Is it good idea to Keep kids with us or send back India?

[Peddayana]

1 minute ago, Gaali_Gottam_Govinda said:

I was about write exactly this.

We Indians are bunch of Moral hypocrites.......... Manam Parents ni vadilesi ikkada neat gaa US lo settle ayyipovachu........... Parents old age ayyinaka ICU lo unte gaani vellam India ki Parents ni choodaneeki.

prati vaadu neethulu cheppevaade ikkada.

 

TS: stop asking these silly questions. do what is right for you and your family.

Your parents would have left their parents in village and now living somewhere else , your kids will also leave you in future and be on their own, this is cycle of life 

leaving kids is different

[JohnSnow]

13 minutes ago, Peddayana said:

leaving parents who can take care of themselves and leaving kids are two different things,

mee parents kooda ninnu vadilesara chinnapudu , think about how you would have felt if they did

sambandham leni comparisons ivanni 

Kids can be taken care by your parents.. its your parents who are suffering in their old age and you should take care them first as they suffer health issues then.

sambandham leni argument.

[Peddayana]

2 minutes ago, JohnSnow said:

Kids can be taken care by your parents.. its your parents who are suffering in their old age and you should take care them first as they suffer health issues then.

sambandham leni argument.

lol , you are contradicting yourself bro , if parents are not in good shape how can they take care of kids , taking care of kids requires lot of energy..you will not know it unless you have kids

[Sarvapindi]

28 minutes ago, Gaali_Gottam_Govinda said:

Street smartness baaga telustadi India lo raise ayyina vallaki

 

I feel like ABCD kids here are just raised dumb and can't live outside US.

 US lo aina em jobs chestar peddaga ayyaka general ga...saduvulu peddaga em raavu elagu ikkada ....

[JohnSnow]

1 minute ago, Peddayana said:

lol , you are contradicting yourself bro , if parents are not in good shape how can they take care of kids , taking care of kids requires lot of energy..you will not know it unless you have kids

If you are staying away frm ur parents means that they are doing good right, so whats wrong in sending your kids to them. 

Also, it doesnt make sense to be a slave here ignoring ur parents who love you unconditionally and your kids will leave you anyway once u get old if they are born here..

So you are alone now and you are alone in the end too and be a loser.

[Peddayana]

Just now, JohnSnow said:

If you are staying away frm ur parents means that they are doing good right, so whats wrong in sending your kids to them. 

Also, it doesnt make sense to be a slave here ignoring ur parents who love you unconditionally and your kids will leave you anyway once u get old if they are born here..

So you are alone now and you are alone in the end too and be a loser.

kids will leave you even if you are in India when they growup and go to college , ikkada akkada ani difference ledu

having life with out kids at the end is ok , it does not mean one is a loser , it means he/she finally fulfilled all their responsibilities and can relax

having good relationship with kids is important , just because they stay in a different city than you does not make anyone a loser

nenu cheppedi vere neeku ardam avutundi vere bro

sending small kids to parents is burdening them no matter what shape they are in , also leaving kids when it is your responsibility is not good as you leave precious time you spend with them , ivi naa points 

Once you are in a job , tell me how much time you got to spend with your parents? months , years? 

overall , you will be losing 5 years in that time you spend with your kids , its simply not worth in my opinion

but anyway, evari priority vallavi so they will do what they want to do

 

[reality]

Mods qochen ki bagane react ayyaru gaa, as usual. 😂 

vuu

[Peddayana]

Just now, reality said:

Mods qochen ki bagane react ayyaru gaa, as usual. 😂 

vuu

Mods vyoooham phalinchindi

[JohnSnow]

15 minutes ago, Peddayana said:

 

but anyway, evari priority vallavi so they will do what they want to do

 

Ya bro last gen did mistake spend cheyyale teliyaka, manam aina 35 varaku chesi prents tho poyi enjoy cheyyalani naa feeling

[ARYA]

3 hours ago, Sucker said:

Good Job ra mods  @ARYA 

thanks man

[Peddayana]

1 minute ago, JohnSnow said:

Ya bro last gen did mistake spend cheyyale teliyaka, manam aina 35 varaku chesi prents tho poyi enjoy cheyyalani naa feeling

good thought but 35 ki kids untaru you will realize that they are better off studying in us , if you really can go then you are great...

[JohnSnow]

3 minutes ago, Peddayana said:

good thought but 35 ki kids untaru you will realize that they are better off studying in us , if you really can go then you are great...

We cant plan everything forever bro. One of my relative earned alot crazily forgetting his family and he died at 40..

so we never know when we go, so earn well, have back up and leave. 

Many of us go to boarding school, do college at different city than hometown in india, job in different city and if we work here our ass of until 50 , then when are we gonna be with our parents really. hardly few hours in our life is the time we are giving them.

so i am working on my back up

[LadiesTailor]

5 hours ago, Kalam_Youtheman said:

those are not consider as parents....*** losers

Are you a parent ?? Personally I don’t like sending kids back to India but when there is a help and grand parents are relatively young and healthy then why not ? 
india lo mana generation lo kooda chana mandi ammamma la daggara perigina vallu vunnaru... anthenduku so called super star maheshbabu valla ammamma daggara perigadu.. nothing wrong in it 

[Kalam_Youtheman]

20 hours ago, LadiesTailor said:

Are you a parent ?? Personally I don’t like sending kids back to India but when there is a help and grand parents are relatively young and healthy then why not ? 
india lo mana generation lo kooda chana mandi ammamma la daggara perigina vallu vunnaru... anthenduku so called super star maheshbabu valla ammamma daggara perigadu.. nothing wrong in it 

bhayya... ulfaa comparisons ivvvanni... neeku telso thelidhoo... manam ammamma nanamma daggara infants ga unnnappuudu poledhuuu manaki oka 5-7 yrs tharvatha vellam... maheshbabu ni kuda adugu neeeku chepthaaademo...

 

All Im saying this money kosam kids ni india pampakandii.. atleast until 5 yrs...aaa generation veru eeee generation veruu...for ex manam chinnaga unnappudu TV operate ela cheyyalo phone operate ela cheyyalo thelvadhh.. ippudu kids ki aaa age kids ki jujubeee...

 

parents healthy unnnaa its very big task for them... kanadam endhuku india ki ship cheyyadam endhukuu... think.. kids needs bonding .... real parents never send their kids...100% true...

 

weekends enjoy cheyyalem, money miglathaaledhuu diapers ki pothunnnayee... more over peace of mind ledhu ani anukunne patients chaala mandhi unnaarru ee DB lo and sending kids to india... vere vaalaki answer cheyyalekaaa why not send , healthy thoikkaaa thotttkurrrs... antaaaru