Need people suggestions to deal with my problem

[pulser]

Story in few lines :I'm from Hyderabad working as technical architect. Age is 38 with 2 kids.. Boys. Married to Chennai girl .on Her family force my wife asked me a loan for her Brother marriage in 2012. They said like they will close a loan in 6 months. I given 9lacs by taking personal loan . They paid 4 months emi s and stopped from there. Fights started at their house after brother in laws marriage. Actually it's a property issues,brother in law forced his mother to register house in his name.  my wife wrongly informed me as its a mother in law, daughter in law issues. Brother in law left the house.his father is supporting him financially.  My wife again forced me to help his brother because he is struggling with wife and kid.. No income.. He is 7th fail. I don't know this. Again I helped them with personal loan of 6 lacs.. They paid emi s for 6 months and stopped from there. In their family issues and may be brother in laws torture his mother attempted suicide many times , one day she was fully burnt in pooja room. 50% burnt. This time again my wife tortured me to her mother.  i paid around 3lacs for hospital bill through credit cards, stayed in hospital with my 2 kids. Not returned any thing till now.  This suside happened in 2014. My marriage happened in 2011, their parents mostly stayed with me in Hyderabad after these incidents.. In 2016 brother in law dropped his mother in orphanage in Chennai. She is diabetic and heart patient as well. One day she fell on the floor, head is injured sivierly. My wife went to Chennai immediately ,brought her mother to Hyderabad, we saved her. After 6 months she went to chennai, he again put his mother in orphanage, there she died this time, because she stopped taking medicine. This is in 2018 august. My wife given her gold to her family for their problems. After her death I started asking my money. They started showing their colours.. If my wife  is willing to register her share to brother in laws name, he will pay my money. I agreed for it but they didn't returned money.  lot of arguments happened, my wife didnt asks them, if i ask the money, she is threatening like I will file a case etc.. Last year her father attempted suicide in Chennai and died. Now both the parents are not there, brother in law is not lifting the calls, my wife is saying that she will not with her brother because he is responsible for her parents death. If I ask her about money, she threatens me and she saying like she will file a case and she will leave my place with kids.. This is happening now.. Today she packed her bags.. He is not responding at all, he built one new house this year, and purchased new creta car as well. I am paying 36.5k emi. Plz ur suggestions needed.. .. Lot of things happened in last 2 years.. Discussions happened in their relatives, he and  his gang fought with me in the discussion on high alcohol in Feb this year. Threaten to kill. My wife enjoying the fight there, didn't open mouth... 

One important thing when her father expired she didn't inform me, she asked me to go to Chennai, his brother called her to settle the money. After bus started from Hyderabad I got a message from her brother like his father expired. 

[Spartan]

u leave ur kids and wife and go..

take all the bank balance and cash with u.

[Dippindots]

Start go fund me

@Murari_Murari will help you

[Spartan]

wife ninnu vadilesi velt aantundi ekkadiki potadi...parents leru...

tammudu elago waste gade..parents ni chudanodu sister ni chustada..

so next time u tell her, i am done with this and leave the family...elago both boys kada...elago ala pergutaru..girls aite kashtam kaani.

[Dippindots]

1 minute ago, Spartan said:

wife ninnu vadilesi velt aantundi ekkadiki potadi...parents leru...

tammudu elago waste gade..parents ni chudanodu sister ni chustada..

so next time u tell her, i am done with this and leave the family...elago both boys kada...elago ala pergutaru..girls aite kashtam kaani.

serious ae na ee post

[Spartan]

2 minutes ago, Dippindots said:

serious ae na ee post

yes 38 yrs aipoindi ante India lo 50% of active earning  life aipoinatte.....

a age lo savings or edo monthly income along side salary rakunna... EMI katte badhalu undakudadu..

alantindi 40K monthly EMI kadtunnadu evadikosamo chesina appu ante waste ye kada...

dani badalu family ni vadilesi (where ur partner doesnt understand ur pain).....   vellipovadam better.

[Sreeven]

Just now, Spartan said:

yes 38 yrs aipoindi ante India lo sagam jeevitam aipoinatte...

a age lo savings or edo monthly income along side salary rakunna... EMI katte badhalu undakudadu..

alantindi 40K monthly EMI kadtunnadu evadikosamo chesina appu ante waste ye kada...

dani badalu family ni vadilesi (where ur partner doesnt understand ur pain).....   vellipovadam better.

Antha bagane vundi ba what about this guys parents..valla gurinchi ekkada mention cheyaledu

[covid1990]

5 minutes ago, Spartan said:

wife ninnu vadilesi velt aantundi ekkadiki potadi...parents leru...

tammudu elago waste gade..parents ni chudanodu sister ni chustada..

so next time u tell her, i am done with this and leave the family...elago both boys kada...elago ala pergutaru..girls aite kashtam kaani.

Tappu bro

[Spartan]

Just now, Sreeven said:

Antha bagane vundi ba what about this guys parents..valla gurinchi ekkada mention cheyaledu

i wish they wont get involved in this mess..

or the poster dont have link with them...lekapote eppudo involve ayye vallu kada... kaneesam koduku kosam aina...

[Dippindots]

2 minutes ago, Spartan said:

yes 38 yrs aipoindi ante India lo 50% of active earning  life aipoinatte.....

a age lo savings or edo monthly income along side salary rakunna... EMI katte badhalu undakudadu..

alantindi 40K monthly EMI kadtunnadu evadikosamo chesina appu ante waste ye kada...

dani badalu family ni vadilesi (where ur partner doesnt understand ur pain).....   vellipovadam better.

emo sounds very messy

[raaajaaa]

Don’t waste time here First Kill your wife & brother-in-law then murder case ne medaki eakunda ela manage cheyalo ikada discuss chedam 

don’t worry we are with you 

[Spartan]

Just now, Dippindots said:

emo sounds very messy

i have seen people burning hands by taking loans and never growing up in life..

and struggling  for rest of the age without income...

alanti paristiti a story lo ataniki rakudadu ante vadili vellipovadam better.

he has advantage of both his kids being sons....daughters ayi unte kashtam ayyedemo a decision teskodaniki.

[Spartan]

Just now, raaajaaa said:

Don’t waste time here First Kill your wife & brother-in-law then murder case ne medaki eakunda ela manage cheyalo ikada discuss chedam 

don’t worry we are with you 

Jail lo life long free food istaru kada...oppukoni surrender aina kuda..

[pulser]

9 minutes ago, Dippindots said:

Start go fund me

@Murari_Murari will help you

I have good job.. I dropped it for suggestions not for money 

[Sreeven]

2 minutes ago, Spartan said:

i wish they wont get involved in this mess..

or the poster dont have link with them...lekapote eppudo involve ayye vallu kada... kaneesam koduku kosam aina...

Tamil papalu alane vuntaru..baga obsessed ga and valla dabbulu matram ivvaru..e story e naku genuine anipinchatam lesu