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Having kids vs not having kids... db philosophers analysis ivvandi vaa..


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11 minutes ago, soodhilodaaram said:

find such couples and talk to them..you will understand what i mean

i agree they might start having issues but mari psych ward lo cherenthana?

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50 minutes ago, soodhilodaaram said:

procreation is very important aspect of life that has phenomenal effects on life in general, if a family doesn't do it, they have the option to adopt someone one, it could even be pets

absence of both will make the couple end up in psych ward..one may disagree now but will agree when their presence in psych ward is confirmed..this just a question of when.. it's very rare to find couples who dont have kids and yet not ended up in psych ward.. they would most likely adopted spiritualism to compensate

Not being happy alone shouldn't be a reason to have kids. 

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1 hour ago, jaijava said:

US la job chesthu pillalni manage cheyadam impossible anipistondi.. pillalu lekunte a lot of free time + money... but i feel one might regret not having kids later on in life... deeni meeda mana db philosophers thoughts/experiences enti.. 

see our earlier generations , not the ones who has cricket teams i mean about parents who has 2 kids. they raised with much less earnings., if they thought about money and free time , most of us wouldn't have been here.  

after a point all the free time and money makes no sense . already the society is going towards nuclear concepts , nobody cares nowadays , you will loose your parents and dont even think about relatives or friends ( most of them are good for nothing) , staying in america anyways make most of the old connections weak ,  lonliness and depression will be the major trouble makers in future . 

so just to have to say someone is yours and something for you , have kids . that's the only good thing u can have. 

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32 minutes ago, lenova said:

see our earlier generations , not the ones who has cricket teams i mean about parents who has 2 kids. they raised with much less earnings., if they thought about money and free time , most of us wouldn't have been here.  

after a point all the free time and money makes no sense . already the society is going towards nuclear concepts , nobody cares nowadays , you will loose your parents and dont even think about relatives or friends ( most of them are good for nothing) , staying in america anyways make most of the old connections weak ,  lonliness and depression will be the major trouble makers in future . 

so just to have to say someone is yours and something for you , have kids . that's the only good thing u can have. 

So you're saying that people should have kids so they are not lonely when they are old?

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46 minutes ago, jaijava said:

i agree they might start having issues but mari psych ward lo cherenthana?

did you fail in english prose and poetry areas.. kavi bhavam lo cheppa

nuvvu choosina valla inka join avvaledu ante... they may join in future ani ardham..but dealing with them you can clearly sense their lack of empathy or they may even act over empathy

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1 hour ago, Peddayana said:

Not everyone will be happy with raising kids , its not as easy as it seems , you will literally have no time for the first few years once they are born , so be prepared for that

Janalu chala cheptaru , but not everyone can be good mom or dad , so don't if you are not that confident , social pressure tho don't rush , take your time and when you are 100% ready then do it..

aaadaa already  Mudd kinda muppay 30... take your time ante inka later no power in engine.. thusssss

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2 minutes ago, soodhilodaaram said:

did you fail in english prose and poetry areas.. kavi bhavam lo cheppa

nuvvu choosina valla inka join avvaledu ante... they may join in future ani ardham..but dealing with them you can clearly sense their lack of empathy or they may even act over empathy

adi kavi bhavam la anipistonda meeku 😂

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1 hour ago, JaiTDP said:

Kids r kids va .... don’t miss that life. 
 

all your troubles can be forgotten just seeing their funny acts. 

Annai how many kids neeku?

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If you are happy with your financial status then you should start family ASAP... somehow I like the American way mostly whites.... 

pelli avvagane varasa petti kanestaru three or four and done deal... 

personally  I would say get married early and have kids early... 

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4 hours ago, jaijava said:

US la job chesthu pillalni manage cheyadam impossible anipistondi.. pillalu lekunte a lot of free time + money... but i feel one might regret not having kids later on in life... deeni meeda mana db philosophers thoughts/experiences enti.. 

eternal truth of life is - living it. not born or death. the experience of living it. 

rest(money, fame, job, time, relations etc) all is temporary. 

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