Don’t reveal any girl friend secrets to your wife

[iddaritho]

Before marriage had two affairs , one almost marriage and first one was more time pass 

any how arranged marriage , didn’t tell any thing before marriage 

one good time while talking about before marriage life blurred out some information and finally had to share the details 

From then epudu watching any movie which has some girl friend boy friend scene , where I remember my ex girl friend And get small smiles on my face my wife recognizes instantly and starts the torturE mosam Chesi pelli chesukunna ani and very insecure about if I will meet them again 

 

I lesson learnt ( secret should be a secret ) 

 

[jefferson1]

1 minute ago, iddaritho said:

Before marriage had two affairs , one almost marriage and first one was more time pass 

any how arranged marriage , didn’t tell any thing before marriage 

one good time while talking about before marriage life blurred out some information and finally had to share the details 

From then epudu watching any movie which has some girl friend boy friend scene , where I remember my ex girl friend And get small smiles on my face my wife recognizes instantly and starts the torturE mosam Chesi pelli chesukunna ani and very insecure about if I will meet them again 

 

I lesson learnt ( secret should be a secret ) 

 

hmmmm...munde discalimer iyya leda?

[Prince_Fan]

[kalaa_pipaasi]

some times being open makes u more trustable in a relationship. a right partner will appreciate you for that. sometimes it backfires.it will be a starter for breakups

[hydusguy]

discussing abt past if of no use...instead it gets into trouble.

follow dont ask dont tell policy

[friesNfrappe]

32 minutes ago, iddaritho said:

Before marriage had two affairs , one almost marriage and first one was more time pass 

any how arranged marriage , didn’t tell any thing before marriage 

one good time while talking about before marriage life blurred out some information and finally had to share the details 

From then epudu watching any movie which has some girl friend boy friend scene , where I remember my ex girl friend And get small smiles on my face my wife recognizes instantly and starts the torturE mosam Chesi pelli chesukunna ani and very insecure about if I will meet them again 

 

I lesson learnt ( secret should be a secret ) 

 

@iddaritho id ki reason eppudu ardam ayindi bruh

[Thokkalee]

5 minutes ago, friesNfrappe said:

@iddaritho id ki reason eppudu ardam ayindi bruh

Ippudu mugguru ayyaru kadaa.. wife tho kalipi 😄

[Sputnik]

9 minutes ago, hydusguy said:

discussing abt past if of no use...instead it gets into trouble.

follow dont ask dont tell policy

Don’t agree with this

maree poosa guchinattu cheppakapoina it’s healthy to discuss on a high level. 

manaki present oka personality undhi ante it’s all part of all our experiences.

Knowing past gives the other person a chance to understand you better.

Ipudu friends lone I put up konni over bearing qualities knowing their story. If I hadn’t known get lost anukunta.

 

 

[friesNfrappe]

Just now, Thokkalee said:

Ippudu mugguru ayyaru kadaa.. wife tho kalipi 😄

Yes TS e song veskovachu eppudu  

 

[hydusguy]

5 minutes ago, Sputnik said:

Don’t agree with this

maree poosa guchinattu cheppakapoina it’s healthy to discuss on a high level. 

manaki present oka personality undhi ante it’s all part of all our experiences.

Knowing past gives the other person a chance to understand you better.

Ipudu friends lone I put up konni over bearing qualities knowing their story. If I hadn’t known get lost anukunta.

 

 

i am talking abt affairs..i am 100% its of no use to discuss

[Sputnik]

1 minute ago, hydusguy said:

i am talking abt affairs..i am 100% its of no use to discuss

I was talking about relationships

[Galactus]

lol , the minute you talk about past, inevitable comparisons start , unless the ex is a psycho and your partner needs to be aware of them, there is no gain in discussing about past , it only ends in hurt in most cases

broad minded chala takkuva especially desi kompallo ....

[hydusguy]

Just now, Sputnik said:

I was talking about relationships

even that..  you are putting a sense of doubt n insecurity which wont go away.. if past relationship person still around him..then it will be diff level 

[NYCpal]

24 minutes ago, Sputnik said:

Don’t agree with this

maree poosa guchinattu cheppakapoina it’s healthy to discuss on a high level. 

manaki present oka personality undhi ante it’s all part of all our experiences.

Knowing past gives the other person a chance to understand you better.

Ipudu friends lone I put up konni over bearing qualities knowing their story. If I hadn’t known get lost anukunta.

 

 

Totally agree with this ..Nenu koda early stages of my relationship lo I wanted to know his past gfs,crushes ..what lead to breakups and how overcame those ani discuss chestundy..meant not in depth though ..that gave me idea /picture wat kinda personality,how emotionally invested into any relationship etc.,

[betapilli]

Ante if husband doesn't reveal anything, should wives assume that husbands are patheet or something is amiss?