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E thread lo working woman ki stress stress antunnaru women doesnt get stressed because of stupid job. Understanding and helping husband lekapote she will be stressed. IT job emanna border lo yudham cheyadama ah ? Copy paste code atu tippi etu tippi rayadaniki Stress ento? Women are normally good at multi tasking and i dont think they cant do a bloody job when men can do it.  A woman get emotionally drained and stressed when they dont have a understanding person who stand by their side. Also, pregnancy time lo healthy unte saripodu. She needs to be active, fit and healthy at least an year before she gets preganant.  Intlo unde women fat ga untara leda working woman untara usually ?  Hiking, jogging, Gym evanni ekkuva chesedi working women because they are conscious of their health and also looks. They have a world for themselves too.  Idle mans mind is devils workshop. Intlo kunchunte oka woman 100% attention to husband ni she can drive crazy. Working ayite relationship will be good. Too much of anything is too bad. Its already proven working women are better mom's.

 

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2 minutes ago, Amrita said:

E thread lo working woman ki stress stress antunnaru women doesnt get stressed because of stupid job. Understanding and helping husband lekapote she will be stressed. Emotionally women get stressed not because of a job. IT job emanna border mida working ah ? Copy paste code atu tippi etu tippi rayadaniki Stress ento?

PS: Saying this doing 2 jobs from more than 8 months. 

its not just about job I think people are talking about kids too in the picture , 2 kids unte parents will hardly have time , so they have to hire a nanny , nanny is nanny ye ga , parents choosinattu choodaru evvaru so aa additional stress will be there for parents 

also , food , cleaning etc veetiki parents will be too tired , studies ki kooda , work from home aithe ok but imagine commuting 30 mins - 1 hour to office and then coming home cooking , kids , studies etc (I'm not just talking about women)

db lone chala threads paddayi kada , ivi anni cheyaleka people will send kids to India 

of course , some people will have less stress in jobs and may also have a lot of flexibility , they are often the exception

some people may be able to manage everything well , they are also the exception

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14 minutes ago, Peddayana said:

its not just about job I think people are talking about kids too in the picture , 2 kids unte parents will hardly have time , so they have to hire a nanny , nanny is nanny ye ga , parents choosinattu choodaru evvaru so aa additional stress will be there for parents 

also , food , cleaning etc veetiki parents will be too tired , studies ki kooda , work from home aithe ok but imagine commuting 30 mins - 1 hour to office and then coming home cooking , kids , studies etc (I'm not just talking about women)

db lone chala threads paddayi kada , ivi anni cheyaleka people will send kids to India 

of course , some people will have less stress in jobs and may also have a lot of flexibility , they are often the exception

some people may be able to manage everything well , they are also the exception

I know so many ppl who does jobs and raise their kids too. My mom herself was a working professional. Infact my grand mother too. Women can multitask better than men.  May be this is purely a man's perspective. Helping husband unte who shares chores and equally take care of kids possible.  Also,  women just doesn't work for money.  That's just a consequence.  Miru cheppinavanni issues ayite mogavadu job manesi chusukovachu ga mari kids ni ? If thats not fair how is it fair for a woman to quit job and take care of this ? Kids are both mom's and dad's responsibility. Pandemic lo 6 months a man cannot be home and says emotional health, psychological issues blah blah mari life anta intlo unde adavallaki emotional health akkarleda? Its so selfish that men always think what is convenient for them. 

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20 minutes ago, Amrita said:

I know so many ppl who does jobs and raise their kids too. My mom herself was a working professional. Infact my grand mother too. Women can multitask better than men.  May be this is purely a man's perspective. Helping husband unte who shares chores and equally take care of kids possible.  Also,  women just doesn't work for money.  That's just a consequence.  Miru cheppinavanni issues ayite mogavadu job manesi chusukovachu ga mari kids ni ? If thats not fair how is it fair for a woman to quit job and take care of this ? Kids are both mom's and dad's responsibility. Pandemic lo 6 months a man cannot be home and says emotional health, psychological issues blah blah mari life anta intlo unde adavallaki emotional health akkarleda? Its so selfish that men always think what is convenient for them. 

naa comments lo parents gurinche cheppa , please read it again , stress for both ani not specific to mom

my mom worked when I was a kid so I know what happens when both parents work 

nenu cheppindi okati meeku ardam avutundi okati 

ps: I fully support women working 

 

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10 minutes ago, Peddayana said:

naa comments lo parents gurinche cheppa , please read it again , stress for both ani not specific to mom

my mom worked when I was a kid so I know what happens when both parents work 

nenu cheppindi okati meeku ardam avutundi okati 

ps: I fully support women working 

 

Nenu ade context lo cheppanu home maker life is terrible when she has to stay home and take care of everything. She needs a career and a life of her own too.  Btw i commented based on all comments in this thread. I might have clarified that before. Men cant decide what a woman should do just because its convenient for him anedi na uddesam. At least she should decide if she wants to be a home maker. Home maker job is more stressful than a working IT professional. IT professional job stressful so home maker job istam antunnaru kada e thread lo ? Ante kani alternative thought or solution kuda alochinchatledu. I reacted to that. 

I have so many friends who says ammo job maneste inka intlo anta pani chesi chachipota job unte at least he will help me a bit anevallu enta mando unnaru. Solution for happy life is sharing responsibilities not making one person a scape goat.

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4 hours ago, AryaD said:

Why don’t you get a new job which pays more. Not sure where you live but you can easily make $150k for senior software developer if you try little hard. Mee friends save chese 2k ni nuvvu kuda easy ga save chesthavu. Non working wife , kids and $150k salary what you expect more in life man.

Well said

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Single income no money or 2 incomes and lot of stress.

 

There is a third option also...andaru marchipoyinattunaru.

2 incomes and no stress. 

There are lot of companies that pay ok salary but you don't have to do anything.

Attendence veste chaalu....and many are remote as well.

Nenu oka 2 projects ala chesina....full enjoy....learned lot of other things during that period.

 

Find those jobs for your wives...keep searching and jumping till you find one and then relax.

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1 hour ago, Amrita said:

Nenu ade context lo cheppanu home maker life is terrible when she has to stay home and take care of everything. She needs a career and a life of her own too.  Btw i commented based on all comments in this thread. I might have clarified that before. Men cant decide what a woman should do just because its convenient for him anedi na uddesam. At least she should decide if she wants to be a home maker. Home maker job is more stressful than a working IT professional. IT professional job stressful so home maker job istam antunnaru kada e thread lo ? Ante kani alternative thought or solution kuda alochinchatledu. I reacted to that. 

I have so many friends who says ammo job maneste inka intlo anta pani chesi chachipota job unte at least he will help me a bit anevallu enta mando unnaru. Solution for happy life is sharing responsibilities not making one person a scape goat.

Agree 100% 

housewife needs help too ... helping housewife is not a big deal. Moreover homemaker spouse keeps house and family healthy comparatively 

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4 hours ago, quickgun_murugun said:

Agree 100% 

housewife needs help too ... helping housewife is not a big deal. Moreover homemaker spouse keeps house and family healthy comparatively 

i feel same house wife  feeling more stress because we are not helping much and money petti help konaleka potunamu kada 

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