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16 hours ago, pulser said:

Story in few lines :I'm from Hyderabad working as technical architect. Age is 38 with 2 kids.. Boys. Married to Chennai girl .on Her family force my wife asked me a loan for her Brother marriage in 2012. They said like they will close a loan in 6 months. I given 9lacs by taking personal loan . They paid 4 months emi s and stopped from there. Fights started at their house after brother in laws marriage. Actually it's a property issues,brother in law forced his mother to register house in his name.  my wife wrongly informed me as its a mother in law, daughter in law issues. Brother in law left the house.his father is supporting him financially.  My wife again forced me to help his brother because he is struggling with wife and kid.. No income.. He is 7th fail. I don't know this. Again I helped them with personal loan of 6 lacs.. They paid emi s for 6 months and stopped from there. In their family issues and may be brother in laws torture his mother attempted suicide many times , one day she was fully burnt in pooja room. 50% burnt. This time again my wife tortured me to her mother.  i paid around 3lacs for hospital bill through credit cards, stayed in hospital with my 2 kids. Not returned any thing till now.  This suside happened in 2014. My marriage happened in 2011, their parents mostly stayed with me in Hyderabad after these incidents.. In 2016 brother in law dropped his mother in orphanage in Chennai. She is diabetic and heart patient as well. One day she fell on the floor, head is injured sivierly. My wife went to Chennai immediately ,brought her mother to Hyderabad, we saved her. After 6 months she went to chennai, he again put his mother in orphanage, there she died this time, because she stopped taking medicine. This is in 2018 august. My wife given her gold to her family for their problems. After her death I started asking my money. They started showing their colours.. If my wife  is willing to register her share to brother in laws name, he will pay my money. I agreed for it but they didn't returned money.  lot of arguments happened, my wife didnt asks them, if i ask the money, she is threatening like I will file a case etc.. Last year her father attempted suicide in Chennai and died. Now both the parents are not there, brother in law is not lifting the calls, my wife is saying that she will not with her brother because he is responsible for her parents death. If I ask her about money, she threatens me and she saying like she will file a case and she will leave my place with kids.. This is happening now.. Today she packed her bags.. He is not responding at all, he built one new house this year, and purchased new creta car as well. I am paying 36.5k emi. Plz ur suggestions needed.. .. Lot of things happened in last 2 years.. Discussions happened in their relatives, he and  his gang fought with me in the discussion on high alcohol in Feb this year. Threaten to kill. My wife enjoying the fight there, didn't open mouth... 

One important thing when her father expired she didn't inform me, she asked me to go to Chennai, his brother called her to settle the money. After bus started from Hyderabad I got a message from her brother like his father expired. 

So 15 lakhs vunte ne problem teripodha brother??

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16 hours ago, pulser said:

Story in few lines :I'm from Hyderabad working as technical architect. Age is 38 with 2 kids.. Boys. Married to Chennai girl .on Her family force my wife asked me a loan for her Brother marriage in 2012. They said like they will close a loan in 6 months. I given 9lacs by taking personal loan . They paid 4 months emi s and stopped from there. Fights started at their house after brother in laws marriage. Actually it's a property issues,brother in law forced his mother to register house in his name.  my wife wrongly informed me as its a mother in law, daughter in law issues. Brother in law left the house.his father is supporting him financially.  My wife again forced me to help his brother because he is struggling with wife and kid.. No income.. He is 7th fail. I don't know this. Again I helped them with personal loan of 6 lacs.. They paid emi s for 6 months and stopped from there. In their family issues and may be brother in laws torture his mother attempted suicide many times , one day she was fully burnt in pooja room. 50% burnt. This time again my wife tortured me to her mother.  i paid around 3lacs for hospital bill through credit cards, stayed in hospital with my 2 kids. Not returned any thing till now.  This suside happened in 2014. My marriage happened in 2011, their parents mostly stayed with me in Hyderabad after these incidents.. In 2016 brother in law dropped his mother in orphanage in Chennai. She is diabetic and heart patient as well. One day she fell on the floor, head is injured sivierly. My wife went to Chennai immediately ,brought her mother to Hyderabad, we saved her. After 6 months she went to chennai, he again put his mother in orphanage, there she died this time, because she stopped taking medicine. This is in 2018 august. My wife given her gold to her family for their problems. After her death I started asking my money. They started showing their colours.. If my wife  is willing to register her share to brother in laws name, he will pay my money. I agreed for it but they didn't returned money.  lot of arguments happened, my wife didnt asks them, if i ask the money, she is threatening like I will file a case etc.. Last year her father attempted suicide in Chennai and died. Now both the parents are not there, brother in law is not lifting the calls, my wife is saying that she will not with her brother because he is responsible for her parents death. If I ask her about money, she threatens me and she saying like she will file a case and she will leave my place with kids.. This is happening now.. Today she packed her bags.. He is not responding at all, he built one new house this year, and purchased new creta car as well. I am paying 36.5k emi. Plz ur suggestions needed.. .. Lot of things happened in last 2 years.. Discussions happened in their relatives, he and  his gang fought with me in the discussion on high alcohol in Feb this year. Threaten to kill. My wife enjoying the fight there, didn't open mouth... 

One important thing when her father expired she didn't inform me, she asked me to go to Chennai, his brother called her to settle the money. After bus started from Hyderabad I got a message from her brother like his father expired. 

Forget everything and move own, but remember do not give a penny to her family going forward. Damage is done cuz of this you will end up spiking your family as well, I understand u owe $$ cuz of this but at some point you have make a decision your family or money! I would go with family and Neva see your wife’s family again. 

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8 hours ago, Thokkalee said:


1. Her family is a mess even before you got married. She desperately tried to help them get out of that. But failed and pulled you down along with her family.
2. I guess she went through lot of pain after the way her parents died. Think of her mental condition. I would go crazy if I were in her place. Some people have bad families. Cannot help. Don’t lose your wife or fight with her for money. 

3. Your money is not going to come back. The sooner you accept it, the soon you make peace with it and pay the loans. Sometimes we get a raw deal in life. 
4. you are not even 40 and you are still in your prime age for earning. You can easily clear the loans and save for yourself. Try to look for ways to increase your income if you are struggling to pay the loans. 

Relatives ki money ivvakudadu.. it will most likely won’t come back. In your case, it is not a direct loan. You gave it to your in-laws and they are no longer alive. You will always look for ways to avoid a loan that your father took. Won’t you??

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@pulsermake your wife working and pay for those loans

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On 8/23/2020 at 7:12 PM, Murari_Murari said:

Ne story lo 2012 lo issue + loan paid for 6 months then mother sucided died later

But hospital bills 2011 ...itnha chinna logic ela miss ayavu

Athadu prakash raj gif pls.

 

Screen shot lo vunnadi month brother not year, suicide attempt happened in 2014, 1st loan given in 2012.. 

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On 8/22/2020 at 5:14 PM, raaajaaa said:

Don’t waste time here First Kill your wife & brother-in-law then murder case ne medaki eakunda ela manage cheyalo ikada discuss chedam 

don’t worry we are with you 

ne yenkamma CITI_c$y

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On 8/22/2020 at 4:59 PM, pulser said:

Story in few lines :I'm from Hyderabad working as technical architect. Age is 38 with 2 kids.. Boys. Married to Chennai girl .on Her family force my wife asked me a loan for her Brother marriage in 2012. They said like they will close a loan in 6 months. I given 9lacs by taking personal loan . They paid 4 months emi s and stopped from there. Fights started at their house after brother in laws marriage. Actually it's a property issues,brother in law forced his mother to register house in his name.  my wife wrongly informed me as its a mother in law, daughter in law issues. Brother in law left the house.his father is supporting him financially.  My wife again forced me to help his brother because he is struggling with wife and kid.. No income.. He is 7th fail. I don't know this. Again I helped them with personal loan of 6 lacs.. They paid emi s for 6 months and stopped from there. In their family issues and may be brother in laws torture his mother attempted suicide many times , one day she was fully burnt in pooja room. 50% burnt. This time again my wife tortured me to her mother.  i paid around 3lacs for hospital bill through credit cards, stayed in hospital with my 2 kids. Not returned any thing till now.  This suside happened in 2014. My marriage happened in 2011, their parents mostly stayed with me in Hyderabad after these incidents.. In 2016 brother in law dropped his mother in orphanage in Chennai. She is diabetic and heart patient as well. One day she fell on the floor, head is injured sivierly. My wife went to Chennai immediately ,brought her mother to Hyderabad, we saved her. After 6 months she went to chennai, he again put his mother in orphanage, there she died this time, because she stopped taking medicine. This is in 2018 august. My wife given her gold to her family for their problems. After her death I started asking my money. They started showing their colours.. If my wife  is willing to register her share to brother in laws name, he will pay my money. I agreed for it but they didn't returned money.  lot of arguments happened, my wife didnt asks them, if i ask the money, she is threatening like I will file a case etc.. Last year her father attempted suicide in Chennai and died. Now both the parents are not there, brother in law is not lifting the calls, my wife is saying that she will not with her brother because he is responsible for her parents death. If I ask her about money, she threatens me and she saying like she will file a case and she will leave my place with kids.. This is happening now.. Today she packed her bags.. He is not responding at all, he built one new house this year, and purchased new creta car as well. I am paying 36.5k emi. Plz ur suggestions needed.. .. Lot of things happened in last 2 years.. Discussions happened in their relatives, he and  his gang fought with me in the discussion on high alcohol in Feb this year. Threaten to kill. My wife enjoying the fight there, didn't open mouth... 

One important thing when her father expired she didn't inform me, she asked me to go to Chennai, his brother called her to settle the money. After bus started from Hyderabad I got a message from her brother like his father expired. 

7th fail ainodu illu car ela konnadantav 

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22 minutes ago, Ram60 said:

ne id murari ani kaadhu athadu ani pettukovalsindi.. tega cheque lu rasestunnav 

Ha ha devudu chala ichadu 

Srimanthudu aythy inka chala bangundemo 😁👍

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26 minutes ago, Ram60 said:

intaki nee wife nee side aa nee brother side aa.. clarity ledu.. %$#$

TS dabbulu ivvalsinappudu TS side ... migatha anni times lo valla brother side 

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