Popular Post PilliBeta Posted December 3, 2020 Popular Post Report Share Posted December 3, 2020 I have a 6 yr old and a 2 yr old. I love them more than anything in my life. I was taught love is about sacrifice and it certainly is. I will sacrifice anything for my kids. That said, if I could go back in time, I don’t think I would have kids. Having kids brings an enormous amount of uncertainty. When we were child free, my wife and I weren’t that worried about job security. Now, we constantly worry about it, the market and how it might affect our jobs and ultimately our kids. We are also constantly worried about what would happen to our kids if one/both of us were to lose our lives. We are also worried what might happen to them in this uncertain world. We are also severely restricted in where we want to move and where we want to buy a house. Also, having kids in a major tech center is hella expensive and you will be left with very little savings. Between looking after our kids and our jobs, we are left with no time to tend to our health and personal lives. For anyone considering having kids.. please know that the world in general sugarcoats the experience of having kids. I know that many of the issues I am raising about having kids are the symptoms of unfettered capitalism that is rampant in Silicon Valley and the US in general but that is how things are Unless you think you can sacrifice all of the things I mentioned above (and more depending on your circumstances, especially if you are here on a visa), you will regret having kids. Please think about it before you jump in. 5 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Popular Post psycopk Posted December 3, 2020 Popular Post Report Share Posted December 3, 2020 So in short kids are giving u a purpose for ur life 4 18 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
DummyVariable Posted December 3, 2020 Report Share Posted December 3, 2020 I will have the same experience as other people Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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Popular Post DesiPokiri Posted December 3, 2020 Popular Post Report Share Posted December 3, 2020 If you dont have time for your kids, just make out but dont make kids.. Having kids is not mandatory in this generation, but if you made that choice you gotta spend time no matter what. Fck the society, society mottham abdul kalam lu unnara? nacchithe kanandi, lekapothe vacations vesukuntu life antha enjoy cheyyandi, anthe gaani dont brood over the viscous circle which you created for yourself and for the society around u. 1 4 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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pahelwan Posted December 3, 2020 Report Share Posted December 3, 2020 7 minutes ago, PilliBeta said: I have a 6 yr old and a 2 yr old. I love them more than anything in my life. I was taught love is about sacrifice and it certainly is. I will sacrifice anything for my kids. That said, if I could go back in time, I don’t think I would have kids. Having kids brings an enormous amount of uncertainty. When we were child free, my wife and I weren’t that worried about job security. Now, we constantly worry about it, the market and how it might affect our jobs and ultimately our kids. We are also constantly worried about what would happen to our kids if one/both of us were to lose our lives. We are also worried what might happen to them in this uncertain world. We are also severely restricted in where we want to move and where we want to buy a house. Also, having kids in a major tech center is hella expensive and you will be left with very little savings. Between looking after our kids and our jobs, we are left with no time to tend to our health and personal lives. For anyone considering having kids.. please know that the world in general sugarcoats the experience of having kids. I know that many of the issues I am raising about having kids are the symptoms of unfettered capitalism that is rampant in Silicon Valley and the US in general but that is how things are Unless you think you can sacrifice all of the things I mentioned above (and more depending on your circumstances, especially if you are here on a visa), you will regret having kids. Please think about it before you jump in. Chill pilli bro too much ga worry ayithunav anipistundi. Niku unte vallaki pedthav lekunte pettav vallaki edo super ga asthulu iyyali chala save cheyali ani anukoku just give them good education and raise them good anthe flow la elipodame 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
DummyVariable Posted December 3, 2020 Report Share Posted December 3, 2020 Just now, pahelwan said: Chill pilli bro too much ga worry ayithunav anipistundi. Niku unte vallaki pedthav lekunte pettav vallaki edo super ga asthulu iyyali chala save cheyali ani anukoku just give them good education and raise them good anthe flow la elipodame Adhi copy paste post baa She is reading posts online and convincing herself that having kids is not a good thing. 2 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
DesiPokiri Posted December 3, 2020 Report Share Posted December 3, 2020 1 minute ago, DummyVariable said: Adhi copy paste post baa She is reading posts online and convincing herself that having kids is not a good thing. I too feel the same as i am single now. Atleast if you have kids, worrying that they are your entire life is not my thing.. I will enjoy and give what i have, anthe gani vallu adjust avvvaru india pothe etc ani life antha i wont live for them is my concept Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ammoru_talli Posted December 3, 2020 Report Share Posted December 3, 2020 Pelli, pillalu, samsaram all over rated. Patha rojullo adi oka life style proved to be happiest path. Time chala marindi. Still committed and healthy relationships benefits a lot. Need not necessarily to be in the old style. Pellaina vallandariki idi easy ga ardam avtundi. 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Vaampire Posted December 3, 2020 Report Share Posted December 3, 2020 Blind nunchi lepav gaa Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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Raazu Posted December 3, 2020 Report Share Posted December 3, 2020 22 minutes ago, PilliBeta said: I have a 6 yr old and a 2 yr old. I love them more than anything in my life. I was taught love is about sacrifice and it certainly is. I will sacrifice anything for my kids. That said, if I could go back in time, I don’t think I would have kids. Having kids brings an enormous amount of uncertainty. When we were child free, my wife and I weren’t that worried about job security. Now, we constantly worry about it, the market and how it might affect our jobs and ultimately our kids. We are also constantly worried about what would happen to our kids if one/both of us were to lose our lives. We are also worried what might happen to them in this uncertain world. We are also severely restricted in where we want to move and where we want to buy a house. Also, having kids in a major tech center is hella expensive and you will be left with very little savings. Between looking after our kids and our jobs, we are left with no time to tend to our health and personal lives. For anyone considering having kids.. please know that the world in general sugarcoats the experience of having kids. I know that many of the issues I am raising about having kids are the symptoms of unfettered capitalism that is rampant in Silicon Valley and the US in general but that is how things are Unless you think you can sacrifice all of the things I mentioned above (and more depending on your circumstances, especially if you are here on a visa), you will regret having kids. Please think about it before you jump in. Adoption ki ivvu! Adho accidentally we had and now I regret anesi! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
falconspyder Posted December 3, 2020 Report Share Posted December 3, 2020 17 minutes ago, PilliBeta said: I have a 6 yr old and a 2 yr old. I love them more than anything in my life. I was taught love is about sacrifice and it certainly is. I will sacrifice anything for my kids. That said, if I could go back in time, I don’t think I would have kids. Having kids brings an enormous amount of uncertainty. When we were child free, my wife and I weren’t that worried about job security. Now, we constantly worry about it, the market and how it might affect our jobs and ultimately our kids. We are also constantly worried about what would happen to our kids if one/both of us were to lose our lives. We are also worried what might happen to them in this uncertain world. We are also severely restricted in where we want to move and where we want to buy a house. Also, having kids in a major tech center is hella expensive and you will be left with very little savings. Between looking after our kids and our jobs, we are left with no time to tend to our health and personal lives. For anyone considering having kids.. please know that the world in general sugarcoats the experience of having kids. I know that many of the issues I am raising about having kids are the symptoms of unfettered capitalism that is rampant in Silicon Valley and the US in general but that is how things are Unless you think you can sacrifice all of the things I mentioned above (and more depending on your circumstances, especially if you are here on a visa), you will regret having kids. Please think about it before you jump in. https://www.teamblind.com/post/I-regret-having-kids-There-you-go-I-said-it-yzqW0ozo Copy & Paste from blind. 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
DummyVariable Posted December 3, 2020 Report Share Posted December 3, 2020 10 minutes ago, DesiPokiri said: I too feel the same as i am single now. Atleast if you have kids, worrying that they are your entire life is not my thing.. I will enjoy and give what i have, anthe gani vallu adjust avvvaru india pothe etc ani life antha i wont live for them is my concept 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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