30 year old house renovation to modern house: America lo ammakutti

[friesNfrappe]

3 minutes ago, Dosakai said:

okay. a friend who does his podcast and dabbled with youtube said that youtube earnings are meagre, in the low 100s. he's slightly controversial, so perhaps youtube probably demonetizes a lot of his stuff. who knows.

YT ala kuda chesthaya 😂 prolly. E thread lo vlog ammayi does IT job and these videos I dont know how the hell she gets any time to do all This.. 

[Amrita]

4 minutes ago, betapilli said:

It's not about the money. Manasa vlogs intro video lo cheppindi, the reason she is doing vlogs is because she wants to do something with her life rather than just staying at home and raising kids. I respect that attitude. 

Nenu vlogs chuda nenu comment chesindi about money they generate i never said people do that money. My friend is doing it being IT professional and  i know she easily earns 130k.

Anta time and effort nenu ayite pettalenu as i hate vlogs and i am not a patient person. Money only motivation ayite i dont think no one can do anything in live. Passion kalistene it has some meaning.

[Amrita]

1 minute ago, betapilli said:

Sure, my cats are satisfied with their lives and are happy all the time. If I am like that, at 60, I probably would regret not doing anything else with my life Anna uddesam tho cheppanu. You always regret the things you didn't do in life. 

I am saying may be that's not their priority. We regret only if that was in list of things to do. 

[Dosakai]

3 minutes ago, betapilli said:

I am not saying everyone should live their life like this. I just said I respect the women who find a passion in their lives over those who stay at home and do nothing. 

both are the same. its not about the individual. Its how systems work. 

Its more likely that family systems where one spouse sacrifices his/her purpose to align with the other spouse is more likely to get rich, compared to systems where both spouses hold their ground.

I don't prefer one against the other. just saying.

individualism is not an ideal everyone strives for.

[betapilli]

Just now, psycopk said:

Once u have kids.. your passion looks very little in front of them.. once they are tennagers u may resume ur passion

You're sacrificing your life for them antaavu, that is okay if you have a life to begin with. A lot of these H4 women in the past used to stay at home, a lot of them were depressed. They are not sacrificing when they have kids, because they don't have a life outside being a homemaker. Atleast making vlogs will give them something motivating to do despite not sacrificing their stay at home lifestyle. 

[betapilli]

1 minute ago, Amrita said:

I am saying may be that's not their priority. We regret only if that was in list of things to do. 

How do you know what things are in the list of things to do? If a woman wants to stay at home on purpose because she doesn't want to do anything, I respect her less than someone who wants to do something but isn't being able to. 

[Amrita]

5 minutes ago, betapilli said:

How do you know what things are in the list of things to do? If a woman wants to stay at home on purpose because she doesn't want to do anything, I respect her less than someone who wants to do something but isn't being able to. 

Its upto you whom you want to respect and whom you dont. All i am saying is we don't know what a person will regret or not unless we are them and are in their shoes. We dont know what are the list of the things they want to do but they will know it.

By any means i am not saying a woman shouldnt be independent . Aey ammayi ayina def independent undali emotionally and also financially there is no argument in it and thats my opinion. But andariki same opportunities undav. Some may sacrifice or some might make a choice to be stay at home mom and might never regret. 

[Dosakai]

15 minutes ago, friesNfrappe said:

YT ala kuda chesthaya 😂 prolly. E thread lo vlog ammayi does IT job and these videos I dont know how the hell she gets any time to do all This.. 

Its not that hard le, once you get the hang of it. plus there will be people to help too.

[betapilli]

1 minute ago, Amrita said:

Its upto you whom you want to respect and whom you dont. All i am saying is we don't know what a person will regret or not unless we are them and are in their shoes. We dont know what are the list of the things they want to do but they will know it.

By any means i am not saying woman shouldnt be independent . Aey ammayi ayina def independent undali emotionally and also financially there is no argument in it and thats my opinion. But andariki same opportunities undav. Some may sacrifice or some might make a choice to be stay at home mom and might never regret. 

Idi correct ee, anduke I was encouraging social media and vlogs. Like I said it gives them an opportunity to do something other rather the same routine for 60 years. I am not trying to put down someone for doing something or not, just saying that it might be something they regret when they are older. I heard from my friends who had kids in early 20s that feel pressurised about their peers having a career. Instead of feeling depressed about it, vlogging gives them an avenue to connect with other women in their situation. Pata kalam lo both people used to work to make both ends meet, agriculture, selling milk, etc.. Ippudu people have the luxury to not work. But that luxury shouldn't spoil them to the point that they lose their identity. 

[Jane]

22 minutes ago, Dosakai said:

improving their own self esteem. you think getting a 10k views for every video you post, won't boost your self esteem?

Boosting Self esteem is fine...but very worst videos chesthunaaru kontha mandi 

[Amrita]

1 minute ago, betapilli said:

Idi correct ee, anduke I was encouraging social media and vlogs. Like I said it gives them an opportunity to do something other rather the same routine for 60 years. I am not trying to put down someone for doing something or not, just saying that it might be something they regret when they are older. I heard from my friends who had kids in early 20s that feel pressurised about their peers having a career. Instead of feeling depressed about it, vlogging gives them an avenue to connect with other women in their situation. Pata kalam lo both people used to work to make both ends meet, agriculture, selling milk, etc.. Ippudu people have the luxury to not work. But that luxury shouldn't spoil them to the point that they lose their identity. 

You don't have to explain why you support @betapilli  you can support anything that's your opinion. I differed only to the point that you said they might not be satisfied about their life when they look back. ANyways cool. 

[Dosakai]

Just now, Jane said:

Boosting Self esteem is fine...but very worst videos chesthunaaru kontha mandi 

yeah. people have no awareness of how pathetic their aesthetics are. how mundane their life is for others.

Its the age of excess. we produce everything in excess. and most of it is crap. vlogs are no exception

[Dosakai]

1 minute ago, Amrita said:

You don't have to explain why you support @betapilli  you can support anything that's your opinion. I differed only to the point that you said they might not be satisfied about their life when they look back. ANyways cool. 

just give betapilli a nobel prize and let her get back to work in peace.

[Amrita]

1 minute ago, Dosakai said:

just give betapilli a nobel prize and let her get back to work in peace.

Vakey done 

[Dosakai]

It's good if half the people in this world voluntarily denounce work itself. and stop trying to do something.

just intlo duppati kappukoni padukunna kooda, world will be a better place.

too many people have too much self righteous notions on work. and this social game is fcuking stupid.