PAIN OF EARLY MARRIAGE

[toranam]

7 minutes ago, Sarvapindi said:

early marriage seskovalante raasipetti undali...mee mohalmanda..back muppai achinanka seskuni evani aathulu feekutar..

Yah true baa …Evaranna business people or well settled guys celebrities are lucky ppl 

[AppatloBhutto]

40 minutes ago, Rushabhi said:

Avuna? Egg quality decreases after 35 and sperm quality decreases after 40. Don’t say so And so gave birth in 50s. It depends on genetics, health, fertility treatments which involves a lot of commitment and money and multiple other things. Araam ga 20s enjoy chesi slow ga early to mid 30s lo pelli chesukoni pillala kosam try chestham ante you maybe in for a rude shock. Pelli chesukomu ante edaina cheyochu. 
 

Pelli chesukuntam pillalu kanam anna edaina cheyochu.But once chesukunnaka majority ki pillalu kanaali anukovatam natural instinct. No matter what you think in your 20s.  Konni maatalu paatha chintakaya pachadi laa undochu but they come from generations of experience. 

while many things come from generations of experience, in current generation one must develop the sense of identifying stupidity on the name of experience of previous generation, and avoid them passing on to next gen.

 dont marry for kids. marry if you like the partnership. if kids is the primary motive, you know, you dont really have to 'marry'. marriage is signing on the contract paper. 

previous generation there were no entertainment sources, no technology to divert attention, etc etc., all they had is a partner , and boom you have kids , ofcourse at early age. these days u don't rely on partner for entertainment. you need partner for a true companionship. please, please don't marry for kids sake. dont normalize that marriage is complete only when u have (healthy) kids, as if not there is no meaning to life at all without marriage and kids ....just get out of these bs. 

nobody has the obligation to produce offspring. ur life is meaningful without offspring too. 

first u live, and then think of offspring if need be. don't compromise on your life hoping of  generating healthy offspring. 

 

 

[Mr Mirchi]

Pain of late marriage inka noppi

[k2s]

4 hours ago, griz said:

Have always been thinking of a good life if I work my ass off, and studied hard. Scored well and finally, out of thin air.

This feeling of startups kicked in. Neglected opportunities for whom I thought would be the. Married her, and here I am stuck under a roof for the sake of society to believe in, that we are a happy family.

No one is bothered the least to hear the male agony, and I have to compromise only to make the hands work, eyes watch and get back up immediately to where I was left.

Depressed, could not control myself because of never ending thoughts as to what the ffuck did I do with my life, and at times, praising myself for finding the best ways to ruin my life in the name of marriage.

Neither do I have the capacity to end life, and neither to live it. Just a living beast, who is now full on work and coding the next big thing at least for me.

Fellas,

Don't marry at a younger age. You have studied, worked and give yourselves some time. Go on dates and learn how to talk to girls.

Have some confidence in life.

Or else, you will end up in a path that I have taken to hell, which I would not let even my enemies or people I don't like, to follow along either.

Marriage is hell, if you don't know where you are getting into. Don't do it for the sake of something. Marry one only when you are physically and emotionally attached to, at least have a confidence in.

And don't end up with babies for the sake of someone. Don't ruin the little buds life. Stay safe.

Probably, my last one after giving out what I can. Taking some leave only to find my life that I have probably lost, or perhaps, I did. No interest in anything than driving to places alone, and I am on a path to take off to places where I presume can find peace.

The only wish I have for you, is don't fall in this trap unless you are so desperate to taste the waters and then realize that you should not have been.

That said, not all marriages end up being an experience like this. Only the ones, where your well being gets dominated with someone else's, driven and prioritized by your own intellect. So go for it, if it adds value to you. Not for her, some x or another why.

 

 

thanks for valuable information bro.. !

[anna_gattiga_eyyi]

3 hours ago, Rushabhi said:

Nenu vinna oka case, married young and has two kids. Eppudu kooda he thinks he missed out on something.  He left his family in India and decided to hit up on girls here in USA. No girls are interested since he is married and the cycle continues. He goes out on trips with friends and tries very hard to make up for what he missed.

On the other hand there are multiple families who decided to enjoy their youth and married late. Due to that, infertility issues, settling late in life and undue stress. They enjoy their youth and have to slog well past their prime due to having kids late. 
 

Anduke e vayasu lo jaragalsindi aa vayasu lo jaragali anedhi 
 

Akada male tesi female petuu ne story e ga 😁😁

[Thokkalee]

You need to have the right family and circle to get married early… many times parents don’t hurry the kids enough to find a good match for them… so they end up getting married in their 30’s.. 

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5 hours ago, anna_gattiga_eyyi said:

Akada male tesi female petuu ne story e ga 😁😁

female badhulu my friend ani kadha pettali...

[csrcsr]

Tondaraga kids kanandi nuvu young unapaude kids settle aipotaru 

50 kagane retire aipotavu bro 

buy a nice harley you and your wife can do road trips on highway 1, beer tagukuntu , cancun vacation chesth

past gurinchi think cheyaku lot of positives will happen to you cheer up my boy