my sister in law is abusing my parents

[ranku_mogudu]

44 minutes ago, jawaani_jaaneman said:

Madhyalo…poradi parents polam ammi MS sadipichinaru ani vunde…

It’s all about money..control the flow of money and self inflict the damage..job resign, get into immigration troubles, etc. 

Yeah kaka Thammudu chesadu..

 

its about money and her SIL's sister is spinning the game.

 

US aithey inka easy.. Since the girl is aggressive, oka mutual friend ni set chesi.. aa ammayi tho man handle chesey dakha  argument techi...911 call chesude..domestic violence and abuse..Khel katham.

 

India lo valla In laws nearest police station ento teluskuni..aa PS ki call chesi chepthey they will give email address and can provide an anticipatory complain that conspiracy nadusthundhi her in laws are blackmailing him ..but he is one getting Domestic abuse here  and in laws ki chepthey they are blackmailing me with this ani.

 

khel katham.

[pakeer_saab]

2 minutes ago, ranku_mogudu said:

Yeah kaka Thammudu chesadu..

 

its about money and her SIL's sister is spinning the game.

 

US aithey inka easy.. Since the girl is aggressive, oka mutual friend ni set chesi.. aa ammayi tho man handle chesey dakha  argument techi...911 call chesude..domestic violence and abuse..Khel katham.

 

India lo valla In laws nearest police station ento teluskuni..aa PS ki call chesi chepthey they will give email address and can provide an anticipatory complain that conspiracy nadusthundhi her in laws are blackmailing him ..but he is one getting Domestic abuse here  and in laws ki chepthey they are blackmailing me with this ani.

 

khel katham.

matured ga divorce ki proceed avvadam better instead of wasting time and energy on her, if no kids, its the easiest thing he can do to save himself as its clearly evident they both are not compatible in their outlook itself

 

[ranku_mogudu]

3 minutes ago, pakeer_saab said:

matured ga divorce ki proceed avvadam better instead of wasting time and energy on her, if no kids, its the easiest thing he can do to save himself as its clearly evident they both are not compatible in their outlook itself

 

yeah we can only fix if both are willing to stay together.. in this case guy is in Limbo and girl is adamant..kaani US lo divorce easy if she is working ..lekapothey she will claim alimony.. on contrary ammayi ego ki poyi.. India ochi In laws meedha case vesthey poragaadu ginkuntadu gila gila

[Rajnichitti]

Me brother ni divorce tiskomanu and make sure that he lives peacefully

[JackSeal]

5 hours ago, SahitiD said:

na tammuniki last year pendli ayindi love marriage. my sister in law is not allowing him to contact my parents. adi kakunda chinna vishayaniki doubt chestundi, ekadiki vellina live location ivvali ani adugutundi, yekkaiki vellina call answer cheyyaka pothe na tammudi friends wives and sisters ki link pedutundi. ma parents ni galeez matalu antundi.... my parents were in mid 60s, ee age lo vallu pani chesukoni tinalera antundi..ikkada cheppaleni buthulu tidutundi, my father is a farmer, polam ammi ma tammudiki ms chepincharu. taruvatha kavulu ki teesukoni farming chese vallu. ippudu age valana kastam avutundi anduke farming aapesaru.

ippudu malli vallani vyavasayam chesuko mantundi, me and my husband are supporting my parents from last 7 years. 2nd wave lo prents ki covid vachina time lo kuda call cheya nivvaledu. vallu chachipovali antundi. ma amma pachi panulu chesukoni moguduni poshinchukovachu ga antundi. mari intha la vuntara, na tammudu suicide chesukune alochalanalu vastunnai ante, one month back vadini valla wife ni intiki pilichi ma daggare vunchamu.. akada chala sardi cheppamu. koncham control ayyindi ammai. 

malli last one week nunchi edo oka laga anumanistundi, pratidaniki godava chestundi... ma maradalu valla akka divorce, pratidaniki tanu kalaga jesukuntundi, abbailu inthe adi idi ani.

ma tammudu tappu cheste vadu chesina tappu enti naku cheppandi, cheppalendi ithe ma husband ki cheppandi ani adiganu. vadu natho ma parents tho matladakudadu, valla wife cheppinatlu vinali and salary lo rents and other stuff kakunda, migitavi antha divorce sister account lo veyyali anta. so that she will build their future antundi. Sare kada ani oka 6 months ala vallu cheppinatle tana account lo veyinchamu money, ninna night call chala kaharchu pettamu pelli ki, ee six months pampinavi kuda saripoledu inka two months lo anni oka lekka ki vastai antunnaru. 

recent ga maku telisindi enti ante, ma sister ni law valla sister divorce taruvatha kuda tana ex tho tiruguthu vundi and money antha taanaki kharchu pedutundi ani. recent ga vadiki kotta car konipinchindi anta. 

ma brother valla in laws kuda valla daughters ne support chestunnaru. edina ante dowry harassment case file chespitam antunnaru. emi cheyyalo teliyadam ledu.

ee vishayam valla na personal life kuda ibbandi avutundi.

oka kid parents tho mataldadam tappa, ma parents ki ayye kharchulu anni nene chusukuntunna, kaneesam matladanivvadam ledu parents tho na brother ni.

edina idea vunte cheppandi. as a mom naku divorce lanti thoughts ante ne kastam, emi cheyyalo teliydam ledu

If no kids go for divorce… if have kids let time decides… last resort ask her sister to stop involving too much and visit a counsellor… have records of everything to avoid future harrassesment cases

[DummyVariable]

5 hours ago, SahitiD said:

na tammuniki last year pendli ayindi love marriage. my sister in law is not allowing him to contact my parents. adi kakunda chinna vishayaniki doubt chestundi, ekadiki vellina live location ivvali ani adugutundi, yekkaiki vellina call answer cheyyaka pothe na tammudi friends wives and sisters ki link pedutundi. ma parents ni galeez matalu antundi.... my parents were in mid 60s, ee age lo vallu pani chesukoni tinalera antundi..ikkada cheppaleni buthulu tidutundi, my father is a farmer, polam ammi ma tammudiki ms chepincharu. taruvatha kavulu ki teesukoni farming chese vallu. ippudu age valana kastam avutundi anduke farming aapesaru.

ippudu malli vallani vyavasayam chesuko mantundi, me and my husband are supporting my parents from last 7 years. 2nd wave lo prents ki covid vachina time lo kuda call cheya nivvaledu. vallu chachipovali antundi. ma amma pachi panulu chesukoni moguduni poshinchukovachu ga antundi. mari intha la vuntara, na tammudu suicide chesukune alochalanalu vastunnai ante, one month back vadini valla wife ni intiki pilichi ma daggare vunchamu.. akada chala sardi cheppamu. koncham control ayyindi ammai. 

malli last one week nunchi edo oka laga anumanistundi, pratidaniki godava chestundi... ma maradalu valla akka divorce, pratidaniki tanu kalaga jesukuntundi, abbailu inthe adi idi ani.

ma tammudu tappu cheste vadu chesina tappu enti naku cheppandi, cheppalendi ithe ma husband ki cheppandi ani adiganu. vadu natho ma parents tho matladakudadu, valla wife cheppinatlu vinali and salary lo rents and other stuff kakunda, migitavi antha divorce sister account lo veyyali anta. so that she will build their future antundi. Sare kada ani oka 6 months ala vallu cheppinatle tana account lo veyinchamu money, ninna night call chala kaharchu pettamu pelli ki, ee six months pampinavi kuda saripoledu inka two months lo anni oka lekka ki vastai antunnaru. 

recent ga maku telisindi enti ante, ma sister ni law valla sister divorce taruvatha kuda tana ex tho tiruguthu vundi and money antha taanaki kharchu pedutundi ani. recent ga vadiki kotta car konipinchindi anta. 

ma brother valla in laws kuda valla daughters ne support chestunnaru. edina ante dowry harassment case file chespitam antunnaru. emi cheyyalo teliyadam ledu.

ee vishayam valla na personal life kuda ibbandi avutundi.

oka kid parents tho mataldadam tappa, ma parents ki ayye kharchulu anni nene chusukuntunna, kaneesam matladanivvadam ledu parents tho na brother ni.

edina idea vunte cheppandi. as a mom naku divorce lanti thoughts ante ne kastam, emi cheyyalo teliydam ledu

Dowry theesukunnada eppudayina?

[ranku_mogudu]

6 minutes ago, DummyVariable said:

Dowry theesukunnada eppudayina?

ee rojullo katnam anatledhu bhayya.. maa vadiki ivi pettandi..memu ammayiki ivi pedatham ani regular usage gold lo peduthunnaru

[kevinUsa]

Conclusion enti

[DummyVariable]

4 minutes ago, ranku_mogudu said:

ee rojullo katnam anatledhu bhayya.. maa vadiki ivi pettandi..memu ammayiki ivi pedatham ani regular usage gold lo peduthunnaru

Normally property antha ammayi peru meedhanega istharu. Ala kadha?

[DummyVariable]

1 minute ago, kevinUsa said:

Conclusion enti

Current dowry harrasment laws favor women kaabatti OP emi cheyaledu. Direct ga velli jail lo koorchovadame. Scary.

[ranku_mogudu]

2 minutes ago, DummyVariable said:

Normally property antha ammayi peru meedhanega istharu. Ala kadha?

alaney istharu.. abbayi ki oka bracelet, rendu ungaralu,oka chain ( total in tulams)

atha gariki ivi pedatham , aadapaduchu ki ivi pedatham ani

,same ammayi ki memu pedatham ani antaru..pelli lo exchange happens.. so ideally its a will not dowry.

 

dowry harassment ki credibility undadhu unless there is a cash transaction directly involved or doola koddi photo's teesukuntey tappa.

 

most people say ichamu ani.. proof undadhu..law is in favor of girl.. so court verdict is in favor of girl.

 

 

 

[a_sagittarian]

4 hours ago, JogipetSrikanth said:

me brother ye brand gaajulu vaadatadu 

Srikanth ladies emporium anta 

[ranku_mogudu]

4 minutes ago, DummyVariable said:

Current dowry harrasment laws favor women kaabatti OP emi cheyaledu. Direct ga velli jail lo koorchovadame. Scary.

not really a scary.. courts already knows these tricks.so abbayi first mental harassment case pedithey, then court believes that girl will definitely use this law.. so.. it works then in favor of the guy.. as court knows that girl parents will use this weapon..

 

[PizzaReddy]

@covid1990

[Simple123]

valla sister ni kuda pelli chesukomanu mee vadini..  double bonaza. no money waste.