Whats the difference here, age or looks?

[ChinnaBhasha]

 

 

[sugarrush]

Uncles creepy untaru 

[DummyVariable]

Looks ye. 

They don't really care about how old men are.

[Ellen]

This meme is  just to point double standards. Idi kuda I think pointing at looks a ...not age,  there is another picture where the other guy is a bit fat. The girl is ok with a cute guy flirting.. but when the heavier guy flirts she finds it creepy and calls it as sexual harassment. 

[modi_bhakth]

Incomplete picture, it needs two more scenarios

whats the response if young boy is poor and uncle is rich 

[Naaperushiva]

3 minutes ago, Ellen said:

This meme is  just to point double standards. Idi kuda I think pointing at looks a not age,  there is another picture where the other guy is a bit fat. The girl is ok with a cute guy flirting.. but when the heavier guy flirts she finds it creepy and calls it as sexual harassment. 

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[LuckyCharm]

4 minutes ago, modi_bhakth said:

Incomplete picture, it needs two more scenarios

whats the response if young boy is poor and uncle is rich 

Same applies to men too.

If women are judged based on choices they make when men obviously would do the same if given a chance.

This is heights of hypocrisy.

[DummyVariable]

[modi_bhakth]

1 minute ago, LuckyCharm said:

Same applies to men too.

If women are judged based on choices they make when men obviously would do the same if given a chance.

This is heights of hypocrisy.

Realistic gaa maatladukundam

ee uncle ni ee women looking handsome anadhu entha money vunna kaani

asalu gents andaaniki antha importance ivvaru

[Raven_Rayes]

its a dishonest meme to begin with.. painting the older guy as ugly.

the girl likes to be complimented by someone she's comfortable with.. someone her age group, someone she regularly interacts with etc.. not some lecherous old man trying to get into her pants. sorrrry..

If the girl is friends with the old man in question, then it wouldn't be a problem.

anyway, sexual harassment cases are not punishable crime. They are not even prosecutable. They are just basic standards for interaction at work place. If the girl is uncomfy with you, just stay away from complimenting her looks. Its just silly.

 

[Raven_Rayes]

5 minutes ago, LuckyCharm said:

Same applies to men too.

If women are judged based on choices they make when men obviously would do the same if given a chance.

This is heights of hypocrisy.

not hypocrisy. Its entitled behaviour.

most men before 2000, and even as late as 2010 got away with pretty much everything at work.

passing lewd comments, making sexist jokes etc.

the new reality where women push back with some organizing principle behind them will sound unacceptable to men. They will cry about it.

but that's the world. I love it. I love when men cry about not being able to act like assholes to whoever they want to.

[Ellen]

7 minutes ago, Raven_Rayes said:

its a dishonest meme to begin with.. painting the older guy as ugly.

the girl likes to be complimented by someone she's comfortable with.. someone her age group, someone she regularly interacts with etc.. not some lecherous old man trying to get into her pants. sorrrry..

If the girl is friends with the old man in question, then it wouldn't be a problem.

anyway, sexual harassment cases are not punishable crime. They are not even prosecutable. They are just basic standards of interaction at work place. If the girl is uncomfy with you, just stay away from complimenting her looks. Its just silly.

 

Dude. Neither case it is sexual harassment.Compliment ki comfort toni sambandam emundi? This is what constitutes as sexual harassment:

he following list is not exhaustive, but it should help to identify what may be sexual and gender-based harassment:

• demanding hugs^[18]
• invading personal space^[19]
• unnecessary physical contact,^[20] including unwanted touching,^[21] etc.
• derogatory language and/or comments toward women^[22] (or men, depending on the circumstances), sex-specific derogatory names^[23]
• leering^[24] or inappropriate staring
• gender-related comment about a person’s physical characteristics or mannerisms^[25]
• comments or conduct relating to a person’s perceived non-conformity with a sex-role stereotype^[26]
• displaying or circulating pornography,^[27] sexual pictures or cartoons,^[28] sexually explicit graffiti,^[29] or other sexual images (including online)
• sexual jokes, including circulating written sexual jokes (e.g. by e-mail)^[30]
• rough and vulgar humour or language related to gender
• sexual or gender-related comment or conduct used to bully a person
• spreading sexual rumours (including online)^[31]
• suggestive or offensive remarks or innuendo about members of a specific gender
• propositions of physical intimacy
• gender-related verbal abuse, threats, or taunting
• bragging about sexual prowess
• demanding dates or sexual favours
• questions or discussions about sexual activities
• requiring an employee to dress in a sexualized or gender-specific way^[32]
• paternalistic behaviour based on gender which a person feels undermines their status or position of responsibility
• threats to penalize or otherwise punish a person who refuses to comply with sexual advances (known as reprisal).

 

[Raven_Rayes]

3 minutes ago, Ellen said:

Dude. Neither case it is sexual harassment.Compliment ki comfort toni sambandam emundi? This is what constitutes as sexual harassment:

he following list is not exhaustive, but it should help to identify what may be sexual and gender-based harassment:

• demanding hugs^[18]
• invading personal space^[19]
• unnecessary physical contact,^[20] including unwanted touching,^[21] etc.
• derogatory language and/or comments toward women^[22] (or men, depending on the circumstances), sex-specific derogatory names^[23]
• leering^[24] or inappropriate staring
• gender-related comment about a person’s physical characteristics or mannerisms^[25]
• comments or conduct relating to a person’s perceived non-conformity with a sex-role stereotype^[26]
• displaying or circulating pornography,^[27] sexual pictures or cartoons,^[28] sexually explicit graffiti,^[29] or other sexual images (including online)
• sexual jokes, including circulating written sexual jokes (e.g. by e-mail)^[30]
• rough and vulgar humour or language related to gender
• sexual or gender-related comment or conduct used to bully a person
• spreading sexual rumours (including online)^[31]
• suggestive or offensive remarks or innuendo about members of a specific gender
• propositions of physical intimacy
• gender-related verbal abuse, threats, or taunting
• bragging about sexual prowess
• demanding dates or sexual favours
• questions or discussions about sexual activities
• requiring an employee to dress in a sexualized or gender-specific way^[32]
• paternalistic behaviour based on gender which a person feels undermines their status or position of responsibility
• threats to penalize or otherwise punish a person who refuses to comply with sexual advances (known as reprisal).

 

mari aa meme enti? dishonest aey kadha.

compliment cheyyalsina avasaram enti, if you are not friends with a person asalu? whether its a girl or guy.. simple manners.

[LuckyCharm]

12 minutes ago, modi_bhakth said:

Realistic gaa maatladukundam

ee uncle ni ee women looking handsome anadhu entha money vunna kaani

asalu gents andaaniki antha importance ivvaru

nuv em matladuthunnavo ardham avvaledhu.

Two contradicting statements. 

[Raven_Rayes]

2 minutes ago, LuckyCharm said:

nuv em matladuthunnavo ardham avvaledhu.

Two contradicting statements. 

he saying girls don't praise men's good looks anta. they don't care about men's good looks anta.