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1 hour ago, Fish said:

Girl kid ni boy kid kante superior ga enduku chusthaaru Indian community lo....doesn’t girls love their parents equally 

Today I took my dad for vaccine, india lo vaccine dorakadam ledu so I went personally enquired lot of hospitals....finally I could get into one with 3 hours wait

my brother and his wife just sided off....but I felt the responsibility towards my parents....after coming home my dad said that he gave me dowry with pain in some conversation and I felt really sad 😞....my mom supports me a lot 

aada pillalu baaram anipisthe....he would have killed when I was born instead of feeling burden....I was never been treated equally when I was growing up either 

indian society lo girl kid comes with lot of expenses like marriage, delivery of her kids, physical safety responsibility and loss of income as she never used to work.

adhe son unte, he is expected to contribute income or work, no marriage expense, no expense for delivery of kids, no tension about his safety.

 

this is how girls can change it. ( i believe only girls can change it )

girls should start working, plan their marriage with clarity from age of 18, clearly communicate that she can take care of herself. demonstrate that she can be equal contributor in family errands like banking tasks, buying appliances, house transactions etc.., also be confident and strong to protect herself in most of the situations.

ila unte, entha biased parents ayina reality ki budge avvalsindhe, they will feel proud to have such a kid ( irrespective of girl or boy)

 

eroju you did the right thing. i am sure your father might have felt that you are more responsible than a son. 

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1 hour ago, Fish said:

Girl kid ni boy kid kante superior ga enduku chusthaaru Indian community lo....doesn’t girls love their parents equally 

Today I took my dad for vaccine, india lo vaccine dorakadam ledu so I went personally enquired lot of hospitals....finally I could get into one with 3 hours wait

my brother and his wife just sided off....but I felt the responsibility towards my parents....after coming home my dad said that he gave me dowry with pain in some conversation and I felt really sad 😞....my mom supports me a lot 

aada pillalu baaram anipisthe....he would have killed when I was born instead of feeling burden....I was never been treated equally when I was growing up either 

You are so lucky, mee nayana niku paisal, katnam ichi mari pendli chesindu...

Ade, look at your brother...paisal Katnam iyakunda pendli chesindu mee brother ki... 🙂

What I’m saying...Nuv etla susthe atlane kanipistayi..

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My 3 cousin sibilings and 1 actual sibiling 2 girls and 2  boy used to beat me.....  there is a twist to story those 2 sis used to lie and tell my father and their father I'm the one who started kicking them.. But my father and babai used to support them and told me useless fellow adapalli is lakshmi, and beat me 

Adyaksha tell me whether it comes under discrimination or not @Ellen @Amrita @Pitta @ZoomNaidu

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3 minutes ago, NiranjanGaaru said:

My 3 cousin sibilings 2 girls and 2  boy used to beat me.....  there is a twist to story those 2 sis used to lie and tell my father and their father I'm the one who started kicking them.. But my father and babai used to support them and told me useless fellow adapalli is lakshmi, and beat me 

Adyaksha tell me whether it comes under discrimination or not @Ellen @Amrita @Pitta @ZoomNaidu

nu chesindi peddaaa tappu... go and fall on their feet right now tenor.gif

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1 hour ago, Fish said:

Girl kid ni boy kid kante superior ga enduku chusthaaru Indian community lo....doesn’t girls love their parents equally 

Today I took my dad for vaccine, india lo vaccine dorakadam ledu so I went personally enquired lot of hospitals....finally I could get into one with 3 hours wait

my brother and his wife just sided off....but I felt the responsibility towards my parents....after coming home my dad said that he gave me dowry with pain in some conversation and I felt really sad 😞....my mom supports me a lot 

aada pillalu baaram anipisthe....he would have killed when I was born instead of feeling burden....I was never been treated equally when I was growing up either 

Ninna vakeelsaab chusi eroju emotional ayyi thread vesava fish ..Okappudu ala vundedi ippude girls kavalani prathi parents korukuntunnaru 

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33 minutes ago, NiranjanGaaru said:

My 3 cousin sibilings and 1 actual sibiling 2 girls and 2  boy used to beat me.....  there is a twist to story those 2 sis used to lie and tell my father and their father I'm the one who started kicking them.. But my father and babai used to support them and told me useless fellow adapalli is lakshmi, and beat me 

Adyaksha tell me whether it comes under discrimination or not @Ellen @Amrita @Pitta @ZoomNaidu

It is discrimination ra. Papam entha suffer ayyuntavo

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Just now, Ellen said:

It is discrimination ra. Papam entha suffer ayyuntavo

Big family lo ilantivi common ani lite tiskunevadni

Perigaka naa btech records valla chetha rayinchevadni... Hahah🤣🤣🤣🤣 

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