Having kids vs not having kids... db philosophers analysis ivvandi vaa..

[Jilchika]

[DummyVariable]

4 hours ago, Catalpha said:

Not being happy alone shouldn't be a reason to have kids. 

What should be the reason for not having kids? 

[tables]

once you hit 35 all freedom, finances will not matter... nelaki 3000 earn chesina 30000 earn chesina pedda diff undadu....and infact there is a high chance you feel lonely...because you cannot join families in their discussions and 20 something guys will not let you in their circle.

[JambaKrantu]

I am not getting married, but when I turn 35 I will hire a Russian women to have a kid for me. Maa office lo oka gay gadu did the same thing, costed him 70k. Marriage lekunda I am fine kaani I love kids. I will adopt one more kid also down the line.

[JohnSnow]

7 minutes ago, JambaKrantu said:

I am not getting married, but when I turn 35 I will hire a Russian women to have a kid for me. Maa office lo oka gay gadu did the same thing, costed him 70k. Marriage lekunda I am fine kaani I love kids. I will adopt one more kid also down the line.

Masthu chusinam ilanti matalu ani db uncles telling 

[JambaKrantu]

Just now, JohnSnow said:

Masthu chusinam ilanti matalu ani db uncles telling 

Thing is I am not one of them, I know what I want and I am never getting married 

[JohnSnow]

1 minute ago, JambaKrantu said:

Thing is I am not one of them, I know what I want and I am never getting married 

DB uncles: 

[JambaKrantu]

1 minute ago, JohnSnow said:

DB uncles: 

nice gif. I am 30, my family has already given up hope. I think you still have hope, let's see

[JohnSnow]

Just now, JambaKrantu said:

nice gif. I am 30, my family has already given up hope. I think you still have hope, let's see

Nenu anthe undevadini baa.. but already music start chesthunnaru mellaga intlo emotional ga but i have 3 or 4 more years

[VinPetrol]

kids undali .. ah phase chudali.. apude life lo thrill.. em lekunda ala okadive em peekutavu.. 

[jaijava]

49 minutes ago, JambaKrantu said:

I am not getting married, but when I turn 35 I will hire a Russian women to have a kid for me. Maa office lo oka gay gadu did the same thing, costed him 70k. Marriage lekunda I am fine kaani I love kids. I will adopt one more kid also down the line.

intla nundi marriage pressure leda?

[Catalpha]

2 hours ago, DummyVariable said:

What should be the reason for not having kids? 

Not having a good reason to have them. Having kids is a lot of responsibility, people often don't think before, and have kids just because it's the norm. It's another life, it's not bad to retrospect if that's the right decision to make. 

[kidney]

 

[lenova]

19 hours ago, Catalpha said:

So you're saying that people should have kids so they are not lonely when they are old?

No that’s a bonus if your kids will take care  of you in future ( this depends on how you raise and what values you incurr in them)
you are missing the core point , that is “bonding”. unconditional love evolves through this . a sense of responsibility and belonging.

staying alone leads to depression and lonliness for most of the people.

this is for most of the people , I am not talking about some like RGV ( hope he is not faking his thought process , even he actually got married and had kid )