చేయాలని చెప్పాడు. తానూ అతనితోనే సుఖపడతాననడంతో ఆమె నిర్ఘాంతపోయి.. తననెందుకు మోసం చేశావని నిలదీసింది. కట్నం కోసం పెళ్లి చేసుకోమంటూ అమ్మానాన్నలు బలవంతం చేయడంతో తప్పలేదని చెప్పాడు. దీంతో ఆమె విషయాన్ని అత్తమామలు, ఆడపడుచుల దృష్టికి తీసుకెళ్లింది. ‘వాడు నీతో సంసారం చెయ్యడు.. కావాలంటే నువ్వూ ఒక బాయ్‌ఫ్రెండ్‌ను వెతుక్కో’ అన్నారని బాధితురాలు వాపోయింది. ఇంతలో తన భర్త అమెరికా వెళ్లిపోయాడని, ఫోన్‌ చేస్తుంటే తీయడం లేదని తెలిపింది. తమ కొడుకుతో మాట్లాడాలంటే పుట్టింటికి వెళ్లి మరో రూ.10 లక్షలు తీసుకురా వాలంటూ అత్తింటివాళ్లు గెంటేశారని ఆవేదన చెందింది. ఈ విషయం తల్లిదండ్రులకు తెలిసి కుంగిపోతున్నారని వాపోయింది. తనకు చావే శరణ్యమని. న్యాయం చేయాలని పోలీసులను వేడుకుంది. విచారించి న్యాయం జరిగేలా చూస్తామని అర్బన్‌ ఎస్పీ హామీ ఇచ్చారు.

sounds like an episode of 8:30 serial. koncham ladies kotta stories vetikithe bagundtundi.. 

[Khaidino6093]

9 hours ago, sree_reddy said:

 

@AFDBRAJA aka @whatsapp spotted

[Rushabhi]

Aasthulu ammi katnalu ichevallu kooda unnara ee kalam lo? Adhi Guntur area lo?

[No_body_friends]

10 minutes ago, Rushabhi said:

Aasthulu ammi katnalu ichevallu kooda unnara ee kalam lo? Adhi Guntur area lo?

dandaalu thalli

[Rushabhi]

3 minutes ago, No_body_friends said:

dandaalu thalli

Dandaalu dandaalu. How are you?