Gender roles are BULL SH1T

[tom bhayya]

6 minutes ago, Ellen said:

My home is a utopia. No issues, they never assigned gender roles

so problem enti aithey husband or bf assigning roles aa? or pakkanollu valla life ela lead cheyyalo decide chedham anaa? 

[chanchala]

28 minutes ago, Ellen said:

In all chaos there is cosmos. In all disorder there is a secret order 

ofcourse. Anarchy is Order. its in the symbol itself. 

But its not the kind of order you appreciate, since you mock it to be utopia. the traditional institutions will never keep up with anarchist circles and humans in it are inevitably trapped in that self serving cycle of trying to earn respect in the fairest possible way.

[chanchala]

2 minutes ago, tom bhayya said:

so problem enti aithey husband or bf assigning roles aa? or pakkanollu valla life ela lead cheyyalo decide chedham anaa? 

family utopia aithe saripothada? larger society still assigns gender roles kadha?

vaallu decide cheyyochu how pakkanollu should live ani, Ellen cheyya kudadha?

she's talkig about her workplace. not home I think

[Ellen]

18 minutes ago, chanchala said:

men should be challenged, and their bullshit mocked and taken down a notch. 

or institutions that patronize gender roles (for Ellen). 

if one can't do it, just switch off from that institution, and do your own thing. let that institution die. don't try to change it and keep it alive. not anyone's job really. bad things must die.

I’m not rich enough to quit from what is paying me 😆

[Heroin]

@Arey_enti_ra_idi

[tom bhayya]

2 minutes ago, chanchala said:

family utopia aithe saripothada? larger society still assigns gender roles kadha?

vaallu decide cheyyochu how pakkanollu should live ani, Ellen cheyya kudadha?

she's talkig about her workplace. not home I think

ho workplace lonaa complain to HR women ani discriminate chesi chinna panulu isthunnaru ani 

[Ellen]

8 minutes ago, tom bhayya said:

or pakkanollu valla life ela lead cheyyalo decide chedham anaa? 

😀 

[chanchala]

Just now, Ellen said:

I’m not rich enough to quit from what is paying me 😆

no one needs to quit. they should leverage all their options and create new spaces for themselves.

if your research is so exotic that you are the only person in the world that engages in it, it'd still attract decent engagement if you just publish everything you do.

 

[Ellen]

1 minute ago, chanchala said:

no one needs to quit. they should leverage all their options and create new spaces for themselves.

if your research is so exotic that you are the only person in the world that engages in it, it'd still attract decent engagement if you just publish everything you do.

 

Ok

[Amrita]

53 minutes ago, Ellen said:

Ledu judge chestaru. Take the examples of institutional chivalry. As a woman you are not expected to perform that well because women are generally considered left brain inclined , so they don't have proper analytical or logical skills. So they settle down for mediocre results and patronize them and I'm not exaggerating

That’s what I mean time unna no one cares . Ippudu evado friend nannu judge cheste I don’t care if my father or my husband judge I care . Usually problem will be with family . I don’t know I have never seen or been in a place at work where I am not expected to work . I dominate in work place but I even experienced domination of men and reluctant to accept my tech design being it came from a woman . Ironically this was pointed to me by men . May be it became so common for me I didn’t notice or get hurt . Both cases men ( managers And architect ) aey observe chesi chepparu . Nenu Taruvata cheppake notice chesa . 
 

Manam darina poye danayya comment ignore cheyadam at work or in circle mana chetulo undi . Often own family valle women won’t do what they want to do . Inta gelichi racha gelavamantaru but inta gelavadame kashtam racha easy ga gelavachu in at least mediocre roles if not top management roles . 

[Ellen]

3 minutes ago, tom bhayya said:

ho workplace lonaa complain to HR women ani discriminate chesi chinna panulu isthunnaru ani 

Kaadu woman kabatti extra grant istunnaru , research chusi iyyatle ...em cheyali ? 

[chanchala]

5 minutes ago, Heroin said:

@Arey_enti_ra_idi

long rambling love letter from @chanchala to @Heroin

pls accept it mey.

 

[tom bhayya]

Just now, Ellen said:

Kaadu woman kabatti extra grant istunnaru , research chusi iyyatle ...em cheyali ? 

same discriminate chesthunnaru women ani complain 

[chanchala]

1 minute ago, Ellen said:

Kaadu woman kabatti extra grant istunnaru , research chusi iyyatle ...em cheyali ? 

osi inthey na... 

give it to some project that you like.

[Ellen]

Just now, tom bhayya said:

same discriminate chesthunnaru women ani complain 

Nice. So simple