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na tammuniki last year pendli ayindi love marriage. my sister in law is not allowing him to contact my parents. adi kakunda chinna vishayaniki doubt chestundi, ekadiki vellina live location ivvali ani adugutundi, yekkaiki vellina call answer cheyyaka pothe na tammudi friends wives and sisters ki link pedutundi. ma parents ni galeez matalu antundi.... my parents were in mid 60s, ee age lo vallu pani chesukoni tinalera antundi..ikkada cheppaleni buthulu tidutundi, my father is a farmer, polam ammi ma tammudiki ms chepincharu. taruvatha kavulu ki teesukoni farming chese vallu. ippudu age valana kastam avutundi anduke farming aapesaru.

ippudu malli vallani vyavasayam chesuko mantundi, me and my husband are supporting my parents from last 7 years. 2nd wave lo prents ki covid vachina time lo kuda call cheya nivvaledu. vallu chachipovali antundi. ma amma pachi panulu chesukoni moguduni poshinchukovachu ga antundi. mari intha la vuntara, na tammudu suicide chesukune alochalanalu vastunnai ante, one month back vadini valla wife ni intiki pilichi ma daggare vunchamu.. akada chala sardi cheppamu. koncham control ayyindi ammai. 

malli last one week nunchi edo oka laga anumanistundi, pratidaniki godava chestundi... ma maradalu valla akka divorce, pratidaniki tanu kalaga jesukuntundi, abbailu inthe adi idi ani.

ma tammudu tappu cheste vadu chesina tappu enti naku cheppandi, cheppalendi ithe ma husband ki cheppandi ani adiganu. vadu natho ma parents tho matladakudadu, valla wife cheppinatlu vinali and salary lo rents and other stuff kakunda, migitavi antha divorce sister account lo veyyali anta. so that she will build their future antundi. Sare kada ani oka 6 months ala vallu cheppinatle tana account lo veyinchamu money, ninna night call chala kaharchu pettamu pelli ki, ee six months pampinavi kuda saripoledu inka two months lo anni oka lekka ki vastai antunnaru. 

recent ga maku telisindi enti ante, ma sister ni law valla sister divorce taruvatha kuda tana ex tho tiruguthu vundi and money antha taanaki kharchu pedutundi ani. recent ga vadiki kotta car konipinchindi anta. 

ma brother valla in laws kuda valla daughters ne support chestunnaru. edina ante dowry harassment case file chespitam antunnaru. emi cheyyalo teliyadam ledu.

ee vishayam valla na personal life kuda ibbandi avutundi.

oka kid parents tho mataldadam tappa, ma parents ki ayye kharchulu anni nene chusukuntunna, kaneesam matladanivvadam ledu parents tho na brother ni.

edina idea vunte cheppandi. as a mom naku divorce lanti thoughts ante ne kastam, emi cheyyalo teliydam ledu

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15 minutes ago, SahitiD said:

na tammuniki last year pendli ayindi love marriage. my sister in law is not allowing him to contact my parents. adi kakunda chinna vishayaniki doubt chestundi, ekadiki vellina live location ivvali ani adugutundi, yekkaiki vellina call answer cheyyaka pothe na tammudi friends wives and sisters ki link pedutundi. ma parents ni galeez matalu antundi.... my parents were in mid 60s, ee age lo vallu pani chesukoni tinalera antundi..ikkada cheppaleni buthulu tidutundi, my father is a farmer, polam ammi ma tammudiki ms chepincharu. taruvatha kavulu ki teesukoni farming chese vallu. ippudu age valana kastam avutundi anduke farming aapesaru.

ippudu malli vallani vyavasayam chesuko mantundi, me and my husband are supporting my parents from last 7 years. 2nd wave lo prents ki covid vachina time lo kuda call cheya nivvaledu. vallu chachipovali antundi. ma amma pachi panulu chesukoni moguduni poshinchukovachu ga antundi. mari intha la vuntara, na tammudu suicide chesukune alochalanalu vastunnai ante, one month back vadini valla wife ni intiki pilichi ma daggare vunchamu.. akada chala sardi cheppamu. koncham control ayyindi ammai. 

malli last one week nunchi edo oka laga anumanistundi, pratidaniki godava chestundi... ma maradalu valla akka divorce, pratidaniki tanu kalaga jesukuntundi, abbailu inthe adi idi ani.

ma tammudu tappu cheste vadu chesina tappu enti naku cheppandi, cheppalendi ithe ma husband ki cheppandi ani adiganu. vadu natho ma parents tho matladakudadu, valla wife cheppinatlu vinali and salary lo rents and other stuff kakunda, migitavi antha divorce sister account lo veyyali anta. so that she will build their future antundi. Sare kada ani oka 6 months ala vallu cheppinatle tana account lo veyinchamu money, ninna night call chala kaharchu pettamu pelli ki, ee six months pampinavi kuda saripoledu inka two months lo anni oka lekka ki vastai antunnaru. 

recent ga maku telisindi enti ante, ma sister ni law valla sister divorce taruvatha kuda tana ex tho tiruguthu vundi and money antha taanaki kharchu pedutundi ani. recent ga vadiki kotta car konipinchindi anta. 

ma brother valla in laws kuda valla daughters ne support chestunnaru. edina ante dowry harassment case file chespitam antunnaru. emi cheyyalo teliyadam ledu.

ee vishayam valla na personal life kuda ibbandi avutundi.

oka kid parents tho mataldadam tappa, ma parents ki ayye kharchulu anni nene chusukuntunna, kaneesam matladanivvadam ledu parents tho na brother ni.

edina idea vunte cheppandi. as a mom naku divorce lanti thoughts ante ne kastam, emi cheyyalo teliydam ledu

fake pakodi story ayithe em cheyyalem - neelo manchi writing talent undhi ani saripettukovadam thappa.

nijame ayithe the options that I can think of are

1) Andaru (including Maradalu parents etc.) koochuni aaa Maradalu ki hitha bodha cheyyandi.  Nayano bhayano line ki theesuku randi

2) Vinaledu ante come to an agreement..they will live separately from parents but should take some responsibility to take care of parents (send monthly money etc.).  Some times dooramgaa untene relations nilabadathayi.

3) If nothing works and brother is willing, ask him to divorce her.

 

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17 minutes ago, AndhraneedSCS said:

Your brother is either a dummy or he don't want to take care of your parents.

+1 inka enduku untunnadu .. divorce ivbakunda

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Idhi nijam ayithey...

If im in such situation...maamollga torture cheesy vaadni kaadhu irrespective of what they does to me...

Parents valalney manali ee life...aa parents tho maatladodhu anataaniki no one has right..

Family responsibilities andaru share chesukovaali...not just husband or wife..

Ilaanti chetha ...exhaustive relationships, friendships kantey...better be alone and liberated...

Kondaru friends la kooda itla misuse cheyaali ani chesthaadu mana humility ni and positive approach ni...fruckkk them aallll

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53 minutes ago, SahitiD said:

na tammuniki last year pendli ayindi love marriage. my sister in law is not allowing him to contact my parents. adi kakunda chinna vishayaniki doubt chestundi, ekadiki vellina live location ivvali ani adugutundi, yekkaiki vellina call answer cheyyaka pothe na tammudi friends wives and sisters ki link pedutundi. ma parents ni galeez matalu antundi.... my parents were in mid 60s, ee age lo vallu pani chesukoni tinalera antundi..ikkada cheppaleni buthulu tidutundi, my father is a farmer, polam ammi ma tammudiki ms chepincharu. taruvatha kavulu ki teesukoni farming chese vallu. ippudu age valana kastam avutundi anduke farming aapesaru.

ippudu malli vallani vyavasayam chesuko mantundi, me and my husband are supporting my parents from last 7 years. 2nd wave lo prents ki covid vachina time lo kuda call cheya nivvaledu. vallu chachipovali antundi. ma amma pachi panulu chesukoni moguduni poshinchukovachu ga antundi. mari intha la vuntara, na tammudu suicide chesukune alochalanalu vastunnai ante, one month back vadini valla wife ni intiki pilichi ma daggare vunchamu.. akada chala sardi cheppamu. koncham control ayyindi ammai. 

malli last one week nunchi edo oka laga anumanistundi, pratidaniki godava chestundi... ma maradalu valla akka divorce, pratidaniki tanu kalaga jesukuntundi, abbailu inthe adi idi ani.

ma tammudu tappu cheste vadu chesina tappu enti naku cheppandi, cheppalendi ithe ma husband ki cheppandi ani adiganu. vadu natho ma parents tho matladakudadu, valla wife cheppinatlu vinali and salary lo rents and other stuff kakunda, migitavi antha divorce sister account lo veyyali anta. so that she will build their future antundi. Sare kada ani oka 6 months ala vallu cheppinatle tana account lo veyinchamu money, ninna night call chala kaharchu pettamu pelli ki, ee six months pampinavi kuda saripoledu inka two months lo anni oka lekka ki vastai antunnaru. 

recent ga maku telisindi enti ante, ma sister ni law valla sister divorce taruvatha kuda tana ex tho tiruguthu vundi and money antha taanaki kharchu pedutundi ani. recent ga vadiki kotta car konipinchindi anta. 

ma brother valla in laws kuda valla daughters ne support chestunnaru. edina ante dowry harassment case file chespitam antunnaru. emi cheyyalo teliyadam ledu.

ee vishayam valla na personal life kuda ibbandi avutundi.

oka kid parents tho mataldadam tappa, ma parents ki ayye kharchulu anni nene chusukuntunna, kaneesam matladanivvadam ledu parents tho na brother ni.

edina idea vunte cheppandi. as a mom naku divorce lanti thoughts ante ne kastam, emi cheyyalo teliydam ledu

ne brother gadu jaffa gadu ayithay nuvu em pikuthavu .. muskoni kurcho antay

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55 minutes ago, SahitiD said:

na tammuniki last year pendli ayindi love marriage. my sister in law is not allowing him to contact my parents. adi kakunda chinna vishayaniki doubt chestundi, ekadiki vellina live location ivvali ani adugutundi, yekkaiki vellina call answer cheyyaka pothe na tammudi friends wives and sisters ki link pedutundi. ma parents ni galeez matalu antundi.... my parents were in mid 60s, ee age lo vallu pani chesukoni tinalera antundi..ikkada cheppaleni buthulu tidutundi, my father is a farmer, polam ammi ma tammudiki ms chepincharu. taruvatha kavulu ki teesukoni farming chese vallu. ippudu age valana kastam avutundi anduke farming aapesaru.

ippudu malli vallani vyavasayam chesuko mantundi, me and my husband are supporting my parents from last 7 years. 2nd wave lo prents ki covid vachina time lo kuda call cheya nivvaledu. vallu chachipovali antundi. ma amma pachi panulu chesukoni moguduni poshinchukovachu ga antundi. mari intha la vuntara, na tammudu suicide chesukune alochalanalu vastunnai ante, one month back vadini valla wife ni intiki pilichi ma daggare vunchamu.. akada chala sardi cheppamu. koncham control ayyindi ammai. 

malli last one week nunchi edo oka laga anumanistundi, pratidaniki godava chestundi... ma maradalu valla akka divorce, pratidaniki tanu kalaga jesukuntundi, abbailu inthe adi idi ani.

ma tammudu tappu cheste vadu chesina tappu enti naku cheppandi, cheppalendi ithe ma husband ki cheppandi ani adiganu. vadu natho ma parents tho matladakudadu, valla wife cheppinatlu vinali and salary lo rents and other stuff kakunda, migitavi antha divorce sister account lo veyyali anta. so that she will build their future antundi. Sare kada ani oka 6 months ala vallu cheppinatle tana account lo veyinchamu money, ninna night call chala kaharchu pettamu pelli ki, ee six months pampinavi kuda saripoledu inka two months lo anni oka lekka ki vastai antunnaru. 

recent ga maku telisindi enti ante, ma sister ni law valla sister divorce taruvatha kuda tana ex tho tiruguthu vundi and money antha taanaki kharchu pedutundi ani. recent ga vadiki kotta car konipinchindi anta. 

ma brother valla in laws kuda valla daughters ne support chestunnaru. edina ante dowry harassment case file chespitam antunnaru. emi cheyyalo teliyadam ledu.

ee vishayam valla na personal life kuda ibbandi avutundi.

oka kid parents tho mataldadam tappa, ma parents ki ayye kharchulu anni nene chusukuntunna, kaneesam matladanivvadam ledu parents tho na brother ni.

edina idea vunte cheppandi. as a mom naku divorce lanti thoughts ante ne kastam, emi cheyyalo teliydam ledu

Tammudu utha neeldispranam lekka unadu ga. Sarle story nijamithey me thammudini etla adengiligan lekka undakunda. Cc cameras arrange cheyamani cheppu and have him record her anything against your parents. Tarvthe edhina. 

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Ask your brother to collect some data proving he never asked for dowry and that he transferred money to that divorced randi. Tell him to live few more months with his wife and gather all these info and then file for a divorce. 

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28 minutes ago, mettastar said:

+1 inka enduku untunnadu .. divorce ivbakunda

+1 even if 10% of what she said was true, divorce echi bayatapadevadu. Enduku antha kastapadi undali thanatho. 

@SahitiDmundu mee thammudini adugu enduku intha penta techav intloki and enduku pattukuni unnav ani. mari thedaga unandu

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