Desi lu akkuva vunna place ki move ayithe pros and cons Enti ?

[zarathustra]

PROS: Spelling bee competitions ki baaga prepare cheyochu, pakkindi subba rao gaari abbayi choodu spelling bee ki full studying ani. 

White Hat Jr ki age 5-6 nunde modaletteyochu, weekends aa Tesla intha mileage isthundi full charge needentha isthundi ani comparisons chesukovachu.

CONS: None

[zarathustra]

10 hours ago, kevinUsa said:

Final conclusion endi

Videsi oddu, desi ye muddu

[Odale]

Just now, zarathustra said:

Videsi oddu, desi ye muddu

Applies for lunchtime 

[kasi]

59 minutes ago, vatsayana said:

 

 

 

Baa, I am agreeing with you 100%. I never said not to mingle with Amreekans. 

I am facing this issue now with my kids and hence I mentioned my point above.

The place I live is all amreekans, no desis.  My kids have hard time finding Tella kids to play. 

Tella kids follow their timings as their parents advice them.

but for my kids, when they try to play, they are not able to find kids to play.

Also, some kids are available to play, but they are very rough and my kids are not able to handle them.

 

 

i dont think the issue is with your kid........unless he doesnt want to play with anyone

let them figure it out how to get along with other kids..........this will help them develop social skills....looks like your potluck desi parties put them in a comfort zone with desi kids.........you need to try hard to break it, and they will thank you later in the future for doing this now 

 

[kasi]

17 minutes ago, zarathustra said:

Videsi oddu, desi ye muddu

dallas lo untea 

[PilliBeta]

Desi areas lo live cheyadam anta simple kadu, most of the time your work won't allow it. Even Universities lo, you hardly find Indians in a lot of Universities, difficult to live with only desis. 

[vatsayana]

21 minutes ago, kasi said:

i dont think the issue is with your kid........unless he doesnt want to play with anyone

let them figure it out how to get along with other kids..........this will help them develop social skills....looks like your potluck desi parties put them in a comfort zone with desi kids.........you need to try hard to break it, and they will thank you later in the future for doing this now 

 

Thx baa. I will try to push my kids more to play with other kids.

 

[Prince_Fan]

@Abbaii.....it's ekkuva...not akkuva

[Kalam_Youtheman]

1 hour ago, vatsayana said:

 

 

 

Baa, I am agreeing with you 100%. I never said not to mingle with Amreekans. 

I am facing this issue now with my kids and hence I mentioned my point above.

The place I live is all amreekans, no desis.  My kids have hard time finding Tella kids to play. 

Tella kids follow their timings as their parents advice them.

but for my kids, when they try to play, they are not able to find kids to play.

Also, some kids are available to play, but they are very rough and my kids are not able to handle them.

 

 

available to play ante .. you mean evening times lo community bhayataaki raaavaatledhaa ?

its common bro... best option is try to join in a class.. like basketball...marshall arts ala... keep them busy...

 

desis kids tho em adduthaaru bhayata.. cycle thokkadam thappa

[Peddayana]

desis usually oka chota gather ayyaru ante they are mostly same age group and will have kids , so you will have company and your kids as well

I don't usually prefer desi company for obvious reasons such as too nosy , comparisons etc but kids having company of other kids is really crucial

last place lo our kids did not have anyone to play with , whoever is there is always in their home and they do not come outside often so kids kind of found it really hard so I made a point to choose a desi infested area specifically , now my kids have company (desi as well as others) and they are enjoying..

also , from what I have seen , if you need any help , desis will be the first in line to help , tella vallu do not care unless you are really good friends with them , its hard to make close friends after you are above 30 (true for any race) , desis parichayam unna chalu they will try to help as they understand our situation and problems better

so please don't hate desis for being desis , one thing I do is to keep my interactions to a minimum and polite , this helps me avoid anyone who is extra nosy

[Raazu]

26 minutes ago, Kalam_Youtheman said:

available to play ante .. you mean evening times lo community bhayataaki raaavaatledhaa ?

its common bro... best option is try to join in a class.. like basketball...marshall arts ala... keep them busy...

 

desis kids tho em adduthaaru bhayata.. cycle thokkadam thappa

Be Neutral. Don’t hate or love anyone. Don’t be too close to anyone. Maintain Hi Hello relation. 
I just keep to myself and upto hi hello relation anthe, don’t give freedom to interfere in my personal matters.

I have close friends here from school and college who I can trust and we share A2Z matters.

[Kalam_Youtheman]

37 minutes ago, Raazu said:

Be Neutral. Don’t hate or love anyone. Don’t be too close to anyone. Maintain Hi Hello relation. 
I just keep to myself and upto hi hello relation anthe, don’t give freedom to interfere in my personal matters.

I have close friends here from school and college who I can trust and we share A2Z matters.

nen em annna nuv em antunnv bro.. out of topic

[Kalam_Youtheman]

46 minutes ago, Peddayana said:

desis usually oka chota gather ayyaru ante they are mostly same age group and will have kids , so you will have company and your kids as well

I don't usually prefer desi company for obvious reasons such as too nosy , comparisons etc but kids having company of other kids is really crucial

last place lo our kids did not have anyone to play with , whoever is there is always in their home and they do not come outside often so kids kind of found it really hard so I made a point to choose a desi infested area specifically , now my kids have company (desi as well as others) and they are enjoying..

also , from what I have seen , if you need any help , desis will be the first in line to help , tella vallu do not care unless you are really good friends with them , its hard to make close friends after you are above 30 (true for any race) , desis parichayam unna chalu they will try to help as they understand our situation and problems better

so please don't hate desis for being desis , one thing I do is to keep my interactions to a minimum and polite , this helps me avoid anyone who is extra nosy

iinka neee open kaaaledhu anukunta.. OK le.. starting lo alane untundhi.. oka 5 yrs ayyakkaa eee post ni lepudhaam malli.. ok na..

[Peddayana]

14 minutes ago, Kalam_Youtheman said:

iinka neee open kaaaledhu anukunta.. OK le.. starting lo alane untundhi.. oka 5 yrs ayyakkaa eee post ni lepudhaam malli.. ok na..

lol ,  I just do the hi/bye routine so nothing will change in 5 years I can assure you

[Raazu]

1 hour ago, Kalam_Youtheman said:

nen em annna nuv em antunnv bro.. out of topic

Sorry Babu, not to reply to your post.. it was general reply, but not sure how your post came in. May be clicked something wrong.