my sister in law is abusing my parents

[AverageDesiGuy]

You can't do anything, If you can just continue supporting your parents. Your brother needs to realize the issue and act.

I hope everything works out for you and your family!

[Tomb__ayya]

14 minutes ago, uzaaR said:

Db lo badhalu cheppukunte ala? Make friendship with your sister-in-law and try to bring her to track

[AppatloBhutto]

1 hour ago, SahitiD said:

na tammuniki last year pendli ayindi love marriage. my sister in law is not allowing him to contact my parents. adi kakunda chinna vishayaniki doubt chestundi, ekadiki vellina live location ivvali ani adugutundi, yekkaiki vellina call answer cheyyaka pothe na tammudi friends wives and sisters ki link pedutundi. ma parents ni galeez matalu antundi.... my parents were in mid 60s, ee age lo vallu pani chesukoni tinalera antundi..ikkada cheppaleni buthulu tidutundi, my father is a farmer, polam ammi ma tammudiki ms chepincharu. taruvatha kavulu ki teesukoni farming chese vallu. ippudu age valana kastam avutundi anduke farming aapesaru.

ippudu malli vallani vyavasayam chesuko mantundi, me and my husband are supporting my parents from last 7 years. 2nd wave lo prents ki covid vachina time lo kuda call cheya nivvaledu. vallu chachipovali antundi. ma amma pachi panulu chesukoni moguduni poshinchukovachu ga antundi. mari intha la vuntara, na tammudu suicide chesukune alochalanalu vastunnai ante, one month back vadini valla wife ni intiki pilichi ma daggare vunchamu.. akada chala sardi cheppamu. koncham control ayyindi ammai. 

malli last one week nunchi edo oka laga anumanistundi, pratidaniki godava chestundi... ma maradalu valla akka divorce, pratidaniki tanu kalaga jesukuntundi, abbailu inthe adi idi ani.

ma tammudu tappu cheste vadu chesina tappu enti naku cheppandi, cheppalendi ithe ma husband ki cheppandi ani adiganu. vadu natho ma parents tho matladakudadu, valla wife cheppinatlu vinali and salary lo rents and other stuff kakunda, migitavi antha divorce sister account lo veyyali anta. so that she will build their future antundi. Sare kada ani oka 6 months ala vallu cheppinatle tana account lo veyinchamu money, ninna night call chala kaharchu pettamu pelli ki, ee six months pampinavi kuda saripoledu inka two months lo anni oka lekka ki vastai antunnaru. 

recent ga maku telisindi enti ante, ma sister ni law valla sister divorce taruvatha kuda tana ex tho tiruguthu vundi and money antha taanaki kharchu pedutundi ani. recent ga vadiki kotta car konipinchindi anta. 

ma brother valla in laws kuda valla daughters ne support chestunnaru. edina ante dowry harassment case file chespitam antunnaru. emi cheyyalo teliyadam ledu.

ee vishayam valla na personal life kuda ibbandi avutundi.

oka kid parents tho mataldadam tappa, ma parents ki ayye kharchulu anni nene chusukuntunna, kaneesam matladanivvadam ledu parents tho na brother ni.

edina idea vunte cheppandi. as a mom naku divorce lanti thoughts ante ne kastam, emi cheyyalo teliydam ledu

first of all, im sor ry for u guys. 

your bro n wife most likely going go be separated in future (sorr y to say this).

assume marriage is already dead, start collecting evidences (that can help u prove u r not guilty) to save ur family members. 

it will only get tougher (legally) from now on for ur bro, parents n even ur family too...

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for all the unmarried guys watching this forum, LEARN. learn before its too late. once ur wife turns into a beeech, it will cost u a life term. 

 

[uzaaR]

The reason she is behaving like that is coz she is not welcomed into your family! Welcome her and treat her as your sibling…

hope there won’t be much age difference between u both, be friend to her… u won’t see change in her  overnight, but will put her on the right track..share things with her..

don’t be as olden age Bossy Vodhina (adapaduchu katnam all that crap)..

[Battu123]

1 hour ago, NiranjanGaaru said:

@Battu123 saati sthri ki suggestion ivu

Em chebutam valla thammudu pedda pumka gadila vunnadu sahitiD deggaralo pandagalu emanna vunte thammudiki kotha cheera nalugu gajulu konivvu mangalasutram important

[ranku_mogudu]

1) You cannot file a divorce unless its 1 year of marriage.

2) Ask your brother to collect evidences of her harassment like messages,mails, voice recording the argument or her demand,his in laws talks every thing just record separately , proof of sending money to his SIL bank statements.

3) Your discussion also start recording.

 

once you have enough proofs, ask your brother to find a complaint in police for mental harassment and approach a lawyer.

MCD(Mutual consent Divorce) file cheyyamanu...  They may file counter petition on Harassment..kaani you can contest it with the above proof's. Even though the law is favor of women ani anna..they see who is victim and mottikayalu that girl

 

Finally when it comes to MCD, mediate that you cover each others pelli karchulu and ask the extra money sent to his SIL.

 

but already aa ammayi akka divorce kabatti understand what happened in her case, why divorce, what was the settlement @ court etc..  its a very dangerous thin line 

 

[godfather03]

5 minutes ago, ranku_mogudu said:

1) You cannot file a divorce unless its 1 year of marriage.

2) Ask your brother to collect evidences of her harassment like messages,mails, voice recording the argument or her demand,his in laws talks every thing just record separately , proof of sending money to his SIL bank statements.

3) Your discussion also start recording.

 

once you have enough proofs, ask your brother to find a complaint in police for mental harassment and approach a lawyer.

MCD(Mutual consent Divorce) file cheyyamanu...  They may file counter petition on Harassment..kaani you can contest it with the above proof's. Even though the law is favor of women ani anna..they see who is victim and mottikayalu that girl

 

Finally when it comes to MCD, mediate that you cover each others pelli karchulu and ask the extra money sent to his SIL.

 

but already aa ammayi akka divorce kabatti understand what happened in her case, why divorce, what was the settlement @ court etc..  its a very dangerous thin line 

 

 

1 hour ago, SahitiD said:

na tammuniki last year pendli ayindi love marriage. my sister in law is not allowing him to contact my parents. adi kakunda chinna vishayaniki doubt chestundi, ekadiki vellina live location ivvali ani adugutundi, yekkaiki vellina call answer cheyyaka pothe na tammudi friends wives and sisters ki link pedutundi. ma parents ni galeez matalu antundi.... my parents were in mid 60s, ee age lo vallu pani chesukoni tinalera antundi..ikkada cheppaleni buthulu tidutundi, my father is a farmer, polam ammi ma tammudiki ms chepincharu. taruvatha kavulu ki teesukoni farming chese vallu. ippudu age valana kastam avutundi anduke farming aapesaru.

ippudu malli vallani vyavasayam chesuko mantundi, me and my husband are supporting my parents from last 7 years. 2nd wave lo prents ki covid vachina time lo kuda call cheya nivvaledu. vallu chachipovali antundi. ma amma pachi panulu chesukoni moguduni poshinchukovachu ga antundi. mari intha la vuntara, na tammudu suicide chesukune alochalanalu vastunnai ante, one month back vadini valla wife ni intiki pilichi ma daggare vunchamu.. akada chala sardi cheppamu. koncham control ayyindi ammai. 

malli last one week nunchi edo oka laga anumanistundi, pratidaniki godava chestundi... ma maradalu valla akka divorce, pratidaniki tanu kalaga jesukuntundi, abbailu inthe adi idi ani.

ma tammudu tappu cheste vadu chesina tappu enti naku cheppandi, cheppalendi ithe ma husband ki cheppandi ani adiganu. vadu natho ma parents tho matladakudadu, valla wife cheppinatlu vinali and salary lo rents and other stuff kakunda, migitavi antha divorce sister account lo veyyali anta. so that she will build their future antundi. Sare kada ani oka 6 months ala vallu cheppinatle tana account lo veyinchamu money, ninna night call chala kaharchu pettamu pelli ki, ee six months pampinavi kuda saripoledu inka two months lo anni oka lekka ki vastai antunnaru. 

recent ga maku telisindi enti ante, ma sister ni law valla sister divorce taruvatha kuda tana ex tho tiruguthu vundi and money antha taanaki kharchu pedutundi ani. recent ga vadiki kotta car konipinchindi anta. 

ma brother valla in laws kuda valla daughters ne support chestunnaru. edina ante dowry harassment case file chespitam antunnaru. emi cheyyalo teliyadam ledu.

ee vishayam valla na personal life kuda ibbandi avutundi.

oka kid parents tho mataldadam tappa, ma parents ki ayye kharchulu anni nene chusukuntunna, kaneesam matladanivvadam ledu parents tho na brother ni.

edina idea vunte cheppandi. as a mom naku divorce lanti thoughts ante ne kastam, emi cheyyalo teliydam ledu

Is your brother in India or US?

Oka vela vallu US lo unte...Ikkada divorce ki file chesthe India lo Harrasment case ga ela proceed ayitharo teledu..India lo oka telisina lawyer tho maatladukovadam better...

[Joker_007]

2 hours ago, SahitiD said:

na tammuniki last year pendli ayindi love marriage. my sister in law is not allowing him to contact my parents. adi kakunda chinna vishayaniki doubt chestundi, ekadiki vellina live location ivvali ani adugutundi, yekkaiki vellina call answer cheyyaka pothe na tammudi friends wives and sisters ki link pedutundi. ma parents ni galeez matalu antundi.... my parents were in mid 60s, ee age lo vallu pani chesukoni tinalera antundi..ikkada cheppaleni buthulu tidutundi, my father is a farmer, polam ammi ma tammudiki ms chepincharu. taruvatha kavulu ki teesukoni farming chese vallu. ippudu age valana kastam avutundi anduke farming aapesaru.

ippudu malli vallani vyavasayam chesuko mantundi, me and my husband are supporting my parents from last 7 years. 2nd wave lo prents ki covid vachina time lo kuda call cheya nivvaledu. vallu chachipovali antundi. ma amma pachi panulu chesukoni moguduni poshinchukovachu ga antundi. mari intha la vuntara, na tammudu suicide chesukune alochalanalu vastunnai ante, one month back vadini valla wife ni intiki pilichi ma daggare vunchamu.. akada chala sardi cheppamu. koncham control ayyindi ammai. 

malli last one week nunchi edo oka laga anumanistundi, pratidaniki godava chestundi... ma maradalu valla akka divorce, pratidaniki tanu kalaga jesukuntundi, abbailu inthe adi idi ani.

ma tammudu tappu cheste vadu chesina tappu enti naku cheppandi, cheppalendi ithe ma husband ki cheppandi ani adiganu. vadu natho ma parents tho matladakudadu, valla wife cheppinatlu vinali and salary lo rents and other stuff kakunda, migitavi antha divorce sister account lo veyyali anta. so that she will build their future antundi. Sare kada ani oka 6 months ala vallu cheppinatle tana account lo veyinchamu money, ninna night call chala kaharchu pettamu pelli ki, ee six months pampinavi kuda saripoledu inka two months lo anni oka lekka ki vastai antunnaru. 

recent ga maku telisindi enti ante, ma sister ni law valla sister divorce taruvatha kuda tana ex tho tiruguthu vundi and money antha taanaki kharchu pedutundi ani. recent ga vadiki kotta car konipinchindi anta. 

ma brother valla in laws kuda valla daughters ne support chestunnaru. edina ante dowry harassment case file chespitam antunnaru. emi cheyyalo teliyadam ledu.

ee vishayam valla na personal life kuda ibbandi avutundi.

oka kid parents tho mataldadam tappa, ma parents ki ayye kharchulu anni nene chusukuntunna, kaneesam matladanivvadam ledu parents tho na brother ni.

edina idea vunte cheppandi. as a mom naku divorce lanti thoughts ante ne kastam, emi cheyyalo teliydam ledu

Looks like she has serious psychological problems..

Your parents can file case harrassment against her, seeking counselling or evaluation from a psychologist. this is most important otherwise this will impact your brother and your parents as well... Old people also have rights too...

[Amy99]

Inthamandhi inni comments pedthunnaru, last lo sahithi vachi.. April fool anali anta... 

[JogipetSrikanth]

me brother ye brand gaajulu vaadatadu 

[SahitiD]

1 hour ago, Amy99 said:

Konchem realistic ga rayadam nerchukovali thalli... That is what I am telling. 

clear ga matter teliyakunda oka conclusionki ravadam correct kadu.. hope you understand

[JogipetSrikanth]

in-laws meda aa range lo revolt avvalante atu side kuda edo jarige untundi.. em sesar mee parents?

[SahitiD]

1 hour ago, AndhraneedSCS said:

Your brother is either a dummy or he don't want to take care of your parents.

just meku tochinatlu meeru conclusion ki ravadam correct kadu. parents ni take care cheyalanu anukune vadu wife cheppindi antha vinesi vadileyyachu. suicide attempt cheyadu

[Hydrockers]

Mi parents ni poi police station lo or collector office lo complaint ivvamanu ma koduku Pattinchukotle

Asti motam nakinchesadu ani 

Darlo ki enduku raro chudham

@ranku_mogudu anna oka sari aa colector ki or SP ki phone chesi cheppu

[SahitiD]

9 minutes ago, Joker_007 said:

Looks like she has serious psychological problems..

Your parents can file case harrassment against her, seeking counselling or evaluation from a psychologist. this is most important otherwise this will impact your brother and your parents as well... Old people also have rights too...

recent ga ma parents ki covid vachindi, chala sick ayyaru, aa time lo kuda chala trouble chesindi valla divorce sister...