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7 minutes ago, DummyVariable said:

Edho oka definition untundhi ga.

Nee definition enti?

How could I define anyone i have not met... but nikosam try chesa. Someone who possess qualities of fearlessness, purity of heart, perseverance in acquiring wisdom and in practicing yoga, charity, subjugation of the senses, performance of holy rites, study of the scriptures, self-discipline, straightforwardness, noninjury, truthfulness, freedom from wrath, renunciation, peacefulness, nonslanderousness, compassion for all creatures, absence of greed, gentleness, modesty, lack of restlessness, radiance of character, forgiveness, patience, cleanness, freedom from hate, absence of conceit.

 

Btw... belated happy birthday

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5 minutes ago, meri_zindagi said:

How could I define anyone i have not met... but nikosam try chesa. Someone who possess qualities of fearlessness, purity of heart, perseverance in acquiring wisdom and in practicing yoga, charity, subjugation of the senses, performance of holy rites, study of the scriptures, self-discipline, straightforwardness, noninjury, truthfulness, freedom from wrath, renunciation, peacefulness, nonslanderousness, compassion for all creatures, absence of greed, gentleness, modesty, lack of restlessness, radiance of character, forgiveness, patience, cleanness, freedom from hate, absence of conceit.

 

Btw... belated happy birthday

Vaddule.. ala undapovadame better.
 

Thank you, but the wishes are pretty late. 

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5 minutes ago, meri_zindagi said:

Hehe... I told it’s a myth... simple ga chepthe vinaru kada 

 

Ammayilaku kooda ilane untaya to be a good girl? 

Belated Happy Birthday wishes 2U2.

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9 minutes ago, DummyVariable said:

Ammayilaku kooda ilane untaya to be a good girl? 

Belated Happy Birthday wishes 2U2.

Ammayila gurinchi why would I bother... aina ammayilandaru mancholle by default

 

Thank you 😃

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15 hours ago, Daaarling said:
Every girl should try to select (Although it is not in our hands) a person as husband who value your thoughts, dreams and aspiration. 
 
One important factor that every husband must understand to be able to have a harmonious family life is about spheres of influence for the couple. 
 
Men usually have the propensity for controlling, but this should be used only outside the house. He may be controlling in his work, on his hobbies, etc. but at home, he should let the wife control things. The wife should be given the freedom to organize the house the way she likes, and even to tell the husband how he should eat and dress. The house is her kshetra, the place where she can manipulate matter and execute her activities, it's her sphere of influence. The function of the husband in this sphere is more to be attentive to the needs of the wife and the house and to provide what is needed. If this is observed, the family can flourish. If otherwise, the husband wants to control things at home, there will be conflict. How a man would few if his wife would try to control him at his work for example?
 
Another point about this is that in Vedic culture a man is just a guest in his house. The house belongs to the wife and children and he just stays there for part of his life, fulfilling his duties and preparing to accept the renounced order of life later on, when his family responsibilities are concluded. 
 
It may be hard to have to follow rules about what to dress, where to sit, where to sleep, how to use the toilet, etc. in his own house, but a man that follows that gains not only peace of mind at home but also have a chance of developing detachment that will lead him to higher spheres of spiritual advancement. Men that are too anxious to dominate and control just remain in this material world and get female bodies in their next life, where he may have a husband just like the one he is in this life.

were you the same person who posted regarding a friends situation of testing someone in bed before marriage??

annitiki detach ayyi inka magaadu sanyasam loki velladame kada final good thing you suggest, they are doing anyway the same right after marriage, too much feminism has triggered already screwed up hormonal system of women (too much plastics ...xeno estrogens  yada yada), WTF can't they simply live and let live men/husband, its not that hard

 

 

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46 minutes ago, soodhilodaaram said:

were you the same person who posted regarding a friends situation of testing someone in bed before marriage??

annitiki detach ayyi inka magaadu sanyasam loki velladame kada final good thing you suggest, they are doing anyway the same right after marriage, too much feminism has triggered already screwed up hormonal system of women (too much plastics ...xeno estrogens  yada yada), WTF can't they simply live and let live men/husband, its not that hard

 

 

I am saying that too much domination is not good

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