Need people suggestions to deal with my problem

[Murari_Murari]

28 minutes ago, BeautyQueen said:

Asalu ardam avuthunda nuvu matladedhi

[BeautyQueen]

2 minutes ago, Murari_Murari said:

Asalu ardam avuthunda nuvu matladedhi

Yes uncle, ala cheppatam lo ekkada evaru vachi nanu rafe cheyaru kadha and nenu asalu ammyini no abbayino 100% evariki teledhu kadha 

[MRI]

manushule poyaaka inka dabbuladi emundiley bro.. satta vunnodivi nuvvey nilabadatavu.. vaadi jeevitham gurinchi aalochinchi nuvvu odipoku.. mosapoyananukuni munduki vellipo..

[soodhilodaaram]

5 hours ago, pulser said:

She packed her bags let see what will going to happen.. 

as the marriage happened 7 yrs ago, filing a case doesn't end up you being arrested

let her file a case, you got to learn to deal with reality in this situation

you have 2 choices, live with current situation and pay off the EMI and do not trust anyone financially again OR abscond family and curse yourselves

or waste more money on lawyers and cases and end up damaging your family by domestic fights every day, 2 kids kosam aina digest the reality and move on

those who lose by trusting others have to pay the damages in some form, early age lo good lessons vachesaayi, take them as life experiences

your relationship with wife may have got damaged due to these financial issues, once you come to terms and close the past, you will learn to stabilize things at home

start financially planning with what you save or look for ways to come to US/other country, mottam 20 lakhs save cheste nee problems solved, dont curse your wife, she did not think about all these, spot lo pedite evaraina rubbish matladataaru..it doesnt mean anything

sometimes too much stress finding a solution can damage much bigger than the real damage, 38/2 kids unnaka limited options untaayi..life has better things for you once you learn these lessons emo

 

[soodhilodaaram]

5 hours ago, Murari_Murari said:

If TS Request then definetly look into that.

MG

[ShwethaNaiduReloaded]

5 hours ago, Murari_Murari said:

meru amayulu kadha

It’s our @vendetta @GunturGongura @AleAle

[Thokkalee]

1. Her family is a mess even before you got married. She desperately tried to help them get out of that. But failed and pulled you down along with her family.
2. I guess she went through lot of pain after the way her parents died. Think of her mental condition. I would go crazy if I were in her place. Some people have bad families. Cannot help. Don’t lose your wife or fight with her for money. 

3. Your money is not going to come back. The sooner you accept it, the soon you make peace with it and pay the loans. Sometimes we get a raw deal in life. 
4. you are not even 40 and you are still in your prime age for earning. You can easily clear the loans and save for yourself. Try to look for ways to increase your income if you are struggling to pay the loans. 

Relatives ki money ivvakudadu.. it will most likely won’t come back. In your case, it is not a direct loan. You gave it to your in-laws and they are no longer alive. You will always look for ways to avoid a loan that your father took. Won’t you??

[Balibabu]

Anni lite tesukoni andarini lite tesukoni ne career meeda focus chesi and most importantly money save chesuko secret ga....me wife kw cheppinattu vintey teskellu lekuntey bayatiki Vella kottu...edi emina lite tesuko daari loki vastey OK lekuntey chill out...

Me bavmardi gadu tesukunnamoney lite tesuko avi elagu ivadu edava icheyy vaadu ayitey valla amma ne orphanage lo vadileyyadu

First save money, career and peace... 

[KingCobra72]

9 hours ago, pulser said:

Story in few lines :I'm from Hyderabad working as technical architect. Age is 38 with 2 kids.. Boys. Married to Chennai girl .on Her family force my wife asked me a loan for her Brother marriage in 2012. They said like they will close a loan in 6 months. I given 9lacs by taking personal loan . They paid 4 months emi s and stopped from there. Fights started at their house after brother in laws marriage. Actually it's a property issues,brother in law forced his mother to register house in his name.  my wife wrongly informed me as its a mother in law, daughter in law issues. Brother in law left the house.his father is supporting him financially.  My wife again forced me to help his brother because he is struggling with wife and kid.. No income.. He is 7th fail. I don't know this. Again I helped them with personal loan of 6 lacs.. They paid emi s for 6 months and stopped from there. In their family issues and may be brother in laws torture his mother attempted suicide many times , one day she was fully burnt in pooja room. 50% burnt. This time again my wife tortured me to her mother.  i paid around 3lacs for hospital bill through credit cards, stayed in hospital with my 2 kids. Not returned any thing till now.  This suside happened in 2014. My marriage happened in 2011, their parents mostly stayed with me in Hyderabad after these incidents.. In 2016 brother in law dropped his mother in orphanage in Chennai. She is diabetic and heart patient as well. One day she fell on the floor, head is injured sivierly. My wife went to Chennai immediately ,brought her mother to Hyderabad, we saved her. After 6 months she went to chennai, he again put his mother in orphanage, there she died this time, because she stopped taking medicine. This is in 2018 august. My wife given her gold to her family for their problems. After her death I started asking my money. They started showing their colours.. If my wife  is willing to register her share to brother in laws name, he will pay my money. I agreed for it but they didn't returned money.  lot of arguments happened, my wife didnt asks them, if i ask the money, she is threatening like I will file a case etc.. Last year her father attempted suicide in Chennai and died. Now both the parents are not there, brother in law is not lifting the calls, my wife is saying that she will not with her brother because he is responsible for her parents death. If I ask her about money, she threatens me and she saying like she will file a case and she will leave my place with kids.. This is happening now.. Today she packed her bags.. He is not responding at all, he built one new house this year, and purchased new creta car as well. I am paying 36.5k emi. Plz ur suggestions needed.. .. Lot of things happened in last 2 years.. Discussions happened in their relatives, he and  his gang fought with me in the discussion on high alcohol in Feb this year. Threaten to kill. My wife enjoying the fight there, didn't open mouth... 

One important thing when her father expired she didn't inform me, she asked me to go to Chennai, his brother called her to settle the money. After bus started from Hyderabad I got a message from her brother like his father expired. 

copied from ?

[pulser]

37 minutes ago, Balibabu said:

Anni lite tesukoni andarini lite tesukoni ne career meeda focus chesi and most importantly money save chesuko secret ga....me wife kw cheppinattu vintey teskellu lekuntey bayatiki Vella kottu...edi emina lite tesuko daari loki vastey OK lekuntey chill out...

Me bavmardi gadu tesukunnamoney lite tesuko avi elagu ivadu edava icheyy vaadu ayitey valla amma ne orphanage lo vadileyyadu

First save money, career and peace... 

Financially im still OK ,I can clear loan.. Veella nundi ela bayata padalo theliyatledu. As I said she packed her bags.. Calling her brother and relatives to Hyderabad to teach me lesson anta. I got one call, I'm explained him.  few months back Panchayithi ki ayane vachadu.. I think nobody is lifting her calls I think. Nenu intlo nundi vellipo ante cab lo pampinchu veltha Chennai ki antundi.. Nenu pampisthe tharimesadu ee covid time lo anni gola chestharemo ani thinking.. 

[Catalpha]

You should watch Brown Nation, the show describes your problem.

[pulser]

10 minutes ago, KingCobra72 said:

copied from ?

Life brother, which way u thought it's copy.. U want proof?

[pulser]

9 hours ago, Sreeven said:

Tamil papalu alane vuntaru..baga obsessed ga and valla dabbulu matram ivvaru..e story e naku genuine anipinchatam lesu

 

27 minutes ago, pulser said:

Life brother, which way u thought it's copy.. U want proof?

https://ibb.co/P5WYJ9j

Idi just part of hospital bill 

 

[Heroin]

Wife n kids valdilesei

[MRI]

16 minutes ago, Heroin said:

Wife n kids valdilesei

kids em paapam chesaru?