Cheating wife valla kastalu

[siru]

“My marriage of 5 years ended with my wife cheating on me multiple times; I only found out when I caught her red-handed with our neighbour. After, I saw her chats where she’d been sexting and meeting with men–this was after she sedated me every other night through my food. Still, she denied it all.

But then, I found a red slap mark on our son’s back. ‘Amma hit me when I told her I wanted to meet Thatha-Paatti’, he said. That was it–the next day, I filed for divorce; Srivatsan, our son, chose to stay with me.

I was devastated–in 6 months, our lives turned upside down; Shrivastan was 4. For the first 2 months, he’d wake up kicking and crying at night. I’d put him on my lap and sing him to sleep.

He even refused to eat–we discovered later that my ex-wife even sedated his food when she brought other men home. He knew something was wrong; he’d feel drowsy and anxious. Because of this, he started fearing food. So I’d make him eat by telling him stories to divert his attention.

As time passed by, he revealed how his mother used to kick him, even bite him if he didn’t listen to her. This once, when I was at work, Srivatsan had woken up to find his mother with another man. She’d threatened him–‘You’ll never meet your father if you utter a word’; my son was traumatized.

So I decided to move in with my parents thinking that he’d heal better with his Thatha-Paatti. There, I’d wake up early to cook for him, bathe him and teach him. On days I couldn’t work from home, my parents looked after him. They felt terribly guilty–‘We arranged this rishta...it’s our fault,’ my mother would say.

But we helped each other get out of it. I put Srivatsan into a new school–side by side, we both began therapy.

After a few months, when Srivatsan stopped mentioning his mother, I sat him down and asked, ‘Do you miss having a mother?’ and he said, ‘No, I don’t want to see Amma ever again.’ Over time, he started calling his grandmother ‘Amma’.

Our life is getting back on track now–Srivatsan and I go to the park every evening and then do our homework. And every weekend, we have movie nights!

After the divorce, my ex-wife never tried to reach out to us, not once! It’s been 2.5 years– Srivatsan is fully aware of what happened and has accepted it. At times, if I’m feeling low, Srivatsan senses it and gives me a hug– he’s so mature.

He keeps telling me that he will study hard and make me proud. Sometimes, he wants to become an engineer, at times a train driver–it changes every day. But this once, out of nowhere, he said, ‘Appa, I want to be a good father like you’ and everything seemed okay right about then…”

#shared

 

[siru]

Publicly shared on Humans of bombay

[ZoomNaidu]

Great guy 👏👏👏

[Rebel_Uncle]

Kid is great too

[Battu123]

Great father 

[Barney_Stinson]

bad karma got him a bitch and good karma left him with a kid 

[quickgun_murugun]

1 hour ago, siru said:

Publicly shared on Humans of bombay

Sedated antunnadu what did she use to sedate them ? 

[johnydanylee]

ee matram daniki pelli enduku chesukundi manza

Reeii maguvaa maguvaa ki male version ready cheyyandra

[Manikyam]

15 minutes ago, quickgun_murugun said:

Sedated antunnadu what did she use to sedate them ? 

ne tips neekavale evadu etu poina

[Sputnik]

Bad mother ki best example 

 

[Yaman02]

PREMA ANTE BHARINCHATAM. 

[quickgun_murugun]

58 minutes ago, Manikyam said:

ne tips neekavale evadu etu poina

Youth ki help aythadani kaka 

[fake_Bezawada]

finding life again... good things happened for him 

[DummyVariable]

Ilanti stories enni unnayo. They rarely come out. Vellandharu manchollu annattu elevations ivvakakunda undadam manchidhi.

[phatposts]

I am waiting for the day RGV makes a movie on men's issues.