Wenesday story..Pelliki mundu ammayi ni select cheskune mundu jagarta

[toranam]

#p31037-"DOJ : 2009
DOL : NA
DC : Bangalore

34 - Male. We had an arranged marriage 6 years before. Both of us are in software field. Everything was going fine (at least in my mind). Both of us working in software field. Being a male, I used to think it is my responsibility to bear all kinds of expenses. And, she was never bothered to spend a single penny on anything. She used to save all of her money. And, in the last 6 years of marriage, my parents visited us for just 1 month, but my wife disrespected them in every manner. My mother used to cook for everyone, she never entered into the kitchen, she used to fight with me in loud voice over petty issues which never happened earlier, in fact, if someone rings the door bell my parents had to open the door and this girl never tried to get up and open the door though she was sitting in the living room. My parents left for their native place in just 10 days due to behavior of this girl. I tried to talk to my wife to understand what is the issue and why she behaves in such a manner. When I said that I want my parents to move along with us permanently as they are 70+ and nobody is there to take care of them in this age then surprisingly she is not comfortable with me and looking for a divorce. What?? I can't imagine this. How to handle this? Though she treated my parents so badly, I booked the tickets for her parents and brother on my own, and arranged a vacation trip to South India for 15 days staying in 4 star hotels - she never appreciated that. Gold Diggers everywhere. 

Bhai log apna ache se homework karke ladki select karo shadike liye. Bahut bura haal hai ajkal. Pehle mithi mithi baatein karti hain baad mein yahi sab natak. Apna ek paisa kharach nahi karti sab save karke rakhti hain or pati ka paisa bhi unka. Life is a hell. Not sure how such girls can be identified during early stages itself. Feminists please stay away from the comments."

[kevinUsa]

Vuu

[KhalilGibran]

I wish i could be a psychotherapist and treat these kind of women.

She may be not matured or has lot of saturnian energy

[Sreeven]

I heard same kind of stories from multiple people..

[hydusguy]

90% same story.. the day you stop spending for house expenses and ask your wife to take care.. then only we will know clear picture.

[No_body_friends]

house house ramayan ani @tom bhayya cheppinadu

[Pappu_Packitmaar]

pendlanni puttinti tho sambandhalu entha tondarga cut chesthe, antha manchidi...atla cheyalante, she should gain trust on husband..its interdependent..

lekapothey igo itlane, kali peeli kayyalu aitayi

[Amrita]

3 hours ago, KhalilGibran said:

I wish i could be a psychotherapist and treat these kind of women.

She may be not matured or has lot of saturnian energy

Saturn is a planet of discipline. Saturn is a judge and you can get good effects of saturn just by respecting elders. Saturn dont like disrespecting older people or daily wage labors.  Endulo saturnian energy ekkada undi ? Saturn effect unnavallani saturn chitakotti mari discipline nerpistundi.

[Amrita]

DIvorce her. NO woman will leave husband to take care of in laws if she really loves him. Problem here is she doesnt love the guy . Why ..what he did that we dont know. Paisal padesi trips ki tippinantha matrana premincheyaru ga ? Dont know how he is really treating her .

[Vaampire]

We just heard one side of story.  Ee abbayi valla parents ni sarigga choodakapoyina ithanu Amey parents & brother in south india trip adhi kooda pedha hotels...

if everything is true, then he should be happy that she is thinking of divorse

[Anais_nin]

44 minutes ago, Amrita said:

Saturn is a planet of discipline. Saturn is a judge and you can get good effects of saturn just by respecting elders. Saturn dont like disrespecting older people or daily wage labors.  Endulo saturnian energy ekkada undi ? Saturn effect unnavallani saturn chitakotti mari discipline nerpistundi.

When someone can't even open the door sitting in hall, lot of inertia+ego....person will feel their body very heavy and can't getup if under sade sati .

for me ,there is no love or hate towards saturn......its a planet.I know its a judge and keeps disciplined but only after something major setback happens for people who don't follow manners/ commonsense

[Amrita]

7 minutes ago, Anais_nin said:

When someone can't even open the door sitting in hall, lot of inertia+ego....person will feel their body very heavy and can't getup if under sade sati .

for me ,there is no love or hate towards saturn......its a planet.I know its a judge and keeps disciplined but only after something major setback happens for people who don't follow manners/ commonsense

I see. I didnt knew you knew that woman and she didnt open door because of laziness. I thought she didnt because she has some problem with her in laws or husband.  Mine was assumption though .

[Maryadaramanna]

3 hours ago, toranam said:

#p31037-"DOJ : 2009
DOL : NA
DC : Bangalore

34 - Male. We had an arranged marriage 6 years before. Both of us are in software field. Everything was going fine (at least in my mind). Both of us working in software field. Being a male, I used to think it is my responsibility to bear all kinds of expenses. And, she was never bothered to spend a single penny on anything. She used to save all of her money. And, in the last 6 years of marriage, my parents visited us for just 1 month, but my wife disrespected them in every manner. My mother used to cook for everyone, she never entered into the kitchen, she used to fight with me in loud voice over petty issues which never happened earlier, in fact, if someone rings the door bell my parents had to open the door and this girl never tried to get up and open the door though she was sitting in the living room. My parents left for their native place in just 10 days due to behavior of this girl. I tried to talk to my wife to understand what is the issue and why she behaves in such a manner. When I said that I want my parents to move along with us permanently as they are 70+ and nobody is there to take care of them in this age then surprisingly she is not comfortable with me and looking for a divorce. What?? I can't imagine this. How to handle this? Though she treated my parents so badly, I booked the tickets for her parents and brother on my own, and arranged a vacation trip to South India for 15 days staying in 4 star hotels - she never appreciated that. Gold Diggers everywhere. 

Bhai log apna ache se homework karke ladki select karo shadike liye. Bahut bura haal hai ajkal. Pehle mithi mithi baatein karti hain baad mein yahi sab natak. Apna ek paisa kharach nahi karti sab save karke rakhti hain or pati ka paisa bhi unka. Life is a hell. Not sure how such girls can be identified during early stages itself. Feminists please stay away from the comments."

Pelliki mundu or even right after marriage they should talk practically over expenses responsibilities and all. Mundu chweetu honey anukuntu ammai paisal karchupettakoodadu ane mentality lo ki vachi aa ammai ni chedagottindi veedu ippudu edupu. Money ichi respect konukkovalanukodam endo pichi fruit gadu.

[Amrita]

2 minutes ago, Maryadaramanna said:

Pelliki mundu or even right after marriage they should talk practically over expenses responsibilities and all. Mundu chweetu honey anukuntu ammai paisal karchupettakoodadu ane mentality lo ki vachi aa ammai ni chedagottindi veedu ippudu edupu. Money ichi respect konukkovalanukodam endo pichi fruit gadu.

Paisal to enjoy chestaru kani respect radu ga ? There is more than money in this story. May be he dont spend time dont care her dont value opinions and throw money for trips ? People judge based on just a paragraph.  There cant be one person wrong in a relationship. 60/40 or  90/10  ayina both will be wrong.

[raaajaaa]

story lo imp role KIDS miss ayaru

34 antunaru kids lera

lekapothe mari matter nill ammaya or abbaya lona

may be abbayidi lopam ayete pori divorc ekosam deeni vadukutundi emo