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Man up!!

Take your father’s words as suggestions and recommendations only but not as orders, that too if you think they are well thought out and help you. Ultimate decision making/ dictating the terms is you. Let him know that you are the one to experience pain if you blindly follow his orders, and so ultimate decision making or calling the shots should be you.

Any good father will understand if you convey this, and mend accordingly. If not, like others said, just ignore and still comfort him, considering his age and generation. Never be rude or argumentative.

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Cinema lo laga oka emotional speech ivvagane evaru maararu. Just accept that they wouldn't change. Either you need to speak up and be assertive- Action oriented or inka vellu anthe ani

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Enti andaru ila matladutunaru,,, father ki love unna, children meda chupiyaru,, ninu evaro 3rd person bad comment cheste, apudu father true thoughts in children bayatki vastadi,,, ee age lo valaki kav

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nothing like that. He's just a regular dad. all dads are kinda assholes. only degree varies. even you'll become an asshole after you become a dad. try not to.

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37 minutes ago, Raven_Rayes said:

nothing like that. He's just a regular dad. all dads are kinda assholes. only degree varies.

even you'll become an asshole after you become a dad. try not to.

I have decided to not have kids. They are annoying so your wish will be invalidated.

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indulo issue ekkada undhi.. your father thinks you are his son and is still protective. tellolu kooda alane untaru.. nee individuality lo nuvvu prove chesukoledhu. you failed to convince him you are grown up and your actions always caused losses. he is extra protective. inka friends antaava, if they left after he retired , it is not because of his attitue.. they dont have any work with him.. work unappudu musukuni padi undey vallu as your father had value.

 

dont think too deep, he is just being a father and your inability to do things is making you point him @3$%

 

 

gippudu inability untey US ochetodina jobs kottetodina intha sampadinchetodina ani childish argument tesukuraku...oka galli lo  padhi mandhi osthunnaru due to thuglaq universities 

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9 minutes ago, ranku_mogudu said:

indulo issue ekkada undhi.. your father thinks you are his son and is still protective. tellolu kooda alane untaru.. nee individuality lo nuvvu prove chesukoledhu. you failed to convince him you are grown up and your actions always caused losses. he is extra protective. inka friends antaava, if they left after he retired , it is not because of his attitue.. they dont have any work with him.. work unappudu musukuni padi undey vallu as your father had value.

 

dont think too deep, he is just being a father and your inability to do things is making you point him @3$%

 

 

gippudu inability untey US ochetodina jobs kottetodina intha sampadinchetodina ani childish argument tesukuraku...oka galli lo  padhi mandhi osthunnaru due to thuglaq universities 

nuvvu cheppedhi kooda childish gaaney undhi. 

he has nothing to prove to his father. oorikey waste yavvaram.

He's just trying to be nice  to his father. and he thinks he's not deserving of that. Its normal. Edho father antey ney goppodu, and he's just protective of you ani sollu enduku.

 

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3 minutes ago, Raven_Rayes said:

nuvvu cheppedhi kooda childish gaaney undhi. 

he has nothing to prove to his father. oorikey waste yavvaram.

He's just trying to be nice  to his father. and he thinks he's not deserving of that. Its normal. Edho father antey ney goppodu, and he's just protective of you ani sollu enduku.

 

sarey 15 years ki over matured Rayes Mama. you left ani chepthunnav kaani tanni tarimesaru ani ardham avuthundhi @3$%

 

chill nenu penta lo inka raayi veyyadaluchukoledhu!!

 

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Just now, ranku_mogudu said:

sarey 15 years ki over matured Rayes Mama. you left ani chepthunnav kaani tanni tarimesaru ani ardham avuthundhi @3$%

 

chill nenu penta lo inka raayi veyyadaluchukoledhu!!

 

andulo over mature emundhi. I love my mom. anthey.

I'm smart to avoid every toxic relationsihp.

nee laaga annitini pattukoni oogulaadanu. hehe..

ee db aey oka penta. ikkada vachi edho pedda pudingi veshalu enduku mama.

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father ki edho prove cheskovaalanta. lol.

ela prove cheskuntaaru? by marrying young like him, and by treating your own kids the way he treated you as a kid aa? dads never stop giving unsolicited bs advice, unless you prove that you are the alpha (another bs concept that only adds more pressure to your home)

salahalu ivvataaniki ostharu malla. lol.

break the vicious chain. don't go the route your father went. ignore him if its needed.

 

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20 minutes ago, Raven_Rayes said:

andulo over mature emundhi. I love my mom. anthey.

I'm smart to avoid every toxic relationsihp.

nee laaga annitini pattukoni oogulaadanu. hehe..

ee db aey oka penta. ikkada vachi edho pedda pudingi veshalu enduku mama.

22 posts thread lo esina nuvvu matladuthunnav...@3$%

Glad you are not a parent@3$%

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7 minutes ago, Raven_Rayes said:

I'm s0rry that you are.

nope I am very happy I am and my dad is much more openminded and we discuss in large and put our pov's across and weight

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