Been married for 7months...seeing stars

[TruthTruth]

20 hours ago, MRI said:

Accept a different person.. antha cheyalenodivi dating chesi pelli chesukunundalsindi.. don't be a control freak.. mundu neela vundaali nee expectations ki set avvali anadam vadilesuko.. Don't be a eunuch by even thinking about raising your hand.. love her.. you both are part of each others life from now on for the rest..

Sensible post 

[vokatonumberkurrodu]

married life is like a roller coaster ride bro.... high lo veltundhi...ani anandha padelopala oka low vastundhi ani back of the mind gurthupettuko at the same time enti intha low lo veltundhi and badha vesinappudalla mundhu na unna high vastundhi ani hope tho undu...

ila oka 2-3 yrs ayyaka antha alavatu ayipotundhi then you will yourself predict the upcomimg highs and lows.

[mirchi_bajji]

2 minutes ago, vokatonumberkurrodu said:

married life is like a roller coaster ride bro.... high lo veltundhi...ani anandha padelopala oka low vastundhi ani back of the mind gurthupettuko at the same time enti intha low lo veltundhi and badha vesinappudalla mundhu na unna high vastundhi ani hope tho undu...

ila oka 2-3 yrs ayyaka antha alavatu ayipotundhi then you will yourself predict the upcomimg highs and lows.

   ekkadaina chadivava or is this your own ?

[vokatonumberkurrodu]

6 minutes ago, mirchi_bajji said:

   ekkadaina chadivava or is this your own ?

my own experience bro

[argadorn]

11 hours ago, soodhilodaaram said:

give an year more, prepare a journal and track her thinking process

marriage ayina excitement ledante 2 things, confused to live in America due to loneliness or she is not able to forget some past and move on

spend more time taking her out for dinner, movies and trips, next 1 year lo neeku enni sarlu try chesina set avvadam ledanta, give ample opportunity for her to adjust and adapt

one year lo attitude set kaledu ante, it will not be better anymore, ticket koni let her go back to india and do not plan for kids assuming its gonna be OK, you life will be screwed up once kids land, explain to her parents as a status update once every month not as complaining but as an update, 12 months ayyaka final update ivvadam easy ga untadi

on the good side, covid has made life hard for everyone, so give here benefit of doubt and engage her more

 

 

nee yenkamma one year ah .... to all who supported girl for not having intimacy after 7 months ... adey abhayi chestahy impotent ani declare chesi divorce epinchey vallu ... athanu age 32 va enka 1 year agala laddulodhi .... 

[Rebel_Uncle]

7 minutes ago, argadorn said:

nee yenkamma one year ah .... to all who supported girl for not having intimacy after 7 months ... adey abhayi chestahy impotent ani declare chesi divorce epinchey vallu ... athanu age 32 va enka 1 year agala laddulodhi .... 

Bro girls are not like boys, chex kosam padi chachiporu. 

all these days they never showed their body to someone naked sudden ga pelli ani chepi 1 day lo sarduku pomante chala mandi ok antermo but konthamandi kudaradhu. You never know what tharuma she went through or love break ups koda karanam kavachu,

Imagine if his wife is having some health problem apudu koda avalsindena? 

[former]

inko one or two months lo alavatu avuthudi le. memu nee stage nunchu vachiina vallame.

[Dosakai]

lol. good.

[halwaraaj]

22 hours ago, kitkat said:

Iam 32, married summer 2020. agebar ani intlo tondara pettaru, carona kuda kalasi vachindi...pelli ayyepoyendi.

wife is 27, she is also in same situation ...ageing ani valla intlo kuda fast decision...merupu laa pelli ayyepoyendi. 

now we are in NJ. 

endo bhayya this women is totally diff than my expectations . TV sound estam leedu anta madam ki, chicken estam leedu anta 

ela okati kaadu. daggariki vellithee neeku all time edee gola na   edukee pelli chesukunna va ani eedupu moham... neenu ready leenu

ani valla parents ni tidutundi pelli chesaru ani....  laagi okati peekudama anipistundi but control control ani...edi ekkadi godava anna naaku...

cooking baanee chestundi and surprisingly she asks me should I wait for you or eat ani. july nunchi we are living together but nothing much

intlo bayata ekkada cheppaleenu . I always think Iam a decent person by every means...looks like Iam wrong.  

give in to her initially, just do everything that she wants, you need to understand her, and the only way you can do that is to talk about every little thing, although you can understand few things by her actions. It is also important to let her know that you are doing things that you dont like or not comfortable just bcoz she does not like it. But never do it on a serious note, message convey avvali, kani nuvvu cheppinattu undakoodadhu, tittakoodadhu, they will get the message and think about it. After all this, 7 months is very little time, I am married for 8 yrs, most things are settled for us, but still some things where we have conflicts but we deal with funny punches at each other rather than fights and no talks like we did in first 5 yrs of marriage.....its always going to be there.

 

[hunkyfunky]

31 minutes ago, argadorn said:

nee yenkamma one year ah .... to all who supported girl for not having intimacy after 7 months ... adey abhayi chestahy impotent ani declare chesi divorce epinchey vallu ... athanu age 32 va enka 1 year agala laddulodhi .... 

She is not saying complete no...you have to make her want you and be ready ..they won't turn on anytime just like that

[MDharmarajuMA]

14 hours ago, Iriswest said:

Thanu dentist aithe income triple aiddi kada. What is the problem here?

evariki triple avudhi. she clearly tolded no that she will support her parents when she start earning eventhough her parents are well settled.

Education karchu husband dhi ata. earned income valla parents ki ata.. selfish biatches

[soodhilodaaram]

1 hour ago, argadorn said:

nee yenkamma one year ah .... to all who supported girl for not having intimacy after 7 months ... adey abhayi chestahy impotent ani declare chesi divorce epinchey vallu ... athanu age 32 va enka 1 year agala laddulodhi .... 

past karma ni deal cheyakunda move on avvadam easy kaadu, some thing take time, one year is a decent time frame for profiling spouse's thought process in marriage

Indian women dont get out in decent manner, they end up inflicting lot of emotional pain and monetary impact along with court/legal proceeding, law is totally screwed up in India

Modern approach aite find out if she wants to move on with someone else and let her go, this is very easy approach if one takes out emotions, again we attach too much to marriage as if its life or death

 

[vokatonumberkurrodu]

there is a fine line when approaching a women....if you approach too much then eppudu ade pana ani response vastundhi..if you approach too less then you dont like me ani response vastundhi...

this balance is the key

[mustang302]

18 pages😨

[Iriswest]

25 minutes ago, MDharmarajuMA said:

evariki triple avudhi. she clearly tolded no that she will support her parents when she start earning eventhough her parents are well settled.

Education karchu husband dhi ata. earned income valla parents ki ata.. selfish biatches

Earned money can be distributed according to needs. The whole money will not go to parents.