I regret having kids, there you go. I said it.

[Amrita]

1 minute ago, Hungry_DinoBaby said:

Rocket ready ah  

Yes i have a personal rocket. I travel Earth-mars-earth using that . 

[ammoru_talli]

7 minutes ago, Amrita said:

Yeah work is BS. I am doing two jobs to keep me busy. I went to extreme of doing a third one too. I am trying to kill time but thats not the solution. I dont find anything happy.  I am trying though ! I joined veena classes concentrate kuda cheyatledu. I am at a point where nothing makes me happy. I am a foodie and eating what i like isnt also making me happy now. Okappudu oka lunch or dinner fav meal ki i used to feel elated. Food is  very imp in my life . Basically lite...i dont know what to say.

I totally understand you. 

[Avenger]

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[Amrita]

1 minute ago, ammoru_talli said:

I totally understand you. 

Thanks ! 

[Amrita]

4 minutes ago, Avenger said:

Antha pedda question entha simple ga adigav. 🤣🤣

I really don’t know the answer as there is no universally accepted or proven way to be truly happy. For an example, having kids might make someone really happy but it could also bring great misery to someone else. We just got to find something/anything that makes us happy atleast for that brief period of time without seeking any external validations or trying to meet any external expectations. All while remembering nothings more important than living on our own terms and no matter what do you or how you live your life you are going to end up in the same ground as did billions of people before you. Life is like a game where no one is keeping scores.  You have a short trip, you might as squeeze the most fun out of it.
 

For me, Walking these lands as a free man, sailing the oceans as a free man is the ultimate definition of happiness. You just gotta find your own. 
 

Happy Pursuit.

 

Makes sense. Thanks. 

You know what you have answers for random questions i ask. Beginning of this year  career vishayam lo kuda naku ichina advice was relevant just like this one. Miku telisina telekunna na conflict ki relevant answer untundi mi post lo. Thank you !

[Avenger]

6 minutes ago, Amrita said:

Makes sense. Thanks. 

You know what you have answers for random questions i ask. Beginning of this year  career vishayam lo kuda naku ichina advice was relevant just like this one. Miku telisina telekunna na conflict ki relevant answer untundi mi post lo. Thank you !

I’m glad I could help. Hope you have better days ahead. ✌️

[Amrita]

Just now, Avenger said:

I’m glad I could help. Hope you have better days ahead. ✌️

I hope too. Thanks !

[Chay]

14 hours ago, PilliBeta said:

I have a 6 yr old and a 2 yr old. I love them more than anything in my life. I was taught love is about sacrifice and it certainly is. I will sacrifice anything for my kids. That said, if I could go back in time, I don’t think I would have kids. Having kids brings an enormous amount of uncertainty. When we were child free, my wife and I weren’t that worried about job security. Now, we constantly worry about it, the market and how it might affect our jobs and ultimately our kids. We are also constantly worried about what would happen to our kids if one/both of us were to lose our lives. We are also worried what might happen to them in this uncertain world. We are also severely restricted in where we want to move and where we want to buy a house. Also, having kids in a major tech center is hella expensive and you will be left with very little savings. Between looking after our kids and our jobs, we are left with no time to tend to our health and personal lives.

 

For anyone considering having kids.. please know that the world in general sugarcoats the experience of having kids. I know that many of the issues I am raising about having kids are the symptoms of unfettered capitalism that is rampant in Silicon Valley and the US in general but that is how things are 

 

Unless you think you can sacrifice all of the things I mentioned above (and more depending on your circumstances, especially if you are here on a visa), you will regret having kids. Please think about it before you jump in.

 

nethi meda baruvuntene tala atu itu tippakunda nadustam.. evadeedu responsibility istam leka abam subam teliyani pillala meda blame estunnadu

[Chay]

13 hours ago, ammoru_talli said:

Pelli, pillalu, samsaram all over rated. Patha rojullo adi oka life style proved to be happiest path. Time chala marindi. Still committed and healthy relationships benefits a lot. Need not necessarily to be in the old style. Pellaina vallandariki idi easy ga ardam avtundi.

ee post suste mimmalni ammoru_talli ani kakunda ammo_talli ani antaremo just kidding 

[Nimmakai]

ltt for cattie 

[Kalam_Youtheman]

9 hours ago, DesiPokiri said:

50 varaku antha life enjoy chesaka, inko 10 or 15 years brathike dhani gurinchi worry avvalsina panemundhi kids thokka ani.

vacations vesukunta or aa rest of the life evaro okarini adopt cheskovacchu or happy ga world travel cheskovacchu retirement money tho..

chaala mandhiki kids kavaaalani untundhii back in the mind but konnni reasons vallaa I want to enjoy life no kids antaaruu.. aaa reason enti ante either of couple lo konni lopaaaaalu undatam valla....its open secret... just to cover up that ilaaaa i want to enjoy life no kids ani bekaaar muchatluuu

[Kalam_Youtheman]

kids undaaatam oka varam... u can even more enjoy life if u have kids... it just that parents who cannot handle kids.. regret kids antaaaru... 

[ammoru_talli]

24 minutes ago, Chay said:

ee post suste mimmalni ammoru_talli ani kakunda ammo_talli ani antaremo just kidding 

Hehe

[DummyVariable]

19 minutes ago, Kalam_Youtheman said:

chaala mandhiki kids kavaaalani untundhii back in the mind but konnni reasons vallaa I want to enjoy life no kids antaaruu.. aaa reason enti ante either of couple lo konni lopaaaaalu undatam valla....its open secret... just to cover up that ilaaaa i want to enjoy life no kids ani bekaaar muchatluuu

[Dippindots]