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#p30921-"DC: Bangalore, M/29
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Hi Guys, Need your help, Your suggestions can help me heal and change my life.

I am 29 years old, onsite for 3 years. Financially stable now and by God grace everything is fine with regards to my carrier.
My problem started when i met this girl in 2016. I don’t know why but i fell in love with her. She was extremely beautiful, joyful and a nice human. She worked in IT so all those things make me felt that she can be a perfect match for me. For all those years i kept myself obsessing with her thoughts, which resulted me in such a horrible condition as i am in today.

I chased her so much, that finally managed to win her heart. Even before she wasn’t mine, We went to so many trips together and made many good memories. She was in a bad relationship and finally brokeup with the guy and accepted my proposal.

It was like a dream come true. We had a fairy tale love story. I was so so happy and she was too. We were planning to get married this year but due to Covid I coudnt come to india and marriage was postponed. During the lockdown we had a huge fight because she use to talk to so many guys which made me kinda insecure. On top of that i also found some dirty secrets of her where she had a physical relationship with 4 other guys. While confronting she told me that because she was in a bad relationship in the past, and to overcome she just f***d these guys.

My only point was to stop talking to these guys including her ex. And i was ready to accept everything. She didn’t agree to anything and just brokeup with me. 

Because i was so obsessed to her, i coudnt move on. I took psychologist help but nothing helped. Taking counselling but its not helping. She is getting married to a new guy now, and when i call her she blames for everything. She talks for unlimited hours to the new guy and moved on so easily. Don’t know how people do that.

As a last chance, I thought of coming to india and meet her parents and convince them. But the other thought tells me to have some self respect. Her parents said they don’t wanna meet and nothing will change their decision. Don’t know what happened, why she treated me like for all these years and finally left me so easily. Although i had everything what a girl dreams off including very good looks. Please help!"

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3 minutes ago, toranam said:

#p30921-"DC: Bangalore, M/29
****Long Post****

Hi Guys, Need your help, Your suggestions can help me heal and change my life.

I am 29 years old, onsite for 3 years. Financially stable now and by God grace everything is fine with regards to my carrier.
My problem started when i met this girl in 2016. I don’t know why but i fell in love with her. She was extremely beautiful, joyful and a nice human. She worked in IT so all those things make me felt that she can be a perfect match for me. For all those years i kept myself obsessing with her thoughts, which resulted me in such a horrible condition as i am in today.

I chased her so much, that finally managed to win her heart. Even before she wasn’t mine, We went to so many trips together and made many good memories. She was in a bad relationship and finally brokeup with the guy and accepted my proposal.

It was like a dream come true. We had a fairy tale love story. I was so so happy and she was too. We were planning to get married this year but due to Covid I coudnt come to india and marriage was postponed. During the lockdown we had a huge fight because she use to talk to so many guys which made me kinda insecure. On top of that i also found some dirty secrets of her where she had a physical relationship with 4 other guys. While confronting she told me that because she was in a bad relationship in the past, and to overcome she just f***d these guys.

My only point was to stop talking to these guys including her ex. And i was ready to accept everything. She didn’t agree to anything and just brokeup with me. 

Because i was so obsessed to her, i coudnt move on. I took psychologist help but nothing helped. Taking counselling but its not helping. She is getting married to a new guy now, and when i call her she blames for everything. She talks for unlimited hours to the new guy and moved on so easily. Don’t know how people do that.

As a last chance, I thought of coming to india and meet her parents and convince them. But the other thought tells me to have some self respect. Her parents said they don’t wanna meet and nothing will change their decision. Don’t know what happened, why she treated me like for all these years and finally left me so easily. Although i had everything what a girl dreams off including very good looks. Please help!"

Lucky gaa miss iyyav and maalli velli teesukoni raasukuntaa antunav .. why bro ? 

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everything is fine with regards to my carrier

good luck with your carrier

During the lockdown we had a huge fight because she use to talk to so many guys which made me kinda insecure. On top of that i also found some dirty secrets of her where she had a physicalrelationship with 4 other guys. 

jai carona...jai jai carona

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You should be happy that she left you and cancelled marriage.
You are good to accept her, but she don't deserve the love and life you offer.

There are high chances that she will break the marriage and comeback. Make sure you don't entertain.

 

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