Why girl kid is always burden to parents

[NiranjanGaaru]

Just now, Pitta said:

Inkosari padipoyav

[Pitta]

2 minutes ago, NiranjanGaaru said:

Inkosari padipoyav

 

[LadiesTailor]

3 hours ago, Fish said:

Girl kid ni boy kid kante superior ga enduku chusthaaru Indian community lo....doesn’t girls love their parents equally 

Today I took my dad for vaccine, india lo vaccine dorakadam ledu so I went personally enquired lot of hospitals....finally I could get into one with 3 hours wait

my brother and his wife just sided off....but I felt the responsibility towards my parents....after coming home my dad said that he gave me dowry with pain in some conversation and I felt really sad 😞....my mom supports me a lot 

aada pillalu baaram anipisthe....he would have killed when I was born instead of feeling burden....I was never been treated equally when I was growing up either 

Hmm mee dad still living on olden days... girl kids are parents life insurance 😀

trust me, boys kante ekkuva girls ki opika and caring vuntundi main ga parents vishayam lo... 

maa tatha asti mottam maa mavayya laku rasadu.. chivariki maa amma chesindi anni panulu and he passed away in her hands.....

realize ayyadu but too late ga... Ee generation lo konchem maruthunnaru.... hopefully your father will know your value soon 

[covid1990]

4 hours ago, Pitta said:

ilanti step nu estha antene ostha ...lekapothe raanu  

[kumar4world]

I always wanted girl kids and I am lucky to have two girls. Some of my close relatives in India expressed huge surprise and pityness on us for not having a boy. For me all it matters is if I and my wife are happy or not with our own kids!

The older generation has a different perspective about girls vs boys both financial and culturally. Its very hard to change one's feeling or habits overnight unless it comes from within especially when majority of the society thinks the same way. So be strong and understand that people who think girls as a burden are just ignorant (may be still good but just ignorant) and cannot dare to follow their own conscience and cannot raise their thinking above the general society. You just be strong, cheerful and positive and eventually things will get better because clouds are temporarily and can't block the sun all the time, Sun has to shine!.

[linksys23]

16 hours ago, no_work_and_song said:

indian society lo girl kid comes with lot of expenses like marriage, delivery of her kids, physical safety responsibility and loss of income as she never used to work.

adhe son unte, he is expected to contribute income or work, no marriage expense, no expense for delivery of kids, no tension about his safety.

 

this is how girls can change it. ( i believe only girls can change it )

girls should start working, plan their marriage with clarity from age of 18, clearly communicate that she can take care of herself. demonstrate that she can be equal contributor in family errands like banking tasks, buying appliances, house transactions etc.., also be confident and strong to protect herself in most of the situations.

ila unte, entha biased parents ayina reality ki budge avvalsindhe, they will feel proud to have such a kid ( irrespective of girl or boy)

 

eroju you did the right thing. i am sure your father might have felt that you are more responsible than a son. 

excellent ga chepavu...thx for the answer

[Unityunity2]

On 4/9/2021 at 2:01 PM, Amrita said:

Agreed. 

Working ayite koncham prapancha gyanam telusutundi . Every woman should be independent i dont mean financially but emotionally too.  Lekapote e prapancham lo batakalemu.

Konchem e vishyam ma aavidaki cheppandi.. I used to communicate the same.. she always mis understand me.. so I used to stop it now. ..

[Amrita]

34 minutes ago, Unityunity2 said:

Konchem e vishyam ma aavidaki cheppandi.. I used to communicate the same.. she always mis understand me.. so I used to stop it now. ..

I wish I can but it will only make it worse . This feeling should come from within. Frustrate ayitaru own sibling cheppina. 

[Unityunity2]

57 minutes ago, Amrita said:

I wish I can but it will only make it worse . This feeling should come from within. Frustrate ayitaru own sibling cheppina. 

Exactly ..

 A inner feeling ela teppinchali am trying .. she born with gold spoon and does not know about our struggles.. But ultimately good human being .. understands me very well

[Raven_Rayes]

On 4/9/2021 at 10:19 PM, Fish said:

Girl kid ni boy kid kante superior ga enduku chusthaaru Indian community lo....doesn’t girls love their parents equally 

Today I took my dad for vaccine, india lo vaccine dorakadam ledu so I went personally enquired lot of hospitals....finally I could get into one with 3 hours wait

my brother and his wife just sided off....but I felt the responsibility towards my parents....after coming home my dad said that he gave me dowry with pain in some conversation and I felt really sad 😞....my mom supports me a lot 

aada pillalu baaram anipisthe....he would have killed when I was born instead of feeling burden....I was never been treated equally when I was growing up either 

heart touch chesav.

next janma nenu neeku dad avta. ninnu princess laaga chooskunta.

[kiraak_poradu]

On 4/11/2021 at 12:28 AM, Raven_Rayes said:

heart touch chesav.

next janma nenu neeku dad avta. ninnu princess laaga chooskunta.

Good kaka