Gender roles are BULL SH1T

[chanchala]

4 minutes ago, Ellen said:

Solution was utopian 

less utopian than you waiting for the institutions to change.

may be you can support Trump who'll take away that privilege. hehe..

[Amrita]

3 minutes ago, Ellen said:

It’s not your next desk colleagues or your clients . It’s the grants they offer you because they need more women in the field. @chanchala what have you done dude, antha simplify chesesav total wrong msg convey aindi ikada . 

Hmm 

[chanchala]

1 minute ago, Amrita said:

Vakey !  But choice Emundi whether she want to change or not . Anyways lite . Asalu sambandham lekunda poyindi ga e thread . 

don't worry. Ellen herself is beating around the bush in this topic. 

inka manam aey maatram. hehe..

[Ellen]

2 minutes ago, chanchala said:

no. she's just making a broader point about the privilege that is forced on her because of her gender. she doesn't want to carry that burden. anthe.

she's from academia kadha. ofcourse they respect her work. but she's trying to speak for the entire community including the boys.

and I bulldozed the thread calling the entire community as tightarsed bastards who are conservatives and who do indulge in silly demonstrations of gender neutrality where its not even required.

she obviously loves these institutions. and wants them to change. I have no such romantic notion of any such institutions meaningfully changing anytime in my life.

Not just my institutions , the entire gender roles concept from the society itself. Habba I’m tired. Forget it, please just don’t simplify the issue like this. Asale complicated concept (actually pretty simple. But complicated because of the conditioning ). You have watered it down.

[kathanayaka]

Suffose  per suffose if male becomes some wealthy guy with some top position , full hardwork , sacrifice , leaving personal life all other chedalam

FEMALE only one dialogue : nuvvu enni chesina , naalaga 9 nenalu kani mosi kastalu padi pillalni kanagalava with 2 ear drops

Thats it the male lost the argument. 

So what I am saying is 2 genders can never ever ever be equal . male will say male is great and female too same dialogue.

So just time waste to discuss this topic

[chanchala]

anyway congrats to @Ellen for her grant.

if its too much money, you can send me some. lol

[Ellen]

Just now, chanchala said:

anyway congrats to @Ellen for her grant.

if its too much money, you can send me some. lol

Duck oddddddd

[Catalpha]

Just now, kathanayaka said:

Suffose  per suffose if male becomes some wealthy guy with some top position , full hardwork , sacrifice , leaving personal life all other chedalam

FEMALE only one dialogue : nuvvu enni chesina , naalaga 9 nenalu kani mosi kastalu padi pillalni kanagalava with 2 ear drops

Thats it the male lost the argument. 

So what I am saying is 2 genders can never ever ever be equal . male will say male is great and female too same dialogue.

So just time waste to discuss this topic

Good post. Women have privilege because of a va-gina. There are only two solutions for equality. 1. Women should stop making babies. 2. Babies should be made in a test tube or somehow make a man carry babies. 

[Amrita]

1 minute ago, kathanayaka said:

Suffose  per suffose if male becomes some wealthy guy with some top position , full hardwork , sacrifice , leaving personal life all other chedalam

FEMALE only one dialogue : nuvvu enni chesina , naalaga 9 nenalu kani mosi kastalu padi pillalni kanagalava with 2 ear drops

Thats it the male lost the argument. 

So what I am saying is 2 genders can never ever ever be equal . male will say male is great and female too same dialogue.

So just time waste to discuss this topic

Gender roles ki unable to balance life ki compare chesara ? 🤦‍♀️

[Catalpha]

1 minute ago, chanchala said:

anyway congrats to @Ellen for her grant.

if its too much money, you can send me some. lol

What grant did you get?

[Nimmakai]

 

[chanchala]

2 minutes ago, Ellen said:

Not just my institutions , the entire gender roles concept from the society itself. Habba I’m tired. Forget it, please just don’t simplify the issue like this. Asale complicated concept (actually pretty simple. But complicated because of the conditioning ). You have watered it down.

why is simplifyng it a bad thing?

anyway what is the 'gender role' in society, do you think? women have always worked in the fields, in factories from the start of civilization itself. 

the gender roles are assigned only by traditional patriarchies that exist only among the privileged. Not among the lower class.

technically majority of society doesn't care about gender role at all.

 

[Catalpha]

9 minutes ago, Nimmakai said:

cheppu teguddi 

You don't hear the sarcasm in what she said?

[chanchala]

4 minutes ago, Catalpha said:

Good post. Women have privilege because of a va-gina. There are only two solutions for equality. 1. Women should stop making babies. 2. Babies should be made in a test tube or somehow make a man carry babies. 

agreed. women should stop making babies.

[Amrita]

1 minute ago, Catalpha said:

You don't hear the sarcasm in what she said?

I wasn’t sarcastic at all . I don’t know what you heard . Thanks for informing that I was sarcastic