Suggestion for marriage

[Jombo0108]

13 minutes ago, Jombo0108 said:

NEED SUGGESTION:

 

Been talking to a girl through family vachindi match

1. masters ki support (I said ok)

2. family ki financial ga future lo support cheste issue ahh neeku ani asking(I said ok as long as our family is comfortable with finances)

3. masters ki natho patu my friend (girl) also will come to US. Are you ok if she stays with us we can’t live without each other (for this i said straight no, I don’t see this is feasible )

 

I was ok with first 2.. after 3rd clause I asked are you interested and serious about  marriage ?? 

reapu ma dad ki chepdam ankuntunna..  match vaddu ani...

for some reason I’m not getting that feeling when talking to her ... whenever I talk to her i get  a feeling like it’s more like a deal to her rather than staring a new family 

 

seniors and veterans please guide me 

cc @MagaMaharaju and @ZoomNaidu @Razu
@Amrita

@Ladies_Tailor bro naku kuda koncham daree choopu  bro

[ZoomNaidu]

18 minutes ago, Jombo0108 said:

NEED SUGGESTION:

 

Been talking to a girl through family vachindi match

1. masters ki support (I said ok)

2. family ki financial ga future lo support cheste issue ahh neeku ani asking(I said ok as long as our family is comfortable with finances)

3. masters ki natho patu my friend (girl) also will come to US. Are you ok if she stays with us we can’t live without each other (for this i said straight no, I don’t see this is feasible )

 

I was ok with first 2.. after 3rd clause I asked are you interested and serious about  marriage ?? 

reapu ma dad ki chepdam ankuntunna..  match vaddu ani...

for some reason I’m not getting that feeling when talking to her ... whenever I talk to her i get  a feeling like it’s more like a deal to her rather than staring a new family 

 

seniors and veterans please guide me 

cc @MagaMaharaju and @ZoomNaidu @Razu
@Amrita

3rd point: seems something fishy 🤔🤔 are they both staying together now all the time ?? 
 

what reply she gave for ur question ?? 

[Jombo0108]

2 minutes ago, ZoomNaidu said:

3rd point: seems something fishy 🤔🤔 are they both staying together now all the time ?? 
 

what reply she gave for ur question ?? 

Leadu bro.. as of now both are doing job in Hyderabad and their families also settled in hyd. But they have this fantasy that they want to stay together and enjoy.. since they couldn’t do this while in India they are thinking about it in Masters 

 

i know this sounds gay, I really didn’t know what to make out of this 

[MagaMaharaju]

19 minutes ago, Jombo0108 said:

Family through vachina match kada.. madyalovallu emo pilla edo telsi teliyaka matlatundi.. ivvanni marriage ayyaka settle aipotai ani ma parents ni okate dobbutunnaru oppesukondi ani 

2 weeks drag chesa.. Kane next week finalize cheymai chepparu... 

Naku 28 tanki emo 24. 

a lot of entitled attitude. I would pass

[MagaMaharaju]

12 minutes ago, LadiesTailor said:

Vachesa kaaka...TS ki babu first meet lone first night muchatlu start chesindu ante pelli ayuthe intlo phub pedathademo.... move on and find a better person 

Open minded ante inkendho anukunna

Idhaa 

LOL

[Nimmakai]

Bro what do you mean masters ki support, fees and etc take care cheyala ?

[LadiesTailor]

13 minutes ago, Jombo0108 said:

@Ladies_Tailor bro naku kuda koncham daree choopu  bro

Haha first two are very reasonable and you can support.. but third point konchem illogical... 

instead of giving up... ask why that friend is so special and explain her you guys need space for sorts few years after getting married.... there are million things that you both have to workout once you started a family.... third person will make things worst... explain her that you can support in some or tithed way but living with us is not a choice ani... or dorikipotav... 

[LadiesTailor]

6 minutes ago, MagaMaharaju said:

Open minded ante inkendho anukunna

Idhaa 

LOL

Yeah TS siggu padinattu vundi direct ga cheppukovadaniki 

[ZoomNaidu]

27 minutes ago, Jombo0108 said:

Leadu bro.. as of now both are doing job in Hyderabad and their families also settled in hyd. But they have this fantasy that they want to stay together and enjoy.. since they couldn’t do this while in India they are thinking about it in Masters 

 

i know this sounds gay, I really didn’t know what to make out of this 

Idhemi fantasy bro 😂😂 

We cannot judge just bcoz of this but feeling she is just immatured & don’t know the reality outside anipistundhi. 

[MagaMaharaju]

54 minutes ago, Jombo0108 said:

Family through vachina match kada.. madyalovallu emo pilla edo telsi teliyaka matlatundi.. ivvanni marriage ayyaka settle aipotai ani ma parents ni okate dobbutunnaru oppesukondi ani 

2 weeks drag chesa.. Kane next week finalize cheymai chepparu... 

Naku 28 tanki emo 24. 

valladem poindhi. they have nothing to lose.

If things turn bitter it's you and your family who has to deal with it.

Family kuda to a certain extent, you have to deal every day and night. Entha parents ayinaa they can't feel your feelings.

So neku ela anipisthundhi anedanike first priority.

Parents feel avtharani pakkintollu emina anukuntaru ani matram alochinchodhu

End of the day it's a solo battle

[Tesla_Elon]

57 minutes ago, Jombo0108 said:

NEED SUGGESTION:

 

Been talking to a girl through family vachindi match

1. masters ki support (I said ok)

2. family ki financial ga future lo support cheste issue ahh neeku ani asking(I said ok as long as our family is comfortable with finances)

3. masters ki natho patu my friend (girl) also will come to US. Are you ok if she stays with us we can’t live without each other (for this i said straight no, I don’t see this is feasible )

 

I was ok with first 2.. after 3rd clause I asked are you interested and serious about  marriage ?? 

reapu ma dad ki chepdam ankuntunna..  match vaddu ani...

for some reason I’m not getting that feeling when talking to her ... whenever I talk to her i get  a feeling like it’s more like a deal to her rather than staring a new family 

 

seniors and veterans please guide me 

cc @MagaMaharaju and @ZoomNaidu @Razu
@Amrita

Haha, masters ki support, family support friends support nuvvu em isthav ane adugutundi neeku em isthadanta mari return lo??

business deal laga undi.. i would run away...

[Jombo0108]

1 minute ago, Tesla_Elon said:

Haha, masters ki support, family support friends support nuvvu em isthav ane adugutundi neeku em isthadanta mari return lo??

business deal laga undi.. i would run away...

Exactly bro antha deal laga matladtummaru.. I felt bit awkward when she’s asking all this kind of stuff 

[Jombo0108]

2 minutes ago, MagaMaharaju said:

valladem poindhi. they have nothing to lose.

If things turn bitter it's you and your family who has to deal with it.

Family kuda to a certain extent, you have to deal every day and night. Entha parents ayinaa they can't feel your feelings.

So neku ela anipisthundhi anedanike first priority.

Parents feel avtharani pakkintollu emina anukuntaru ani matram alochinchodhu

End of the day it's a solo battle

Correct anipistondi bro thanks as always..

End of the day. Daily vndedi natho parents and match techinalvalltho kadu kada 

[Jombo0108]

32 minutes ago, Nimmakai said:

Bro what do you mean masters ki support, fees and etc take care cheyala ?

Emo bro neanu aithe banks vnnai ga loans lo lagiddam ani cheppa 

[Tesla_Elon]

5 minutes ago, Jombo0108 said:

Emo bro neanu aithe banks vnnai ga loans lo lagiddam ani cheppa 

it depends on ur age, if you are young it might workout but if ur more than 30 eppudu masters chesi job ante eppatilo iyye pani kadu. Asal valla friend US ki vasthe mee intlo undadam enti... ninnu oka resource la vadukundam ani fix iyyara enti..Anyways good Luck..