kevinUsa Posted September 16, 2020 Report Share Posted September 16, 2020 #17782 Hi All, 31 M # Stupid Person Need help. Is it possible to adopt a child without spouse. I don't think I will get some life. It's disturbing me, so much depression. I spoiled my life due to my stupidity. I recently got divorced( applied in court , wife's family very adamant). After marriage I wanted to delay pregnancy, but I didn't have the guts to buy condom ( very shy to approach medical shops). Online was shutdown due to Covid. Due to that I told my wife we can have sex after sometime telling her, I don't need baby now(financial reasons) and I m not interested in using condom. She agreed and didn't told me anything. I didn't talked about that later, neither she is. We had foreplay (hugs,kisses etc). Two months later, my wife's parents created a big issue, spoiled my name everywhere within my relatives , surrounding. I took medical tests and showed that report. Everything was normal, no issues. But they didn't accept it saying with money anyone could get doctor certificate. I asked them one month time ,if not able to perform sex I will accept what they say . They didn't agreed, they wanted to humiliate me, they are telling im unfit for marriage. I got humiliated before everyone. I trusted my wife blindly but she backstabbed me. If she would have told me , it will not be accepted by her parents, I would have never took this risk. If her parents have concerns, they could have told me the next day itself, after I told my plan for postpone pregnancy. I was ready to go to any doctor for checkup with them. But they didn't accepted that too. no-one believes me, Im ready to do anything to prove my potency. Every blame is on me, telling there are different ways to delay pregnancy. I was ignorant about that.. don't have any purpose of living now. My parents are ashamed because of me. Future thoughts are giving me depression. Seems I have to live alone whole life.. Who will believe me? What's my future? So, If I could adopt a child, maybe my life has some meaning. Please give your suggestions 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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Anais_nin Posted September 16, 2020 Report Share Posted September 16, 2020 I understand now why some people leave the country and marry foreign women no drama with in laws family. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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Chay Posted September 16, 2020 Report Share Posted September 16, 2020 Something is fishy... Buying condom story athakatledu Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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