Been married for 7months...seeing stars

[ranku_mogudu]

1 minute ago, Tesla_Elon said:

valentines day ki intha kastama bro... mari valla side nunchi em cheyara adyaksha?

adhantha ayyaka neeku asal valentines day kanipisthadhi

[Rendu]

4 hours ago, kitkat said:

Iam 32, married summer 2020. agebar ani intlo tondara pettaru, carona kuda kalasi vachindi...pelli ayyepoyendi.

wife is 27, she is also in same situation ...ageing ani valla intlo kuda fast decision...merupu laa pelli ayyepoyendi. 

now we are in NJ. 

endo bhayya this women is totally diff than my expectations . TV sound estam leedu anta madam ki, chicken estam leedu anta 

ela okati kaadu. daggariki vellithee neeku all time edee gola na   edukee pelli chesukunna va ani eedupu moham... neenu ready leenu

ani valla parents ni tidutundi pelli chesaru ani....  laagi okati peekudama anipistundi but control control ani...edi ekkadi godava anna naaku...

cooking baanee chestundi and surprisingly she asks me should I wait for you or eat ani. july nunchi we are living together but nothing much

intlo bayata ekkada cheppaleenu . I always think Iam a decent person by every means...looks like Iam wrong.  

[Nimmakai]

6 minutes ago, Tesla_Elon said:

valentines day ki intha kastama bro... mari valla side nunchi em cheyara adyaksha?

i feel the same, too much work. lite

[ranku_mogudu]

2 minutes ago, Nimmakai said:

i feel the same, too much work. lite

bongulo order pettaneeki too much work, but we expect her to come and say " raa maava" 

 

tappuledhu

[TOM_BHAYYA]

1 hour ago, Peter123 said:

One word -- Surrender yourself bro.. 

Happy Marriage Life undali ante - just surrender

What that means, few examples:

Make her the BOSS

Give your salary to her and ask her to manage, tell small story that you are poor in finances, and you're very smart etc intelligent etc..., 

Praise her family, buy gifts to her family, Her Family is the Key, tell that you will be there for your family till end, show that you take care of her family (her mom dad sis bro, niece nephew etc etc)

If she is outside person take her to everyday evening local shopping, Tj max, Grocery stores etc, Malls etc, movies, restaurants, etc,., 

Do Not Say NO to anything, even if that hrts you, just say Yes for now, tarvatha sangathi tarvtha choodachu...

If she likes Gifts - buy her as much as you can, gold normally girls like, dresses, etc.. 

Tell her everyday that you're the Boss, i am happy to get married to you, thanks for coming into my life, you're the best, add some more masala here, i am very glad that i got the best atta maama, and best family of yours.. ila story ki no break points bro... 

Inka kavalante asking me, i will telling you and all 

 

Pathananiki padhi metlu author nuvve na bro?

[No_body_friends]

rey connection lekunda plug lo velu endhuku pettav?

 

first work on connection

[Tesla_Elon]

5 minutes ago, ranku_mogudu said:

bongulo order pettaneeki too much work, but we expect her to come and say " raa maava" 

 

tappuledhu

Cheyadam thappu anatledu some should happen from other side too kada??

[No_body_friends]

1 hour ago, ranku_mogudu said:

Try to send something of her passion like you mentioned as a surprise gift on 14th Morning.( No Names, just gift wrap)

Same day,afternoon get her some ring/pendant that has two hearts joined together.

evening some top in a color/model that you know she often wears. try some good brands like desigual.

 

why desigual? it means uneven,not a match which reflects her current thought..however, the idea of the store itself is a group of people who think power of creativity is a way of life , which reflects your wife's passion. this is a double score. here you need to give her a hint so that she gets curiosity of what DESIGUAL is.

 

 

till here, she must be perplexed if it is you or not. if she asks, just skip and say how do I know.  else better disappear saying work/prod issue that you need to work on a saturday/ some friend emergency that you leave in the morning. then you come in the evening tired and all and act sleeping

She will be super pissed that you dont show love and by evening her expectations will get low, very low.

Now this is where you give her first hint.

next night ki mee balcony loney candle light plan cheyyi..get roses and aroma scents to set the mood.thanaku nachinadhi nuvvu effort aina petti cook cheyyi/order cheyy. first one works wonders.

 

if she has a habit of taking bath before sleep(my wife has), set her bath tub with stress free salts just after the dinner.

 

These all may cost less than 500$, but trust me this will set your life for next 12 months and gets you more love from her.

Lastly, you never knew why she is not comfortable with you, so this will be the ice breaker, lekpothey aa gedda perigi perigi inka pagaladhu.

 

Funny thing is these things will usually pop up when you are in love with a girl , but wife anesariki why do we take her for granted??

P.S Keep this habit every year

 

 

 

 

rey entra idhi? pakkanodi wife problem ante essays rasesthunadu okkokkadu

[ZoomNaidu]

1 hour ago, Dhimputha said:

What’s with you and divorce? Prathi husband and wife thread lo divorce divorce ani vethukuthav 😆

@Dhimputha !! dhaaniko history vundhile DB lo.

[Tesla_Elon]

10 minutes ago, ranku_mogudu said:

bongulo order pettaneeki too much work, but we expect her to come and say " raa maava" 

 

tappuledhu

Haha, u are talking sex is enjoyed only by men and not women..

[Peter123]

11 minutes ago, TOM_BHAYYA said:

Pathananiki padhi metlu author nuvve na bro?

telidu anna. 

[Tesla_Elon]

13 minutes ago, ranku_mogudu said:

bongulo order pettaneeki too much work, but we expect her to come and say " raa maava" 

 

tappuledhu

Nuvvu cheppedi ela undi ante sex kavali ante evi koninchali annatu undi.. i have different meaning for that bro

[NiranjanGaaru]

4 minutes ago, ZoomNaidu said:

@Dhimputha !! dhaaniko history vundhile DB lo.

Vuu tell bro

[Democraticcompulsion]

4 hours ago, kitkat said:

Iam 32, married summer 2020. agebar ani intlo tondara pettaru, carona kuda kalasi vachindi...pelli ayyepoyendi.

 

Tinnitus? when the Ringing Won't Stop, Do...

healthtoday

 

 

 

wife is 27, she is also in same situation ...ageing ani valla intlo kuda fast decision...merupu laa pelli ayyepoyendi. 

 

Tinnitus? when the Ringing Won't Stop, Do...

healthtoday

 

 

 

now we are in NJ. 

endo bhayya this women is totally diff than my expectations . TV sound estam leedu anta madam ki, chicken estam leedu anta 

ela okati kaadu. daggariki vellithee neeku all time edee gola na   edukee pelli chesukunna va ani eedupu moham... neenu ready leenu

ani valla parents ni tidutundi pelli chesaru ani....  laagi okati peekudama anipistundi but control control ani...edi ekkadi godava anna naaku...

cooking baanee chestundi and surprisingly she asks me should I wait for you or eat ani. july nunchi we are living together but nothing much

intlo bayata ekkada cheppaleenu . I always think Iam a decent person by every means...looks like Iam wrong.  

Lol. Your expectations are not wrong. Her objections are not wrong either. 

Same story every where.

Romantic environment create cheyyali. It will lead to what you want most of the times. Even if not, be supportive.

Also invest in good headphones (leave one ear open for talking).

Sound pollution ki mandu ledu. Only option is to adjust and adapt.

[Ellen]

2 hours ago, Peter123 said:

One word -- Surrender yourself bro.. 

Happy Marriage Life undali ante - just surrender

What that means, few examples:

Make her the BOSS

Give your salary to her and ask her to manage, tell small story that you are poor in finances, and you're very smart etc intelligent etc..., 

Praise her family, buy gifts to her family, Her Family is the Key, tell that you will be there for your family till end, show that you take care of her family (her mom dad sis bro, niece nephew etc etc)

If she is outside person take her to everyday evening local shopping, Tj max, Grocery stores etc, Malls etc, movies, restaurants, etc,., 

Do Not Say NO to anything, even if that hrts you, just say Yes for now, tarvatha sangathi tarvtha choodachu...

If she likes Gifts - buy her as much as you can, gold normally girls like, dresses, etc.. 

Tell her everyday that you're the Boss, i am happy to get married to you, thanks for coming into my life, you're the best, add some more masala here, i am very glad that i got the best atta maama, and best family of yours.. ila story ki no break points bro... 

Inka kavalante asking me, i will telling you and all 

 

Your sarcasm 😅😅😹😹😹😹😹😂😂😂 ee comment ni serious ga teeskoni janalu frustrate avvadam hilarious I say