Dealing with my father

[ranku_mogudu]

1 minute ago, Raven_Rayes said:

dads are ashholes antey, maa ranku_mogudu anna ki kaalindhi paapam.

you are the living example of how assholish dads are.  

 your dad turned out to be an asshole

[migilindhi151]

1 hour ago, Raven_Rayes said:

live your life. help your mother.

Its not your job to understand him. Its his job to understand you.

move away and live your life

Bhayya story lo bbaaaagaa involve ayyi comment raasinavu ley

[Raven_Rayes]

Just now, ranku_mogudu said:

 your dad turned out to be an asshole

it doesn't matter now. He's passed away. you try not to be an asshole to your kid.

it looks by all measures that you are. and you will be.

[ranku_mogudu]

Just now, migilindhi151 said:

Bhayya story lo bbaaaagaa involve ayyi comment raasinavu ley

[ranku_mogudu]

Just now, Raven_Rayes said:

it doesn't matter now. He's passed away. you try not to be an asshole to your kid.

it looks by all measures that you are. and you will be.

thank you for your over affection. but still  for you

[Raven_Rayes]

2 minutes ago, ranku_mogudu said:

nope I am very happy I am and my dad is much more openminded and we discuss in large and put our pov's across and weight

lol. I'm talking about you as dad. how dumb are you to not even get the context? lol.

[Raven_Rayes]

Just now, ranku_mogudu said:

thank you for your over affection. but still  for you

what is 'over affection'? lol.

 

[migilindhi151]

1 minute ago, ranku_mogudu said:

lol

 

[Raven_Rayes]

17 minutes ago, ranku_mogudu said:

nope I am very happy I am and my dad is much more openminded and we discuss in large and put our pov's across and weight

your dad is so open minded and discusses everything with you, so much discussion that the only thing you have to say to someone who didn't  have a good relationsship with their father is to 'prove to father that he's worth something.

so did you start having a great relationship with your father after you proved your worth to hiim, or was he kind enough to give that much attention without you having to fret about it?

pick a side brother. don't make up bullshit on the run and pretend like you have something to say.

 

 

[ranku_mogudu]

22 minutes ago, Raven_Rayes said:

your dad is so open minded and discusses everything with you, so much discussion that the only thing you have to say to someone who didn't  have a good relationsship with their father is to 'prove to father that he's worth something.

so did you start having a great relationship with your father after you proved your worth to hiim, or was he kind enough to give that much attention without you having to fret about it?

pick a side brother. don't make up bullshit on the run and pretend like you have something to say.

 

 

still  for your father and you. He is definitely RIP now. He was open because I opened up. my side is always clear and had balls to confront when required. the TS is mangalavaram types and he didnt even put his efforts in a right way( he only put it in a way he thinks right). classic example of his father friends is really a good justification that he is right to satisfy his self centered thoughts

[Raven_Rayes]

Just now, ranku_mogudu said:

still  for your father and you. He is definitely RIP now. He was open because I opened up. my side is always clear and had balls to confront when required. the TS is mangalavaram types and he didnt even put his efforts in a right way( he only put it in a way he thinks right). classic example of his father friends is really a good justification that he is right to satisfy his self centered thoughts

was he open enough to tell you that kids don't always have good relationships with their fathers?

or did he insist that its upto the kid to make sure that the relationship with father is excellent? hmm? you are digging yourself into a hole here. lol.

you are either lying or you are brainwashed to think that your relationship was awesome. That's what I'm gathering from the bullshit you are making up.

[ranku_mogudu]

4 minutes ago, Raven_Rayes said:

was he open enough to tell you that kids don't always have good relationships with their fathers?

or did he insist that its upto the kid to make sure that the relationship with father is excellent? hmm? you are digging yourself into a hole here. lol.

you are either lying or you are brainwashed to think that your relationship was awesome. That's what I'm gathering from the bullshit you are making up.

 Lol did you ever reciprocate with your on any of your discussions( firstly I think you instantly snapped out of the conversation when he said no ), you just are trying to cover up your ass

from what I read in this thread, you just are trying to argue to  prove your point of view than trying to get to a common ground. Lucky your father is resting in peace now

 

I am in a much better hole that you are ..peace out!

 

 

[Raven_Rayes]

1 minute ago, ranku_mogudu said:

 Lol did you ever reciprocate with your on any of your discussions( firstly I think you instantly snapped out of the conversation when he said no ), you just are trying to cover up your ass

from what I read in this thread, you just are trying to argue to  prove your point of view than trying to get to a common ground. Lucky your father is resting in peace now

 

I am in a much better hole that you are ..peace out!

I clearly said that it is upto the father to maintain a good relationship with his son/daughter.

No, I never made any effort to be friendly with my dad. I don't have to.

What common ground do you want me to find with someone who thinks that kids should prove something to their dads to earn their respect? its the dumbest fcuking thing I ever heard.

all the kid has to do is make his own life and not depend on his parents. he/she has no obligations beyond that. Its their personal love for their parents that make them tend to their needs after they've grown out of parents. and it depends on how parents treat them too. Its not a one way street where kid is forced to prove his/her worth everytime. That is the definition of a toxic relationship.

I still don't understand what you got from long open discussions from your dad. Didn't you get that your relationship is unique and something to be cherished, and probably not shared by other dads-sons across the world? Or did it make you feel that you've unlocked the secret to life is having a great relationship with your dad? and that you should proselytize the sh1t out of that? lol.

you are just funny. how seriously you take yourself. lol.

[Peddayana]

Desi Dads expect kids to follow what they say but they will not listen to kids 

[sri_sri999]

4 hours ago, Raven_Rayes said:

ignore him, and do your thing.

fathers can easily be ignored. I stopped talking to my father when I was 15yrs old. don't even feel bad. you don't owe anything to him.

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